Samantha124:
Let me leave this thread for married folks..🚶🏻‍♀️🚶🏻‍♀️🚶🏻‍♀️

Officialetila:
keep capping broke boy if not for cut 1 yesterday you know how many people for win millions,i and my 6 friends would’ve won 200m each yesterday ( better go to Twitter and follow mistafelix dude game will change your life

Dearlove2me:
If you don't want to hear the word divorce, then you behave well for both genders. And to correct your ideology, I am not the problem. Unless if you're not a just person. Can you rephrase this to your sister or your daughter in marriage?

duality:
Almost everyone says gambling is bad. Yet the bet shops are full of people

Dearlove2me:
And who told you i am not doing anything? Did I ask you for free money? Don't be too quick to jump into conclusion on someone you have not walk in their shoes.

ChizzyBuna:
Tell him to play Ac Milan vs Inter over 2.5
And thank me later..

Dearlove2me:
Is like I'm in a sound prof house shouting on top of my voice and no one is hearing me. It seems they don't even understand what I'm going through.

I explained everything to my family and everyone including my mother, and they keep advicing me to stand on my feet and fight for my home, so long as they's no violence. That I shouldn't divorce my husband.
We always have heated argument, raising voice at each other.

My mother inlaw on the other hand, was crying on the phone. Telling me not to mention that name (divorce) ever again.
All the family members are not in support of divorce, but the main person I'm married to seems not to care at all.


He obviously refused to stop gambling away with any money that comes to his hand.
He presently have no job and he's owning a lot.

He's addicted and he's not making effort to stop. This is the root problem in my home. Because he exhibit all the wrong behavior as a result of this addiction.
Once he have any little money, his attitude, everything changed. He becomes scary. Until he finishes everything in betting, I wouldn't be able to talk to him and he will listen.

What should I do? Where do I go that I wouldn't look like a disobedient person, dispite everyone's pleade?
I'm using all my time to cry, qurrel and grieve here. Can't find myself.
I am not financially stable to make a move without my family's support.

Godwin4444:
na 1- 0 them play ooo

Dearlove2me:
I have prayed about it, I have calmly talked to him. I have cried severally on his shoulder and he promised to stop, I have shouted, done everything, but he's not willing to let go.

ahnie:

You sef na punter,not surprised!
Advice the lady what to do with your buddy in the punt industry,seems she's frustrated with him.

Godwin4444:
don’t b ridiculous

I watch ball like tomorrow no dey n I once have a bet shop after my service but despite that me I no dey bet ooo cos d story no dey end well

I had to stop d business cos it ruins life a lot, no matter wetin dem chop for there they must bring it back d following day

You still get small sense for that your conehead like raw egg.
.

D thing is d guy should get a job n pick up another addiction like playing video games

Dearlove2me:
He really does annoying things. How can a grown man gamble away with all he has and return home empty expecting food to eat from his wife and little baby whom he left without anything?
My attitude has nothing to do here. What I tolerant, even you can not withstanding it.

Yesterday was the very first time I really insulted him. It was very annoying but I later regretted it though.

Skyfornia:
If you have done enough and he doesn't want to change..join him. They said if you can't beat them, then join them.

Locate his popular betting spot and meet him there, as he is staking games, stake your own too. Two of you will join hand and go home empty after loosing..he won't expect you to prepare food at home since both of you went to work gamble at the betting shop..

You will sleep with empty stomachs, but make sure your baby dey chop.

Na the man go use him hand begin advice you say make una stop.

No be only him sabi madd

Berankis:

Werey leleyi o
Gambling is big issue... For a fact that you see yourself winning big and having a breakthrough for once will always make you return to gambling, it is worse when you are not financially strong and you see it as a way out. It will bring you down and all the people around will also go down with you. Only a very few get lucky, most people lose!
May God help all Naija stakers and gamblers.
May God help me too!

Emmanuel909090:
All this half backed ladies in our generation, is the reason of failed homes.

Kobojunkie:
Praying to whom exactly? Are you kidding?

You see, Scripture states that God does not answer the prayers of the unrighteous; the pleas and requests and every petition, praise, offering, work, plea, sacrifice, etc., of the unrighteous are tainted by their sins(disobedience/unholiness) and are hence an abomination to God. So, what is definite is that even your many pleas for the forgiveness of sins are not answered by God given that God made no special exemptions for that kind of plea. No amount of praying can cause God to change His mind regarding that which concerns the unrighteous by the way. So if you are thinking of prescribing more prayers that only means you really don't understand or know God at all.

God, however, openly bragged about how He only answers the prayers of the righteous; He delights in granting them the desires of their heart meaning that they are those who are loved by Him. For this very reason, Jesus Christ urged His followers to seek first the Kingdom of God and God's Righteousness in order that all things— the blessings and rewards of the Kingdom of God(holiness), answers to prayers included—shall be added on to them. And as Jesus Christ explained in His Gospel, the only way to become Holy, and then also Righteous, is by way of continuous submission and obedience to the teachings and commandments of Jesus Christ, god's Truth and Law in the Kingdom of god - John 8 vs 31 - 36 & John 14 vs 15 - 23. Jesus Christ is the only way. Obedience to the Truth of God is the one and only path to righteousness. No amount of praying and other religious rituals can accomplish that.

God deals indirectly with the unrighteous, the same way He deals with the unbelievers including the wicked and the ungrateful and that is by pouring out His mercy and kindness on them daily. So every time as an unrighteous you feel that God has answered your prayer know that at that same moment, or moments before that, God also provided the same mercy or similar to someone else across the world — or maybe just across from you— who does not even believe in God, nor asked God for anything. So, if answers from God are what you seek, then do what Jesus Christ said you should, which is to seek first the Kingdom of God(holiness), and then God's righteousness, in order that all these things —the blessings and rewards of the Kingdom of God(including answers to prayers) can be added to you.

Magic has a better chance of happening to her than God hearing her prayer. She needs to get off her arse and move for the sake of her own life and future.

Kobojunkie:
Praying to whom exactly? Are you kidding?

You see, Scripture states that God does not answer the prayers of the unrighteous; the pleas and requests and every petition, praise, offering, work, plea, sacrifice, etc., of the unrighteous are tainted by their sins(disobedience/unholiness) and are hence an abomination to God. So, what is definite is that even your many pleas for the forgiveness of sins are not answered by God given that God made no special exemptions for that kind of plea. No amount of praying can cause God to change His mind regarding that which concerns the unrighteous by the way. So if you are thinking of prescribing more prayers that only means you really don't understand or know God at all.

God, however, openly bragged about how He only answers the prayers of the righteous; He delights in granting them the desires of their heart meaning that they are those who are loved by Him. For this very reason, Jesus Christ urged His followers to seek first the Kingdom of God and God's Righteousness in order that all things— the blessings and rewards of the Kingdom of God(holiness), answers to prayers included—shall be added on to them. And as Jesus Christ explained in His Gospel, the only way to become Holy, and then also Righteous, is by way of continuous submission and obedience to the teachings and commandments of Jesus Christ, god's Truth and Law in the Kingdom of god - John 8 vs 31 - 36 & John 14 vs 15 - 23. Jesus Christ is the only way. Obedience to the Truth of God is the one and only path to righteousness. No amount of praying and other religious rituals can accomplish that.

God deals indirectly with the unrighteous, the same way He deals with the unbelievers including the wicked and the ungrateful and that is by pouring out His mercy and kindness on them daily. So every time as an unrighteous you feel that God has answered your prayer know that at that same moment, or moments before that, God also provided the same mercy or similar to someone else across the world — or maybe just across from you— who does not even believe in God, nor asked God for anything. So, if answers from God are what you seek, then do what Jesus Christ said you should, which is to seek first the Kingdom of God(holiness), and then God's righteousness, in order that all these things —the blessings and rewards of the Kingdom of God(including answers to prayers) can be added to you.

Magic has a better chance of happening to her than God hearing her prayer. She needs to get off her arse and move for the sake of her own life and future.

bukatyne:


Not the chronic gambler, it is the wife who is his victim that is the cause of the failed home.

Onyeoma.

LaRosa01:
I am listening, you are the definately the problem. you can only treathen a weak man with divorce,if it was me,the day it came out of your mouth,you would have been out of my house.as for my sisters or daughters those black mail work for weak Men.would you wish a woman like yourself for your own son? we all know the answer to that.
please do and divorce so that Young man can progress before you distroy him ,please note even if you too remain together,your action would hurt you in the future. men never forget does who humilate them when they are down,so prepare to reap what you have planted when he starts progressing.

rafcrown:
When a woman is tired of a man , excuses will follow.
He is jobless now and he has no money and the woman wants to move on to where better dey.
Excuse he is a gambler.
In case he wins big you would claim 80 percent of his total wealth.

Oju4190:
If u have done everything then let him be.....chill.....later he eye go clear....just keep praying 4 him because prayer nor dey too much.....No need to b quarrelling u have tried ur best

Kobojunkie:
Dearlove2me, see dem! They will never subject themselves to such a miserable existence but will quickly, even without second thought consider it the best solution for women in marriage. If you look well, some of dem have developed a sick form of admiration for women who sit tight year after year praying and fasting for their dead marriages to rise from the dead. Deep down they know it won't ever happen but they cheer the foolishness on anyways because in their minds that is the lot of a woman in marriage.

They hide the wickedness behind the many mentions of the name of a God whose truth they have little to know real regard for. If you ask them, they won't hesitate to cast God as a liar by claiming He answers all of their prayers when in truth, they can't even tell which direction God breaths.

ChizzyBuna:
Tell him to play Ac Milan vs Inter over 2.5
And thank me later..

Oloki:



Take this advice madam. It might work for you.
Everything is not about quarreling and raising voices. Even though he is a broken guy presently, but the pride that's inbuilt in a man is in him. He might feel insulted by your attitudes

bukatyne:


Not the chronic gambler, it is the wife who is his victim that is the cause of the failed home.

Onyeoma.

Emmanuel909090:



I'm not praising the man either, if divorce is the first thing that come to your mind in any little problem, you are not supposed to marry, just stay single, there are other remedies.

Why not show him more love and convince him not to anytime you sense he has the urge to..

Women are keepers.

Kobojunkie:
Dearlove2me, see dem! They will never subject themselves to such a miserable existence but will quickly, even without second thought consider it the best solution for women in marriage. If you look well, some of dem have developed a sick form of admiration for women who sit tight year after year praying and fasting for their dead marriages to rise from the dead. Deep down they know it won't ever happen but they cheer the foolishness on anyways because in their minds that is the lot of a woman in marriage.

They hide the wickedness behind the many mentions of the name of a God whose truth they have little to know real regard for.

labake1:
God knows I hate men who gamble, smoke and drinks