You sure i go get married with all this things I read here

isabi2lof:
The single ones are the ones that will answer this your question

Talk your own make Nigeria better..

Emma1Oj:
Talk your own make Nigeria better..

How many of your talks don better Nigeria

1. That there will be compromise.
2. That you may need to apologize when you have done nothing wrong.
3. That you may need to lower you expectations though they are not out of reach.

But I thought we settle down through marriage.

Merch:
Just know that married men are going through a lot

No be lie bro.

I'm one of them.

We were not told not to have sex during first trimester, sometimes it could lead to miscarriage and to avoid trousers.

Bills till you die

Marriage is the most critically crafted institution that is designed to control the behaviour of humans and ensure the controlled existence of mankind.

Please note that I used the word "control" in order to truly explain the nature of marriage. This is because, there is nothing you can achieve within Marriage that cannot be achieved outside of marriage for men.
Just name one thing you can achieve within the confines of marriage that you cannot achieve outside marriage.

Animals don't get married but yet they sustain the existence of their species.

Every factor that made you as a man go into marriage will become irrelevant after one year of marriage.

Now if you are saddled with this fact as a man, why don't you make marriage transactional just as women do?.

Don't settle for less. You're a MAN for goodness sake. Don't date or marry any girl who is poor or from a poor background. Any day the marriage stops serving your purpose please LEAVE because your wife will leave you any day you stop serving her purpose. Your children no matter their age will understand once they get older.

This is why women love marriage.
1) If she gets married at 25 years of age, she is sure that all things being equal, you as a man will provide for her until she gets to 55years of age. By that time, she must have had an adult who will continue where you stop.

2) By 55years of age, your children will begin to think that their mother was the ONLY parent that suffered to raise them. They forget all the hardwork, insults and humiliation you had to endure to provide.

3) She secures a guardian, protector, companion, sexual exclusivity etc all to your own detriment.

Finally, don't be decieved about marriage as a man. It is a money-milking institution designed to ensure women survive this harsh world. DONT LIVE YOUR LIFE FOR THE SURVIVAL OF WOMEN, LIVE FREE AND LIVE WELL.

Shalom

Nobody told me someone would be asking this question about marriage on Nairaland.
I wished someone had told me.

Dat married women love seex more dan married men.
Althoght the man has tendency to do it outside but fr house if u wan nack ur wife 10X she go dey spread leg like bread n butter

Our forefathers and fathers enjoyed it cos their times were Good, now due to extreme changes in behavior of man in the negeative direction times got terrible, marriage became complete suffering and unhappiness leading to early demise of most young men mainly and few women

You both have baggages you are sweeping under the rug. You raise children to tow the same line and drop your own loads of BS on them. Don't marry until you're sure you actually love yourself. You can't actually love someone else. So what you can do is commit or not commit... I wrote something on girls with daddy issues and any guy in relationship should read it.

If u have a good supportive and understanding wife,all this billings no go birder u self
GOD pls dash me a good supportive and understanding loving wife,this is my prayers

AlphaHakimi:
Marriage is the most critically crafted institution that is designed to control the behaviour of humans and ensure the controlled existence of mankind.

Please note that I used the word "control" in order to truly explain the nature of marriage. This is because, there is nothing you can achieve within Marriage that cannot be achieved outside of marriage for men.
Just name one thing you can achieve within the confines of marriage that you cannot achieve outside marriage.

Animals don't get married but yet they sustain the existence of their species.

Every factor that made you as a man go into marriage will become irrelevant after one year of marriage.

Now if you are saddled with this fact as a man, why don't you make marriage transactional just as women do?.

Don't settle for less. You're a MAN for goodness sake. Don't date or marry any girl who is poor or from a poor background. Any day the marriage stops serving your purpose please LEAVE because your wife will leave you any day you stop serving her purpose. Your children no matter their age will understand once they get older.

This is why women love marriage.
1) If she gets married at 25 years of age, she is sure that all things being equal, you as a man will provide for her until she gets to 55years of age. By that time, she must have had an adult who will continue where you stop.

2) By 55years of age, your children will begin to think that their mother was the ONLY parent that suffered to raise them. They forget all the hardwork, insults and humiliation you had to endure to provide.

3) She secures a guardian, protector, companion, sexual exclusivity etc all to your own detriment.

Finally, don't be decieved about marriage as a man. It is a money-milking institution designed to ensure women survive this harsh world. DONT LIVE YOUR LIFE FOR THE SURVIVAL OF WOMEN, LIVE FREE AND LIVE WELL.

Shalom

Some Salient points, you have dropped. 🤔🙂

Marriage is synonymous to running a business. It's outcome is unpredictable. You either lose or gain.

You will never know the true colour of a woman while dating.

The period my wife refused to serve me food for one good week, even when I'm the only one providing for the family financial. That's when I knew that some women we call wives are mean

Beauty is useless compare to character/ mindset/believe/behavior

OBTOREPA:
Thanks, I'm not fully married yet.

Do people now marry partially?

god2good:
Beauty is useless compare to character/ mindset/believe/behavior

It's like you married a very fine girl?

b3llo:
Se.x will become a duty instead of the fun you enjoy as single.

you nail it..I don't know how or which words I can use to describe marriage, but sometimes it can be very sweet, and sometime It can be very sour

Marriage na cage from the way I see married women. Whenever we go out with them and try to chill, you'll see them hurrying back home to meet up with school runs and chores. Haba! Me I'll just be laughing and enjoying myself till 8-9pmish before going home.

Sometimes marriage scares me.

As e dey sweet us,e dey pain them. What I'm I typing self...?

My experience today is someone's direction tomorrow

There will be days you will be tired to knack

I don't know why people keep on saying that marriage is hard.

Everything in this life could be hard or easy depending on the level of understanding of the people or persons or players involved.

Bolaji26:
You sure i go get married with all this things I read here

Aswear, think say na only me

Your sex life would be reduced drastically because you would be denied sex on some flimsy excuses

KamsiViva:
Hmm...

Marriage is so beautiful when you marry right.

Lots of challenges will come but with the right partner, you both are sure to pull through.

You are very correct!

I wasn't told that the moment l married, another person wahala becomes my own.In other words, my wife's trouble in relationship to her family becomes my own,not only this everything l have become everybody things, my wife, myself and children. Keeping secret from my wife make me becomes unfaithful to my vow,similarly, relating with opposite sex other than my wife becomes unpardonable offence.