Even the yorubas know that the proclivity to promiscuity is alarmg and they can't help it; i believe is rather embedded in their culture, this often results to divorce. They hv got to go back to the roots of this lifestyle and salvage the situation!

Yoruba women liberated?? What does that even mean? Some folks here just like to make faulty assumptions to defend the indefencible sha. So Igbo women are in bondage, abi all because they are ready to see their marriages work and do not consider divorce as an option.
Some are even trying to make out Yoruba women as this no-nonsense, less submissive amazons. Anyway, I find it funny that only Yoruba people have such views of their women like that cos in reality they are the most docile and extremely submissive women in the pack if we were to take a sample space of Nigerian Southern Women.
Sentiments aside, I have had my own fair share of Yoruba sweethearts and I make bold to say that their women are very submissive, docile and easy to please. If we were talking on average terms, those of us that have dated women outside of our tribe can attest to the fact that Igbo women will consider a lot of things before they agree to date you let alone marry you. It is common knowledge that just like their counter part, Igbo women are agressive and a lil headstrong, you as a man will have to earn their submission to you, you won't get it on a platter hence the general saying that Igbo girls like money cos they won't even look at your face if you are not on the average, financially well off to keep up with the financial demands of a serious and intersting relationship.
Truth be told, if we were to compare who is more submissive & subservient in a relationship between Igbo women and Yoruba women, the latter will come tops.
Yet submissiveness or the lack of it can not realy account for the high incidences of divorce and separation among yoruba families and couples, especially when it is compared to the very conservative Igbo families. It is even laughable to want to attribute it to Yoruba women being liberated cos in my humble opinion, there are far more uneducated & unexposed Yoruba women than can be said of Igbo women. Also, even here in Lagos, there are more financially well off Igbo people( both males and females) than their yoruba counterparts. These people have got the money to get all the freedom, exposure and liberation ideology they want not to talk of the Igbos in both the SE and SS region, many of whom are not any different financially from their brothers in west. In fact, if there is any culture that encourages liberation, self-reliance and sufficiency it is the Igbo culture. That is why an average Igbo man is more inclined to having his own business than wait for eternity for some high paying white collar jobs. So the argument of Yoruba women being liberated more than their igbo counterpart has no iota of realism in its claims if were to look at things devoid of any sentiments. Yoruba women are not any more liberated than their Igbo counterparts, lets not make hasty assumptions and conclusions based on what we see alone in Lagos. There are just as much Igbo women in business, if not more sef as their yoruba counterparts. Just as it can be claimed that Yoruba women engage in commerce likewise is the case of Igbo women, the only difference here is that she in not neccessarily the bread winner of the family unlike the yoruba women whose husbands most times do not show any serious sense of responsibility towards both the woman and the childrien.
In conclusion, I believe culture and traditional beliefs play a very big role in how marriages in these two tribes fare in the long run. Cultural idiosyncracies, traditional views on divorce and what is generally accepted by the customs of these two tribes.

My question is why is this hungry Rhyms so obsessed with this. writing epistles that no sane person will bother to read. Get over it. People cant even write anything without this dork coming with his sermon yarning dust in response. Alafishe.

ThiefOfHearts:

My question is why is this hungry Rhyms so obsessed with this. writing epistles that no sane person will bother to read. Get over it. People cant even write anything without this dork coming with his sermon yarning dust in response. Alafishe.

Don't be insultive you daughter of a prostitutee.
EADIOT.

tpia@:

Born2fuck aka walestar came out of p.ornography section to contribute to the thread.

I guess the op is his buddy cos i cant think of any other explanation.

The most entertaining comment on this thread so far.

coogar:

i humbly reiterate, you are a twunt!

M U M U

abadaba:

My name is abadaba and my mother is a harlot

My condolences. Oloriburuku omo

rhymz:
, even here in Lagos, there are more financially well off Igbo people( both males and females) than their yoruba counterparts. These people have got the money to get all the freedom, exposure and liberation ideology they want not to talk of the Igbos in both the SE and SS region, many of whom are not any different financially from their brothers in west. In fact, if there is any culture that encourages liberation, self-reliance and sufficiency it is the Igbo culture.

^^^^^^^^^yeah right stop lying, 80% of the population in Lagos, Nigeria is Yoruba and many of them have businesses and more money then igbo's there. less then 30% of the population is igbo & other tribes in Lagos. there is nothing wrong with them having business in Lagos but Lagos is Yorubaland, so why are you showing off about igbo's who left the east like enugu and etc and did business in Lagos. If you guys are so perfect with business go back to the east and set up business there: http://www.city-data.com/world-cities/Lagos.html

Most of the money of that state is generated by Yoruba's and it makes sense, most of the money in Enugu is generated by igbo's. I'm Yoruba and your claim is rubbish; if you were right why does Lagos give free education(thank God for Awolowo was there for Yoruba's) but the east no such thing; knock it off with the fairy tales. If Yoruba was so poor they would have been running out of Lagos but the are more inclined to stay in Lagos and yorubaland but it is igbo that are running to yorubaland, so don't show off here.

^^^^^^stop chopping off your wives: http://lindaikeji..com/2008/08/nigerian-men-are-killing-their-wives-in.html
kidnapping like no tomorrow in the east: http://allafrica.com/stories/201006281327.html  , comparing yourselves to Yoruba in every thread to make yourselves feel important.

Ybutterfly:

^^^^^^^^^yeah right stop lying, 80% of the population in Lagos, Nigeria is Yoruba and many of them have businesses and more money then igbo's there. less then 30% of the population is igbo & other tribes in Lagos. there is nothing wrong with them having business in Lagos but Lagos is Yorubaland, so why are you showing off about igbo's who left the east like enugu and etc and did business in Lagos. If you guys are so perfect with business go back to the east and set up business there: http://www.city-data.com/world-cities/Lagos.html

Most of the money of that state is generated by Yoruba's and it makes sense, most of the money in Enugu is generated by igbo's. I'm Yoruba and your claim is rubbish; if you were right why does Lagos give free education(thank God for Awolowo was there for Yoruba's) but the east no such thing; knock it off with the fairy tales. If Yoruba was so poor they would have been running out of Lagos but the are more inclined to stay in Lagos and yorubaland but it is igbo that are running to yorubaland, so don't show off here.

^^^^^^stop chopping off your wives: http://lindaikeji..com/2008/08/nigerian-men-are-killing-their-wives-in.html
kidnapping like no tomorrow in the east: http://allafrica.com/stories/201006281327.html  , comparing yourselves to Yoruba in every thread to make yourselves feel important.

Thank you jare. Are you minding that clown? How is someone so proud that they left their towns to open businesses in YORUBALAND? Alailojuti.

rhymz:

Yoruba women liberated?? What does that even mean? Some folks here just like to make faulty assumptions to defend the indefencible sha. So Igbo women are in bondage, abi all because they are ready to see their marriages work and do not consider divorce as an option.
Some are even trying to make out Yoruba women as this no-nonsense, less submissive amazons. Anyway, I find it funny that only Yoruba people have such views of their women like that cos in reality they are the most docile and extremely submissive women in the pack if we were to take a sample space of Nigerian Southern Women.
Sentiments aside, I have had my own fair share of Yoruba sweethearts and I make bold to say that their women are very submissive, docile and easy to please. If we were talking on average terms, those of us that have dated women outside of our tribe can attest to the fact that Igbo women will consider a lot of things before they agree to date you let alone marry you. It is common knowledge that just like their counter part, Igbo women are agressive and a lil headstrong, you as a man will have to earn their submission to you, you won't get it on a platter hence the general saying that Igbo girls like money cos they won't even look at your face if you are not on the average, financially well off to keep up with the financial demands of a serious and intersting relationship.
Truth be told, if we were to compare who is more submissive & subservient in a relationship between Igbo women and Yoruba women, the latter will come tops.
Yet submissiveness or the lack of it can not realy account for the high incidences of divorce and separation among yoruba families and couples, especially when it is compared to the very conservative Igbo families. It is even laughable to want to attribute it to Yoruba women being liberated cos in my humble opinion, there are far more uneducated & unexposed Yoruba women than can be said of Igbo women. Also, even here in Lagos, there are more financially well off Igbo people( both males and females) than their yoruba counterparts. These people have got the money to get all the freedom, exposure and liberation ideology they want not to talk of the Igbos in both the SE and SS region, many of whom are not any different financially from their brothers in west. In fact, if there is any culture that encourages liberation, self-reliance and sufficiency it is the Igbo culture. That is why an average Igbo man is more inclined to having his own business than wait for eternity for some high paying white collar jobs. So the argument of Yoruba women being liberated more than their igbo counterpart has no iota of realism in its claims if were to look at things devoid of any sentiments. Yoruba women are not any more liberated than their Igbo counterparts, lets not make hasty assumptions and conclusions based on what we see alone in Lagos. There are just as much Igbo women in business, if not more sef as their yoruba counterparts. Just as it can be claimed that Yoruba women engage in commerce likewise is the case of Igbo women, the only difference here is that she in not neccessarily the bread winner of the family unlike the yoruba women whose husbands most times do not show any serious sense of responsibility towards both the woman and the childrien.
In conclusion, I believe culture and traditional beliefs play a very big role in how marriages in these two tribes fare in the long run. Cultural idiosyncracies, traditional views on divorce and what is generally accepted by the customs of these two tribes.

Bros na wa for u o

alj_harem:


Bros na wa for u o

Hey you!! It is understandable if your peanut brain finds it hard to help you comprehend.
I aint your usual average, go and look for your kind, I'm way above your league.
I have got nothing else to say to a slowpoke!!

ThiefOfHearts:

Thank you jare. Are you minding that clown? How is someone so proud that they left their towns to open businesses in YORUBALAND? Alailojuti.

Obviously, you are either an accidental product of a failed marriage or you are a divocee as well. . LoL . . I am not sorry for harshly describing your situation. Anyway, I'm not interested in exchanging childish temper tantrums with a loser like you, I would advice you face the issue being discussed and argue your point like you have got some brain in that thick skull of yours.
If my views makes you mad and gives you stomach ulcer then I am all too glad to do so. Even if you drop dead this minute nobody will notice, it will just be a case of one less nitwit out of this world to make it a better place.

Notice how that omo ale didnt respond to Ybutterfly but decided to run his dirty phaggot mouth at me instead. Typical adodi, they cant argue with a dude, instead they take out their psychosis on women. Predictable SOB.

Thiefofhearts and Ybutterfly, Did any Igbo guy or babe break your hearts. why the venom in your responses

Na only venom?

chines4:

Thiefofhearts and Ybutterfly, Did any Igbo guy or babe break your hearts. why the venom in your responses

Ybutterfly is an ignorant MOFO, giving response to his mumbo-jumbo and junk statistics will be giving him an undeserving credibility. Kid is all BRAWN and no BRAINS. Imagine the dolt claiming that Lagos is 80% Yoruba, why will any intelligent person indulge the kid and his crass ignorance? Let him get high on his own supply Jare!!
As for that unfortunate genetic garbage that calls herself a Thief, She can fall & die, who cares about what she has to say: it's all petty gutter lingos hurriedly put together in Yoruba language. That is my expectation of her, I will be surprised if she did not flaunt her ghetto abilities when intimidated by her superiors.
Sucks to be you. . Muheheheheheh

chines4:

Thiefofhearts and Ybutterfly, Did any Igbo guy or babe break your hearts. why the venom in your responses

Ybutterfly is an ignorant MOFO, giving response to his mumbo-jumbo and junk statistics will be giving him an undeserving credibility. Kid is all BRAWN and no BRAINS. Imagine the dolt claiming that Lagos is 80% Yoruba, why will any intelligent person indulge the kid and his crass ignorance? Let him get high on his own supply Jare!!
As for that unfortunate genetic garbage that calls herself a Thief, She can fall & die, who cares about what she has to say: it's all petty gutter lingos hurriedly put together in Yoruba language. That is my expectation of her, I will be surprised if she did not flaunt her ghetto abilities when intimidated by her superiors.
Sucks to be you. . Muheheheheheh

chines4:

Thiefofhearts and Ybutterfly, Did any Igbo guy or babe break your hearts. why the venom in your responses

Ybutterfly is an ignorant MOFO, giving response to his mumbo-jumbo and junk statistics will be giving him an undeserving credibility. Kid is all BRAWN and no BRAINS. Imagine the dolt claiming that Lagos is 80% Yoruba, why will any intelligent person indulge the kid and his crass ignorance? Let him get high on his own supply Jare!!
As for that unfortunate genetic garbage that calls herself a Thief, She can fall & die, who cares about what she has to say: it's all petty gutter lingos hurriedly put together in Yoruba language. That is my expectation of her, I will be surprised if she did not flaunt her ghetto abilities when intimidated by her superiors.
Sucks to be you. . Muheheheheheh

chines4:

Thiefofhearts and Ybutterfly, Did any Igbo guy or babe break your hearts. why the venom in your responses

Ybutterfly is an ignorant MOFO, giving response to his mumbo-jumbo and junk statistics will be giving him an undeserving credibility. Kid is all BRAWN and no BRAINS. Imagine the dolt claiming that Lagos is 80% Yoruba, why will any intelligent person indulge the kid and his crass ignorance? Let him get high on his own supply Jare!!
As for that unfortunate genetic garbage that calls herself a Thief, She can fall & die, who cares about what she has to say: it's all petty gutter lingos hurriedly put together in Yoruba language. That is my expectation of her, I will be surprised if she did not flaunt her ghetto abilities when intimidated by her superiors.
Sucks to be you. . Muheheheheheh

Imagine the dolt claiming that Lagos is 80% Yoruba

wow, so you really persuaded yourself lagos isnt yoruba?

Holy smokes, I just looked at the Votes and Yoruba is at 97%

I think the Mods are manipulating the votes, cause if the results of the poll

is true, it means that 1 out of 3 marriages in yorubaland ends in divorce.

Very sad, what ever happened to for better or for worst.

credulity is indeed much on nl.

OgidiBoy:

Holy smokes, I just looked at the Votes and Yoruba is at 97%

I think the Mods are manipulating the votes, cause if the results of the poll

is true, it means that 1 out of 3 marriages in yorubaland ends in divorce.

Very sad, what ever happened to for better or for worst.

why are you so concerned? wetin be your own? abeg take your fake "sympathy" comot. worry about the dead Igbo wives in the states. Olofo.

chines4:

Thiefofhearts and Ybutterfly, Did any Igbo guy or babe break your hearts. why the venom in your responses

Ybutterfly is an ignorant MOFO, giving response to his mumbo-jumbo and junk statistics will be giving him an undeserving credibility. Kid is all BRAWN and no BRAINS. Imagine the dolt claiming that Lagos is 80% Yoruba, why will any intelligent person indulge the kid and his crass ignorance? Let him get high on his own supply Jare!!
As for that unfortunate genetic garbage that calls herself a Thief, She can fall & die, who cares about what she has to say: it's all petty gutter lingos hurriedly put together in Yoruba language. That is my expectation of her, I will be surprised if she did not flaunt her ghetto abilities when intimidated by her superiors.
Sucks to be you. . Muheheheheheh

rhymz:

Ybutterfly is an ignorant MOFO, giving response to his mumbo-jumbo and junk statistics will be giving him an undeserving credibility. Kid is all BRAWN and no BRAINS. Imagine the dolt claiming that Lagos is 80% Yoruba, why will any intelligent person indulge the kid and his crass ignorance? Let him get high on his own supply Jare!!
As for that unfortunate genetic garbage that calls herself a Thief, She can fall & die, who cares about what she has to say: it's all petty gutter lingos hurriedly put together in Yoruba language. That is my expectation of her, I will be surprised if she did not flaunt her ghetto abilities when intimidated by her superiors.
Sucks to be you. . Muheheheheheh

bros how was ur day, hope everything is going well ?

Bros again na wa for u o

take it easy bro, you are fighting with women/girls for the past 3 days on this same thread

anyway take care brother.

alj_harem:


take it easy bro, you are fighting with women/girls for the past 3 days on this same thread

What were you expecting from a phaggot?

lol.

I wonder why Igbo men are fighting the "abuse" and "violent" claim, but Igbo women are not. hmmm

All in all, I no be Yoruba man property, but if my non-yoruba hubby should misbehave (there's a limit sha), na so I go disown am Na me, Yoruba woman talk am o.

Who cares? All this Igbo against Yoruba threads are unnecessary.

These two tribes haven't realized anonymous individuals are dogging them against each other for their own enjoyment.

Wake up

alj_harem:

bros how was your day, hope everything is going well ?

Bros again na wa for u o

take it easy bro, you are fighting with women/girls for the past 3 days on this same thread

anyway take care brother.

RETARDEEN ODECHI Alja-wateva da fck U call Urself these days, Pls don't quote me again or make any dumb references to me again, I don't do DUMBos!!! You can practice your lame sarcasm with your co-eadiots like the three women that're giving you a hard-on over the internet, those Biaaatches can go suck on a FAT ONE, I don't give a rat a$$ about their views, they are lame anyway. Now pack well, MUR'FCKIN slowpoke!!

rhymz:

Imagine the dolt claiming that Lagos is 80% Yoruba

^^^^^^^^^because it is true, Lagos is Yorubaland and I already put the source's up showing that Yoruba's make up that percentage( two thirds to 80% of the population in Lagos state is Yoruba, which makes sense because that is yoruba land territory, the official language there is Yoruba, etc: http://www.city-data.com/world-cities/Lagos.html

^^^^^^^^^Go back to Enugu and your territory, and leave Lagos alone where it belongs Yorubaland

One_Naira:

Who cares?  All this Igbo against Yoruba threads are unnecessary. 

These two tribes haven't realized anonymous individuals are dogging them against each other for their own enjoyment.

Wake up

^^^^^^^^no I am not you guys did that yourselves when you did yoruba bashing threads, so you guys were fighting each other already. I am enjoying some of you igbo guys getting a taste of you own medicine. Next time keep the yoruba people out of your mouths, since all you can do is talk trash about them, because we are not your people.

^^^^^^^^don't use me as a excuse because your own people started it, I am just retaliating, enough is enough

chines4:

Thiefofhearts and Ybutterfly, Did any Igbo guy or babe break your hearts. why the venom in your responses

NO, Is that your explanation; well I am just letting you guys see a taste of you own medicine, stop talking trash about Yoruba's on nairaland

rhymz:

RETARDEEN ODECHI Alja-wateva da fck U call Urself these days, Pls don't quote me again or make any dumb references to me again, I don't do DUMBos!!! You can practice your lame sarcasm with your co-eadiots like the three women that're giving you a hard-on over the internet, those Biaaatches can go suck on a FAT ONE, I don't give a rat a$$ about their views, they are lame anyway. Now pack well, MUR'FCKIN slowpoke!!

Bros I seriously don't Understand you. Do you derive joy in insulting people?