Girlfriend called you when you were in the office on a Sunday and said she needed cash to go to the hairdressing salon and you told her to come for it. She came and since you did not have enough cash on you and too busy to leave the office, you gave her your Visa card and pin to collect cash from the nearest ATM. But your buddy said it was risky to do so. I have been doing so for years now and nothing has gone wrong.

M M M:

op i thought u re married

Not yet. But very soon.

you must be joking.clear instructions are given when you are handed your pin.
That would only happen If we are married and we operate a joint account.
Anything out of that? no thanks cz right now I can think of 3 major risks involved by doing so that could automatically land one in trouble.

so you are one of those who give money for salon and you claim girls are too demanding. Next time try telling her you are broke.
Repeat this 3 to 4 times till you you train her to be independent and learn how take care of small personal stuff like salon. She will always be prepared with cash.
Too much dependence on smbody could even lead one in prison.

_{I know am just talking to myself}

pendooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

if you are comfortable with it

You should know your girlfriend better.

OP, just read your other post, I thought you were rambo to girls.

pendo89:

you must be joking.clear instructions are given when you are handed your pin.
That would only happen If we are married and we operate a joint account.
Anything out of that? no thanks cz right now I can think of 3 major risks involved by doing so that could automatically land one in trouble.

[size=20pt]so you are one of those who give money for salon and you claim girls are too demanding.[/size] Next time try telling her you are broke.
Repeat this 3 to 4 times till you you train her to be independent and learn how take care of small personal stuff like salon. She will always be prepared with cash.
Too much dependence on smbody could even lead one in prison.

_{I know am just talking to myself}

@op: so you no see better situation to open your full worth to that your babe, na because of 'hair' abi? , well, she has cooked and you have eaten

Wetin una mean sef? Bros no mind them there's nothing wrong in giving her money for hair,as for the pin she is your girl so na you go know boya na mistake or not.

No be money she use take come your office? Abi una get free public transport for naija now?

Guy no try am. before you know it you would find charges of a B@@b job and a playstation in your bank statement at the end of the month.

If u trust her, its ok. Noting risky about it. I normally send the messanger in my office to withdraw cash via my ATM, talk more of my girl. I know my elder bros Pin, he sends me to ATM to withdraw cash. So what's the heck giving pin to ur girl? What's the risk? She'll steal your money?
If you dont trust her with things as simple as that, then she shouldn't b ur girl.

Poster, not olny for a lady, it's confidential then any man can steal from your visa as well

Why are you even asking us. Is it everything you muct ask?

give ham na good tin, afterall you dey yanch ham!

Of course u should be careful but really, if you can't trust the babe with ur pin, then you shouldn't be wit her. na my own 2 kobo

@poster
doesnt she have her own card?
but if you have been doing this for years with the same person then you have no cause for alarm?
I agree with pendo though,there are personal matters that one should be able to take care of by oneself,
but if you are in a giving mood
could you pls pass your atm pin number over to me , i want to buy something on ebay
thanks

2buff:

No be money she use take come your office? Abi una get free public transport for naija now?

abeg help me ask them o, like seriously wats d biggy. is he not going to receive an alert if she should withdraw more than she demanded.i am so sure most guys talking here fend for their girlfriend's family and not only their girlfriend.

abeg op why are you dating her if you cant trust her with little thing as visa card and pin. if a woman is going to run you down, your visa card and pin is even the least of the options.

There is not thing wrong wit dat, is a common practices 4 me

o y o

Many posters are just hypocritical.

So, girlfriends don't go broke?

So, giving girlfriends money to look good, better and best is BIG DEAL?

Stingy Nigerian men have been exposed.

I know many here will even give their girlfriends more than what I have done.

Orikinla:

Girlfriend called you when you were in the office on a Sunday and said she needed cash to go to the hairdressing salon and you told her to come for it. She came and since you did not have enough cash on you and too busy to leave the office, you gave her your Visa card and pin to collect cash from the nearest ATM. But your buddy said it was risky to do so. I have been doing so for years now and nothing has gone wrong.   

Bro. My advise:

If she white: Yes!!!

If she,s black: YOUR BIGGEST MISTAKE EVER, unless if she light skin!!!

Orikinla:

Many posters are just hypocritical.

So, girlfriends don't go broke?

So, giving girlfriends money to look good, better and best is BIG DEAL?

Stingy Nigerian men have been exposed.

I know many here will even give their girlfriends more than what I have done.

But you are the very same op who keeps bashing nigerian girls. Why are you hypocritical?
Yes she must look good,you give her money 'willingly'. When the relationship goes sour you run here crying the girls are gold diggers that they love money for salon and blablabla.
I really hate this hypocrisy.If you want to treat her do it willingly.She should not demand. You just do it lovingly and when you dont have she understands and you both live.[b]
I like a man who does things for his girl without her asking for them. [/b]She doesn't have to ask. And you don't have to do if you don't feel like it.
But you say you have been doing it for years? well it means the girls are trustworthy then. But please NEVER complain about girls again.
treat them well and keep mum.

pendo89:

But you are the very same op who keeps bashing nigerian girls. Why are you hypocritical?
Yes she must look good,you give her money 'willingly'. When the relationship goes sour you run here crying the girls are gold diggers that they love money for salon and blablabla.
I really hate this hypocrisy.If you want to treat her do it willingly.She should not demand. You just do it lovingly and when you dont have she understands and you both live.[b]
I like a man who does things for his girl without her asking for them. [/b]She doesn't have to ask. And you don't have to do if you don't feel like it.
But you say you have been doing it for years? well it means the girls are trustworthy then. But please NEVER complain about girls again.
treat them well and keep mum.

You must be mistaking Orikinla for someone else.

Saying many Nigerian women are gold diggers does not mean all of them are gold diggers.

Read the following.

Do Your Best For Her For Love - Nairaland
If you truly care and love any girl or woman, then do your best for her. Even if she refuses to sleep with you, prove that you really love ,
www.nairaland.com
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-715978.0.html

Mr, Cork:

Bro. My advise:

If she white: Yes!!!

If she,s black: YOUR BIGGEST MISTAKE EVER, unless if she light skin!!!

What is wrong with you?

What has skin color got to do with honesty?

Hmmmm do I smell trouble. Before the advent of ATM, A friend gave his girlfriend open cheque, and she just cleared the guys account. And they are even engaged.