@Load
A very nice one,so many a time couples tend to break up and go thier separate ways just because they neglect the so many little things that they used to do when they are young and crazily in love.Its high time we all know wealth is an intergral part of any marriage but it is not all that is required.
@babel and doyin
Both of u should really grow up,if u wanna get personal why not get ur details and do that privately instead of boring the house with ur dry yarns

Every person is entitled to his or her own opinion. Why being hard to someone who just gave his or her personal view on how to make marriage last and wax in love. She has not cursed any person. I believe the thread call for contributions, and here someone has given her own contribution.

Like i keep telling people, marriage will definitely get boring at a point in time.
A good way to spice ur marrige is by getting distracted a bit. Like som1 said cheat on ur spouse say once in 6 months, but i would prefer once in a year.

Lets be realistic here, Imagine you with the same woman for years, same physical feelings, same food and the likes, men na God go help man.
But when the kids come in, the marriage get interesting a bit, but for how long.

Any way i hope when i marry i would look for possible ways to spice my marriage up.

guess i should marry 3 wives.

or what do u guys think.

Thats d more reason you will have to marry a club girl, cruise all d time.never a dull moment u dig?

I think its best to be single. Just be a single parent and enjoy ur life.
Get some one pregnant, colect the baby and live life to the fullest.

ehie, trust me u`ld EVENTUALLY get tired of that kinda life, trust me!!!!

boy steve:

Thats d more reason you will have to marry a club girl, cruise all d time.never a dull moment u dig?

like u`ld actually marry a clubgirl abi??

So many prudes on this bloody thread, asking whether one is married bla bla bla

If you cannot release yourself with all the anonymity that this forum affords

I wonder how bloody conservative you lot are at home.

I reckon you should try something other than the missionary position

bloody Missionaries

ehie007:

Like som1 said cheat on your spouse say once in 6 months, but i would prefer once in a year.

I assume your wife is extended this same courtesy?

Spice up yourself by being unpredicatable, that way the marriage is naturally spiced up

i haven't applied to that institution yet, so i wouldn't know.

I heard it's a boring institution with annoying rugrats and you are locked in this jail for life

not looking forward to that, but wetin man go do? no-one wants to die alone and wrinkled

alone and wrinkled

or in a polygamous home


*thinks*

@TOH:

I heard it's a boring institution with annoying rugrats and you are locked in this jail for life

boring or otherwise, do you believe everything you hear?

[center]My Tips For Spicing Up the Marriage:[list][/center]
1. less sex, and more teasing
2. less sex, and more MouthAction
3. Flirt with Other people
4. Let the spouse "catch you" looking at them lustfully
5. have sex all of a sudden as the other in about to go to work
6. send sexy pics and erotic text messages via cell phone[/li]
7. Dress extra sexy and act like u don't care if they notice.
8. FLIRT with your mate like u would if you were were single.

I've seen good tips here & I'm seeing reasons why marriage fails beyond repair.!!!

Tanna:

[center]My Tips For Spicing Up the Marriage:[list][/center]
1. less sex, and more teasing
2. less sex, and more MouthAction
3. Flirt with Other people
4. Let the spouse "catch you" looking at them lustfully
5. have sex all of a sudden as the other in about to go to work
6. send sexy pics and erotic text messages via cell phone[/li]
7. Dress extra sexy and act like u don't care if they notice.
8. FLIRT with your mate like u would if you were were single.

I wonder why you didn't add,bring in another woman.
Isn't that what you told us somewhere else?

Tanna, i dey enjoy you jare like bush is enjoying people dying in Iraq, keep dem coming

trendy:

Spice up yourself by being unpredicatable, that way the marriage is naturally spiced up

Try to add spicy food to your cuisine like Chinese Sichuan cai
Pray to God to take control of your marriage.

Some of the post here shows the Tsunamies & Hurricanes that battles marriage which are embedded in us.

Future of nigeria is in our hand ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

+osisi:

I wonder why you didn't add,bring in another woman.
Isn't that what you told us somewhere else?

Lmao. abi o.

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@Load
A very nice one,so many a time couples tend to break up and go their separate ways just because they neglect the so many little things that they used to do when they are young and crazily in love.Its high time we all know wealth is an intergral part of any marriage but it is not all that is required.
@babel and doyin
Both of u should really grow up,if u want to get personal why not get your details and do that privately instead of boring the house with your dry yarns

Look dearie--learn to mind your own business!!!!!!!!!!If you do not like the yarns like you call it--just head to business secton or religious section and hook up with your kind.  For your info I am seriously PMSing and I am about to unload some not-so-rosy sh*t on you.  This is your last warning! Not in the mood for any of your crap ok?

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Re: How To Make A Marriage Spicey?
« #43 on: Yesterday at 02:51:18 PM » 

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Every person is entitled to his or her own opinion.  Why being hard to someone who just gave his or her personal view on how to make marriage last and wax in love.  She has not cursed any person.  I believe the thread call for contributions, and here someone has given her own contribution


Don't mind the ragamuffin   If we all agree on a given topic, how can the thread be interesting?  Like we all have to agree or something?  That is why I say when If I die and have an opportunity to come back to this world--it will never be as a Nigerian if I had my way.  Boring cows!!!!

Tanna:

[center]My Tips For Spicing Up the Marriage:[list][/center]


_{1. less sex, and more teasing}


2. less sex, and more MouthAction
3. Flirt with Other people
4. Let the spouse "catch you" looking at them lustfully
5. have sex all of a sudden as the other in about to go to work
6. [b]send sexy pics and erotic text messages via cell phone[/li]
7. Dress extra sexy and act like u don't care if they notice.[/b]8. [b]FLIRT with your mate like u would if you were were single.

Babeegirleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!  Na you talk am!  A dey "year''
you!!!!  Now this is a girl that knows shit!!!!!   I like #1 the best!!!! _{----the tin dey tire person sef!!!!}

+osisi:

I wonder why you didn't add,bring in another woman.
Isn't that what you told us somewhere else?

+osisi, which wan be ya own sef? -------Abeg make you lef us hand nauuuuuuuuuuuuu Gurlz just want to have some fun!!!! Lie down on top of your "big bros" for the next 100 years and let us be oooooooooooooooooooooooh!!!!

Hmmmm. Interesting discourse by u all.

LORAIN:

Hmmmm. Interesting discourse by u all.

Who be this now

@ babel
Look dearie--learn to mind your own business!!!!!!!!!!If you do not like the yarns like you call it--just head to business secton or religious section and hook up with your kind. For your info I am seriously PMSing and I am about to unload some not-so-rosy sh*t on you. This is your last warning! Not in the mood for any of your crap ok?

Whyare u so so soooo mad,just gave u a candid advice and u wanna tell everyone how bitchy you can be.Comon go on and offload watever not-so-rosy sh*t on me.

JERRY-08:

@ babel
Look dearie--learn to mind your own business!!!!!!!!!!If you do not like the yarns like you call it--just head to business secton or religious section and hook up with your kind. For your info I am seriously PMSing and I am about to unload some not-so-rosy sh*t on you. This is your last warning! Not in the mood for any of your crap ok?

Whyare u so so soooo mad,just gave u a candid advice and u want to tell everyone how bitchy you can be.Comon go on and offload watever not-so-rosy sh*t on me.

Why won't I be mad?  Can't you see we are having a great time here?  Prudes like you want to spoil the parade.  Who are you trying to protect anyway?  All these rotten Nairalanders who fly in the day time as well as in the night time? Come here and pretend and do crap offline!!! Please have some "cyberous etiquette" and let people be with their opinions! As for being "bitchy"--- you will get your chance soon!  For now, I got work to do!!!! See you later!

, and topic issssssssssssssss, HOW TO MAKE A MARRIAGE SPICEY!!!

still on the way to the institution. will know better when i get there.

BRING IN DRAMA!
Yeah,u heard read me right!
Bring in drama! introduce activities to your marriage. If posibble pre-define your unification as a venture(before going to the alter).See both yourselfs as rangers sent from another world to conquere planet earth various intriguing challenges.
dont just make marriage a "FUCKING" affair becouse that is usually the first aspect that will bore you.
child bearing and raising,intra family relationships, religion,buisness, politics, entertainment are all but few of the issues u could weave into your marriage and make them matters of serious intreast. with u and your spouse on one side (the winning side) and the world on the other side.
Before u know it (God's willing) ur grandchildren are all over the place and you'll find yourself whistling nonstalgically to your spouse ", funny how time flies.