Purelive:
Nobody tells you that the attraction will one day fade

se na like this I go dey go. Is this all life has in stock for me going forward Na like this I go take live the rest of my life

b3llo:
Se.x will become a duty instead of the fun you enjoy as single.

Amalekki:

School runs at 52 may actually be fun and make you feel young instead of feeling like old man grandpa. There are two sides to every coin.

Celepope:
That women are very selfish and self centered. Always looking out for themselves and their family.

AlphaHakimi:
Marriage is the most critically crafted institution that is designed to control the behaviour of humans and ensure the controlled existence of mankind.

Please note that I used the word "control" in order to truly explain the nature of marriage. This is because, there is nothing you can achieve within Marriage that cannot be achieved outside of marriage for men.
Just name one thing you can achieve within the confines of marriage that you cannot achieve outside marriage.

Animals don't get married but yet they sustain the existence of their species.

Every factor that made you as a man go into marriage will become irrelevant after one year of marriage.

Now if you are saddled with this fact as a man, why don't you make marriage transactional just as women do?.

Don't settle for less. You're a MAN for goodness sake. Don't date or marry any girl who is poor or from a poor background. Any day the marriage stops serving your purpose please LEAVE because your wife will leave you any day you stop serving her purpose. Your children no matter their age will understand once they get older.

This is why women love marriage.
1) If she gets married at 25 years of age, she is sure that all things being equal, you as a man will provide for her until she gets to 55years of age. By that time, she must have had an adult who will continue where you stop.

2) By 55years of age, your children will begin to think that their mother was the ONLY parent that suffered to raise them. They forget all the hardwork, insults and humiliation you had to endure to provide.

3) She secures a guardian, protector, companion, sexual exclusivity etc all to your own detriment.

Finally, don't be decieved about marriage as a man. It is a money-milking institution designed to ensure women survive this harsh world. DONT LIVE YOUR LIFE FOR THE SURVIVAL OF WOMEN, LIVE FREE AND LIVE WELL.

Shalom

abobote:
You will never know the true colour of a woman while dating.

The period my wife refused to serve me food for one good week, even when I'm the only one providing for the family financial. That's when I knew that some women we call wives are mean

Manson1:
4) Your in-laws are not your friends. Relate with them with caution.

AlphaHakimi:
A man can get married to a woman and for 40years of marriage she was a full time house wife. A woman cannot feed you for a month without grumbling.

Mountbatten:


Well lil' bro, be prepared for premium shege if you think oynibo is any different.

PS: You will become a second class citizen in the eye of the law.

Ilekokonit:


My Ex Father in law was my sworn enemy because I did not let him interfere in my marriage or push me around.

Now if I ever want to get married, it is preferably to an orphan with no parents to stress me or meddle in my private affairs.

You either follow my rules about keeping inlaws and outlaws out of my private affairs or you remain a spinster. The choice is yours.

Imagine a guy complaining on Nairaland a few months ago that his father in law summoned him and started querying him about why he wants to corrupt his daughter by asking her to give him mouth action ?

I would have told such a father in law to go fuc.k himself.

https://www.nairaland.com/7683524/wife-told-father-asked-suck

Manson1:
Things nobody may tell you about marriage:

1) At some point in marriage, love may fade, you will only need commitment to survive. Especially when your partner changes from the person you knew initially.

2) As a woman, enjoy your single life now because when you marry, you will let go of certain lifestyle and enjoyment because of kids and family responsibilities.

3) As a man, when you marry , you must let go of certain life for your family reputation and integrity.

4) Attraction Wanes. This is one of the things nobody tells you about marriage. Even if you marry the most beautiful woman or a handsome man, one fine day, the attraction is sure to wane.You may feel that your partner is no longer attractive or your partner may feel the same about you. But still, the marriage can survive when you fall inlove with your partner's soul, not just the body.

4) Your in-laws are not your friends. Relate with them with caution.

5) You can stay many months without séx because of responsibilities.

6) Marriage is work, you work to make it work.

7) You need to forgive because you will always be offended.

8.) Childbirth can change your physical look or cause damage to your body. A successful child delivery is a miracle

9) If you marry someone who feels he or she is too good for you, you will suffer. The person will always make you feel less, like you're privileged to marry him/her

10) If you're a career driven person, marry a supportive partner, Marry someone who is eager to aspire. If you marry unsupportive partner or someone who settles for status quo, you will suffer alot

Cc; Walshak Kos

Let's hear from the married folks

Cholls:
My brother sex is not easy to get

Bolaji26:
You sure i go get married with all this things I read here

abobote:
You will never know the true colour of a woman while dating.

The period my wife refused to serve me food for one good week, even when I'm the only one providing for the family financial. That's when I knew that some women we call wives are mean

Olaolex:
Do people now marry partially?

Desusi:
I wasn't told that the moment l married, another person wahala becomes my own.In other words, my wife's trouble in relationship to her family becomes my own,not only this everything l have become everybody things, my wife, myself and children. Keeping secret from my wife make me becomes unfaithful to my vow,similarly, relating with opposite sex other than my wife becomes unpardonable offence.

franchasofficia:
All you said are assumptions bro.


A friend of mine will be getting married to a 35yrs old chick by December and guess what? The babe is a confirmed virgin. My friend is so sexually experienced and have lived wild life haven lived abroad for over a decade that a lady cant deceive him with virginity, so he even warned the girl that he would take her to a hospital for virginity test, the babe laughed. But later my guy confirmed himself that she is truly a V.



My point is, not all ladies above 27yrs are sexually exhausted like u said, yes many are and mostly not by their making but in the name of dating unstable Naija guys who promises ladies heaven and earth but with hidden intention to only hit and run. Ordinarily, most Nigerian ladies wished to marry their first love, but unfortunately due to dead Nigerian economy, their first love rarely succeed financially on time which usually make them not to end up marrying their first love.



A financially broke or struggling man should set his priorities right, his topmost priority should be how to overcome financial lack and poverty, and not how to marry a virgin that will be lost one day and that's the end.


So a financially struggling single man should first focus on marrying a lady that is not a financial baggage, a lady that would help him overcome financial challenges of life not focusing on marrying virgin or sexually pure woman.

Ilekokonit:


Word on marble.

I would rather die than allow a woman to feed me for 1 day.

If you sleep for your wife house, you are sleeping in a junk yard and if you use your wife cloth cover body for night, you are covering your body with rags.

I wish I was stingy and mean to my Ex wife. I for dey very rich now.

If I had a crystal ball, I would have abandoned her with her belle for Naija instead of making the MISTAKE of taking her to the UK.

So na Wetin con drive you go The RedPiLL Thread which I am among the Pioneers. Well RedPiLL is now obsolete. I have advanced to BlackPiLL. You might want to learn more though

Ilekokonit:


E go get to some point where you will be staring at one another from opposite sides of the sofa and thinking inwardly that :- se na like this I go dey go. Is this all life has in stock for me going forward Na like this I go take live the rest of my life

AlphaHakimi:


No one is against the institution of marriage. I'm just enlightening men about the nature of women.
What I'm against is th dysfunctional narrative that polygamy is bad. This narrative is what women want us to believe.

There are 4 major forms of marriage.
-Monogamy
-Polygamy
-Polyandry
-Polygamy.

Of all these forms of marriage, women only wish to practice monogamy because it guarantees their survival whereas men would opt for Polygamy because that's where they may find solace in this concept of marriage.

Ishilove, you are not my target audience. Just read and swipe.
This is the MALE AWAKENING.
SHALOM

Microwhy:

Religiously, your post no tally but interms of nature and humanity, this is 100% correct.
Women are selfish and greedy. They will make use of you for their own survival and their siblings survival including their parents.

Men need to wake-up and never settle for less.

dikings:
After reading all the coments, arguments, advice and experiences shared here, i have decided to withdraw my down bride price payment... to my in-laws to be in IMO State
Pls who is accompanying me for the retrieval?

femmoy:



same thing im currently facing bro.
how can one survive this?

Mountbatten:


You sabi how e dey go.

A boy truly becomes a man the moment he's able to understand the "sacrifices" his father made for the family.

Evolutionlove:


Moon Light Tales

Mr SIMPson of the universe.

I know you very well

XYZo:


I don't know why people just compare their lives with everyone . Sme will be grandpa at 52 , some wilbe husbands at 52, some will get married at 52 . All these unhealthy competitions is what makes people feel societal pressure and unhappiness .

Zyxsc:


You can have your babies outside the confines of marriage, my brother. Just be present in their lives as they grow up and choose a morally upright baby mama.