am surprised at all these attacks on the poster.
if you took your time to read his post,
you will find that he is not sure if the girl is seducing him or his mind is playing games,
he has come for advice.
if you don't have anything to say, just close the trash can you call a mouth.
does the fear of God stop him from being human?
JEEZ!!!!
make una get sense oh

N/L

Who do we correct here?

Is it the secretary that has a sexy buttom or the her boss' mindset?

dubem3:

am surprised at all these attacks on the poster.
if you took your time to read his post,
you will find that he is not sure of what it is,
he has come for advice.
if you don't have any just close the trash can you call a mouth.
does the fear of God stop him from being human?
JEEZ!!!!
make una get sense oh

Read your post again and see if it makes sense.

omega25red:

Poster

are you serious? you are talking about a Secretary seducing you by adjusting her skirt in front of you 

[s]get your dirty mind out of the gutter because no one is seducing you and please stop allowing your mind to play tricks on you before you get fired for intimate harassment[/s].

And i am sure you have cable wires for veins & only ink flows in them

If you feel like she dresses too provocatively you should send an office wide memo or have your HR department send an office wide memo regarding office dress codes.

Possibly your only reasonable contribution.

[s]Also stop looking at the poor girl and stop plotting of how to get her in bed . If you have the fear of God as you say then you should be reading your bible.[/s]

Very daft comment without recourse to his environment,office not his private room or church

You must be outta reality to post the above comments.

So many Angel gabriels on here, Nobody Holly pass even pastor dey fall sef,

N/L

Who do we correct here?

Is it the secretary that has a sexy buttom or the her boss' mindset?

NL is not the best platform to seek for good advice.

Poster, if you are not married or in serious relationship, PLEASE WELCOME HER AND BANG HER. But play safe.

The pretty and sexy secretary in our office with big boobs asked for it, I smooched her in the office and I invited her over to my residence and made love to her.

obowunmi:

OP: you are sick.

Why Because he is bold enough to own up to his challenge,which if you are a man face like most other men but choose to keep quiet,suffer in silence or like some comments go ahead and harass his secretary prolly she might succumb  

Frankly i think you are the SICK one who has refused to seek help when you need one

Immediately i saw the topic, i could almost guess what your complaints will be lol. But first like someone said tight wears are so common these days you cant conclude she's wearing it for u. Bt if she ALWAYS adjusts in front of u, then its fishy. Or if the tight wear and adjustment started after you noticed lapses in her work, its fishy too but if not then the problem is you sometimes we wear tight skirts without meaning to cause confusion. And there is no way you wouldnt make her feel bad when you tell her she dresses badly bt you can bring up dress topics and commend another staff who dresses modestly when she is around.d when you tell her she dresses badly bt you can bring up dress topics and commend another staff who dresses modestly when she is around.

Why don't I have this kind of problems erhh,
It reminds of this song from sec sch,
Some have food but cannot eat,
some can eat but have no food etc etc.

pssword

OP it depends on how u see things as a psychoanalyst, i tell u people either see a cup half full or half empty while others don't see the cup at all,

In ur case this is either a problem or an opportunity or u can choose not to see either.

The choice is urs,

But out of curiosity the babe she fine?

There is a trend on NL that disgusts me so much. When a Post is aired for  opinions, the opening post from members of this Forum will come up with their opinions which the OP might settle for or not; but when the post is reaching denouement some of the big boys that has been asleep will come up criticizing all the comments of the first page and others will follow, sometimes rain abuses to expose the posters illiteracy or ignorance for a gratification of his inputs. What I don't really understand is how the  issues being discussed turn the table so fast but with high criticism of the early posts


Must you comment even when you don't have any concrete reason to do so? And why must you drive you own points by harshly criticising comments from posters before you

@orikinla and were you given an award?

There is a trend on NL that disgusts me so much. When a Post is aired for  opinions, the opening post from members of this Forum will come up with their opinions which the OP might settle for or not; but when the post is reaching denouement some of the big boys that has been asleep will come up criticizing all the comments of the first page and others will follow, sometimes rain abuses to expose the posters illiteracy or ignorance for a gratification of his inputs. What I don't really understand is how the  issues being discussed turn the table so fast but with high criticism of the early posts


Must you comment even when you don't have any concrete reason to do so? And why must you drive you own points by harshly criticising comments from posters before you

@ pinkrex, you are doing exactly the same thing.oooooo,  LOL

ideylaff:



@ pinkrex, you are doing exactly the same thing.oooooo,  LOL

How? Or are you laffing with your head?

pinkrex:

How? Or are you laffing with your head?

Lol, you make me laugh

After the advice this man reads here he is going to go to work today and jump on that woman. to the OP why don't you get your policy on dress code and hand it to her. I hope it is not just you who is Hot and this poor woman wearing a buba and wrapper to work is now looking sexy to you

Outstrip:

After the advice this man reads here he is going to go to work today and jump on that woman. to the OP why don't you get your policy on dress code and hand it to her. I hope it is not just you who is Hot and this poor woman wearing a buba and wrapper to work is now looking sexy to you

Best comment since this thread started.  

Barrywhite8620:

how am i sure dis dude nova f*u*c*k dis lady self?
Bcuz dis topic don dey here since yersterday oooo
U guyz are here wasting your time say na one help one dude make don go paradise come back
Abeg come tell me how d jolly take start and how it end joooo

I'll really like 2 know u better, we both shared d same opinion.

@OP's

My advice for you is to contact your HR head to send out memo to all staffs regarding the dress code in your company or call her and advice her on her dressing in a respective manner if she's still want to continue working in your department/office 'cos visitor are complaining of her frequent adjustment of fitted dress, "I have a similar case here in my office as well and that's how we eradicate it among all the staffs"

@OP's

[color=#000099][i][b][color=#000099][i][b][color=#000099]My advice for you is to contact your HR head to send out memo to all staffs regarding the dress code in your company or call her and advice her on her dressing in a respective manner if she's still want to continue working in your department/office 'cos visitor are complaining of her frequent adjustment of fitted dress, "I have a similar case here in my office as well and that's how we eradicate it among all the staffs" [/color][/b][/i] [/color][/color][/b][/i]

sack her now

Bt why @ highland

@OP
Have you seen the movie secretary, if not you may want to watch it with her.

Kei this na serious temptation
Always remember the story of Joseph when such temptation arises.

If you like her buttocks, treat it right. Take her out and tell her.

If she says yes, then you are in. If nope, act like it never came up, like the boss that you still her. Win-Win for you if u ask me

@Poster:
You are the one who has a problem . Why should she have to suffer for your problem?. It amazes me how we Nigerians always look for someone else to blame for our problems and weaknesses. This is beyond male chauvinism, this is outright stupidity. What about her rights? Unless your company has strict dress code,does she not have the right to dress as she pleases as a single lady? Your  are trying to make excuses for your own weeknesses and then use your position to oppress her. Pls tell me, If she was your superior, would you have any beef about her beauty and dress sense? I'm sure you would not. You are just a weak-minded control freak who is looking for a legitimate excuse to oppress another person.
True Manhood is about self control and discipline. The conquest of self is the greatest conquest of all.
If its too much for you, sacrifice your position and resign. DO NOT OPPRESS THIS LADY.

globexl:

@Poster:
You are the one who has a problem . Why should she have to suffer for your problem?. It amazes me how we Nigerians always look for someone else to blame for our problems and weaknesses. This is beyond male chauvinism, this is outright stupidity. What about her rights? Unless your company has strict dress code,does she not have the right to dress as she pleases as a single lady? Your  are trying to make excuses for your own weeknesses and then use your position to oppress her. Pls tell me, If she was your superior, would you have any beef about her beauty and dress sense? I'm sure you would not. You are just a weak-minded control freak who is looking for a legitimate excuse to oppress another person.
True Manhood is about self control and discipline. The conquest of self is the greatest conquest of all.
If its too much for you, sacrifice your position and resign. DO NOT OPPRESS THIS LADY.

As candid as it gets