Hi peeps, I once read the below question from a lady and would like to have your opinons. Appears controversial  though. TGIF

"Okay so i have a question about what makes you a virgin. I know that different people fell different ways about this subject but i want opinions. I havent had s e x but i have given oral, and hand jobs, and i have been fi ng ered. Am I still considered a virgin or am i not because i have done some sex ual activities."

She's not a virgin.

In the original term virgin refers to a person who has no knowledge of s[i]e[/i]xu[i]a[/i]l relations whether that pertains to physical manifestation or mere conversation.

She is not wholly innocent, your virginity cannot be compromised. She committed acts and although maybe not penetrative or v[i]a[/i]g[i]i[/i]nal sex she participated in s[i]e[/i]xu[i]a[/i]l activities.

It's not purely a physical thing, it's mental as well because whether she had kept to herself but harbored thoughts pertaining to sex then she still wouldn't be categorized as a virgin.

Lastly there is a difference between one who is celibate and one who is a virgin.

However that is just my opinion.

claremont:

To the best of my knowledge, a lady who hasn't had her hymen broken by the rigours of penetrative s-ex IS a virgin. It doesn't matter if she has performed other non-v/aginal s-ex acts, the v-aginal hymen remains the only objective and scientific key for unlocking virginity. Virginity is NOT mental, it's purely physical; let's not bring confusion into a perfectly clear and straightforward topic.

Hey there, haven't seen you in a while . . .

. . .anyway let me just clarify because I believe you are referring to my comment in your statement. When I mentioned mental I meant when the subject occupies the mind as such is premeditated.

virgin is purity not only in composition but in disposition as well. . .

. . .however by your scientific definition that would mean some l[i]e[/i]sb[i]i[/i]ans are forever virginal beings.