Hey Good evening , please I need experienced and matured minded answers on this thread
.
I have a girl I love and if God willing marry her
She's humble, submissive , and posseses good qualities of a wife material.
I senior her with just months in age . same year of birth.
Can that marriage work out well because I have this ideology that the husband should senior his wife by some years at least 2years.

Even if a woman senior me 1 to 5 years, if she has the qualities i found in a woman i will marry her, because what u want in her is respect and understanding and if u leave her for a more younger girls they might not get the qualities she possess.
I have once dated a woman who senior me with 4 years and i can tell u i enjoy my relationship with her, till date even though we later part ways, there is this understanding many of them get that this small average girls don't get, and i enjoy bleeping the ones more older than me like 5 to 10years differences, especially their moaning and seriousness..
my man the choice is urs. Goodluck

I don't see age as a barrier in any kind of relationship, what matters is the individuals level of maturity.

Most of my friends are older than me, when they find out my age they're like "Na lie!" . I grew up in an environment where everyone was way older than me, that should be a contributing factor.

So, if your girl is mature enough, go for it bro.

Age is only an indicator of experience, and should never be mistaken for maturity.

OP, hope she is NOT fat?

because if you Marry her, in 4-5years time, you will become Fatter and look like your Mother or Senior Sist. 😕😒

The only condition I can marry my Agemate is if she is Slim and keeps Fit like Genevieve Nnaj and Kate Henshaw.😐🙂

talented321:
Even if a woman senior me 1 to 5 years, if she has the qualities i found in a woman i will marry her, because what u want in her is respect and understanding and if u leave her for a more younger girls they might not get the qualities she possess.
I have once dated a woman who senior me with 4 years and i can tell u i enjoy my relationship with her till date even though we later part ways, there is this understanding many of them get that this small average girls don't get. So my man the choice is urs. Goodluck

Bless

Pussyassasin:
I don't see age as a barrier in any kind of relationship, what matters is the individuals level of maturity.

Most of my friends are older than me, when they find out my age they're like "Na lie!" . I grew up in an environment where everyone was way older than me, that should be a contributing factor.

So, if your girl is mature enough, go for it bro.

Age is only an indicator of experience, and should never be mistaken for maturity.

Thanks

Nah


Smallies Dey collect now oh
Come my area, smallies go give you run😂😂

talented321:
Even if a woman senior me 1 to 5 years, if she has the qualities i found in a woman i will marry her, because what u want in her is respect and understanding and if u leave her for a more younger girls they might not get the qualities she possess.
I have once dated a woman who senior me with 4 years and i can tell u i enjoy my relationship with her till date even though we later part ways, there is this understanding many of them get that this small average girls don't get. So my man the choice is urs. Goodluck

When it comes to Woman, Age CANNOT be used to judge them.😏

I have seen and dated 30,31 years old Ladies when no get Sense! 😒😕

I didnot said all, though the ones i come across was good for me.

VinnyBaba:


When it comes to Woman, Age CANNOT be used to judge them.

It depends..

If you are both and grew up in this snapchat, instagram, facebook and tik tok generation, it might just not work out.

If you are both older and already had a lot of growing up before at least 2005 it might just be the best relationship you ever had..

It's just my opinion though, at the end of the day the decision is still yours as it is your life.

talented321:
Even if a woman senior me 1 to 5 years, if she has the qualities i found in a woman i will marry her, because what u want in her is respect and understanding and if u leave her for a more younger girls they might not get the qualities she possess.
I have once dated a woman who senior me with 4 years and i can tell u i enjoy my relationship with her till date even though we later part ways, there is this understanding many of them get that this small average girls don't get. So my man the choice is urs. Goodluck

🙈🙈🙈... I donno why I find this your post funny.... So u mean you can date a girl older than you?

Nigha,age doesn't really matter to me..But here we are already, I mean a society that criticize people for such things.....But is that the real problems rocking relationship and marriages nowadays? Ask yourself that simple question..

Not a barrier, History has it that age is not a barrier in finding a good companion and soul mate. Make sure all the qualities you seek in a woman is ticked and you're good to go.

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philo3:
Hey Good evening , please I need experienced and matured minded answers on this thread
.
I have a girl I love and if God willing marry her
She's humble, submissive , and posseses good qualities of a wife material.
I senior her with just months in age . same year of birth.
Can that marriage work out well because I have this ideology that the husband should senior his wife by some years at least 2years.

Nah to the bolded.

If you can get on with her,dont waste time.
Marry her

Maturity matters more





Thanks for coming!

Yes. That's the short answer.

The long answer is that there is

30 years is one generational difference. You can't be on the same pedestal. Perspectives and colourations will differ. One party would definitely have to forgo a lot of their comfort for the relationship. The best people that see this problem clearly are those in it.

Ten years is one decade. I personally think everything should be within this bracket. If there's beyond 10 years between you two then you are most prolly be dealing with someone who is unaligned to your peers.

Caveat. This is my personal opinion and should not be treated as the declarations of a professional.

Yeah, if you're more inclined to physical attraction and keen with fertility .

No, if you're not and not keen to fertility, as it relates to age.

Like a smart guy up there pointed out, maturity is key.

If you marry an immature woman, you will ne overstretched.

If you marry and immature man as a woman, you will babysit till you die before your time.

Be wise!

No.

Money does

It doesn’t if the woman has inbuilt respect but if she’s pretending she’ll show you shege , you guys are age mates it’s better you give her some distance age wise so whenever she starts ranting you’ll remind her that if not for one thing she’s not your mate .
but the most important thing is to have money even if she’s 10 years older than you she’ll worship you women worship money because they all like baby girl treatment.

I subscribe to marrying up to four ladies!

So age mattered in my first marriage!

I still think it will matter in my next!

But then it may not matter anymore!

Don't u ever marry a woman that is older than uuu..

Or u r older than with 1 year...


She will look like Ur mother soon ..

If she is ibo ...Ur own don finish..

Esp if she comes from Anambra...

U go dey call her mummy

AntiChristian:
I subscribe to marrying up to four ladies!

So age mattered in my first marriage!

I still think it will matter in my next!

But then it may not matter anymore!

Not every one is a sex maniac ...

All these Alfa and sex ehn

A

SHiNJA4RMDWEST:
Don't u ever marry a woman that is older than uuu..

Or u r older than with 1 year...


She will look like Ur mother soon ..

If she is ibo ...Ur own don finish..

Esp if she comes from Anambra...

U go dey call her mummy

IMO nkor?

I know someone that married a lady who is just months younger than him they are doing well. Another friend married a lady younger than him with 2 months they are also doing fine. It is about the people in the relationship that matter. If she will respect you and will hou love her when her face starts looking older? Those are the questions to ask after all some men marry people older than them dont they have a blessed marriage?

Hehehe.

Your ideology is archaic, moribund and illogical.

People are even getting married to older women now. It's all about love and peace of mind. Don't let your thinking make you to lose a good woman.

Some relationships within this age brackets work just fine. Obviously, respect, a lot of respect, is at play.

So if you know and are sure she'll respect you, carry on.

SHiNJA4RMDWEST:


Not every one is a sex maniac ...

All these Alfa and sex ehn

But you are born by a sex maniac too right?

Good to go! The qualities matter than the age. These qualities are hard to come bye these days. Don't run from an aged saint into the arms of a young devil.

@Seun

Pls start using catgpt to create content because hwta users are creating these days is rubbish

Or just hire content creators abeg

talented321:
Even if a woman senior me 1 to 5 years, if she has the qualities i found in a woman i will marry her, because what u want in her is respect and understanding and if u leave her for a more younger girls they might not get the qualities she possess.
I have once dated a woman who senior me with 4 years and i can tell u i enjoy my relationship with her till date even though we later part ways, there is this understanding many of them get that this small average girls don't get. So my man the choice is urs. Goodluck

check this statement in jst 10 years time, U think say we be oyibo abi? even with oyibo nah money dey talk