[b]What happened to my innocent lady?I remember when i met her in college,she was wonderful,you would force her to eat,drink or take anything from you, over time after a year of relationship,she has turned to something else, always lying to get money from me,always cooking up stories.
This last one really got me mad.
i had done some business with some a business colleague who couldn't have the time to go to the bank to send my share of the business into my account.at first, i didn't want to involve my girlfriend to pick the cash having in mind what she is capable of doing .I didn't have choice to send her to this guy to pick the cash since am currently not in the country, I told her to take 10k for anything she needs and she should send the balance to my account.
After she gave so much excuse of being busy and all that, the third day, she dropped a message on  my bbm that the money was stolen while she was on Site work.
, Seriously,the money is not my problem, but this is not the first time of such lies.I told her straight to look for the money.I was really annoyed. Her mum called me and told me she hasn't eating since that day,that i shouldn't break up with her. off course,am not breaking up,i just can not stand to believe the woman i plan to marry can lie at any cost to get money.
And i am doing my best for this babe, she has gotten virtually all she ever asked for from me.(even my bb torch, lol).
what bothers me now is, i cant trust this girl in this area, i haven't caught her cheating though, but why would a woman lie virtually about anything.
I remember when i got my first job last year(after NYSC), close to my first pay day, she cooked up a story that her room was burglarized and all money was stolen.That i shouldn't call her friend to confirm anything.I hate Lies Gosh!

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"Everybody Lies" so its nothing special its only an issue if that's the babe u wanna to spend your life with i'd have a re-think, someone who lies can kill too. either make her change her ways which doubt "Cuz People are who they are" or u carry her for deliverance. wish u all the best.

pc guru:

"Everybody Lies" so its nothing special its only an issue if that's the babe u wanna to spend your life with i'd have a re-think, someone who lies can kill too. either make her change her ways which doubt "Cuz People are who they are" or u carry her for deliverance. wish u all the best. 

thanks.What is paining me is,she knows what i go through to make one business a success.and she still has all that gut to cook such lies.
seriously,i believe with all my heart that the money wasn't stolen.I know my girlfriend very well.I didnt hesistate to tell her mum that her daughter lies alot and i cant
continue to take that.

laughin real hard
chai women ehn
i lie smtyms 2 jst 2 get sm dough wen m broke
bt blv u me my lies r always true cos if u ask me in anoda 3mnths i ll rem
jst tk things easy
still laughin

You'd be surprise that maybe she's not like that usually.Some Women's decision are influenced greatly by Family or by their Peers,few have a mind of their own, the Friends might be like "He might not marry you so better get all you can" and it could be the family instigating it also. this life is funny you will never know am a Yoruba dude so i get to see so many funny stuffs that happen especially within those that come from an illiterate background. first what kind of friends does she roll with or what kind of family does she stay with. usually people "are who they are", but in some cases we are a result "of all the people we have met in life" in reality we pick traits and character from people consciously or unconsciously which is why Peer/Family is usually the culprit of any character defect in one's life.u get my point

Well maybe she's just beginning to show her true colours

May be is better dating working class ladies,

u 4 don talk say u no dey do again na
dis your excuse na wa o
n u think workin clas babes wont ask 4 moni?
try me out

There'll be no difference except the Stealing gets a little more Sophisticated and she will have a good Plausible deniability "after all she has a job why would she wanna steal yours" is the excuse that will be used. just date someone trustworthy.

Dyt:

u 4 don talk say u no dey do again na
dis your excuse na wa o
n u think workin clas babes wont ask 4 moni?
try me out

when do we start? is not like i dont give this babe money,but why lie to get more.even when she asked me and i know she was lying,if i have i still
give it to her.

u mean u thinkin of droppin ur gf?
chai men ooooo
let er know u dont lyk such
give er one last chance
u know we women r jst smtyms funny
she s jst bein childish
or u want me talk wit er?

Dyt:

u mean u thinkin of droppin your gf?
chai men ooooo
let er know u dont lyk such
give er one last chance
u know we women r jst smtyms funny
she s jst bein childish
or u want me talk wit er?

.give me ur cell so i give it to her, lol

drop it
i ll call er
sha wen u comin back hm
send an email 2 my siggy 4 ur ticket

Dyt:

drop it
i ll call er
sha wen u comin back hm
send an email 2 my siggy 4 your ticket

my ticket?am on return ticket.pardon me,whats siggy?

need new and reliable used laptops? call me on 08036492550
.
dats ur siggy aka signature
bt tell ur frnds tho

Dyt:

need new and reliable used laptops? call me on 08036492550
.
dats your siggy aka signature
bt tell your frnds tho

is your services running in Nigeria? as per the ticket, i will email you.

now u soundin lyk u were nt d one dat wrote dat signature
well i copied wat wz ur written in ur signature
.
.well thanks in advance
.
back 2 ur gfs ish
tell er u nt down wit all dose

Dyt:

now u soundin lyk u were nt d one dat wrote dat signature
well i copied wat wz your written in your signature
.
.well thanks in advance
.
back 2 your gfs ish
tell er u nt down wit all dose

i wrote that siggy like two years ago and have totally forgotten .
as for my gf,i can tell you she is lying about the money missing.and am still being very hard on her.

pls dont b hard on er
funnily it myt b true she lost it bt cos u v known er 2 lie on such things
pls i m kneelin on er behalf
dont mk er more awful dan she feels

Dyt, deary. Did you have agege bread for breakfast or was it ibadan bread?

Dyt, what do you mean not to be hard on her' my guy hold your stand and kick sentiment to the curb untill you know the truth. Them they pluck money? As far as I know, love don't cost a thing. Why would people feel they have to give a lady money at all time?

Money don't come easy and OP you are only spoiling her the more to be dependent and a liability. I Like ladies who believe in working with their own hands and not the other way round. Do you think this lady will stick with you if you hadn't the money you spend on her? This is Nigeria and everybody is struggling to survive. Be wise and don't be sentimental.

Well, the ball is in your court. You decide what you want to do with your money.
I would rather invest in an asset than a liability. I hope my words are not too hash. It just a lesson I learned the hard way.

^^ well dats my tots as a lady
no vex
.
laxy u v bn followin me
back off else . . . .

goodsegs:

What happened to my innocent lady?
Nothing happened its just a habit manifesting.

I remember when i met her in college,she was wonderful,you would  force her to eat,drink or take anything from you, over time after a year of relationship,she has  turned to something else
well that is not news.They metamorphosise.You cannot hide a habit too long. It will eventually show.

This last one really got me mad.
I can guarantee you havent seen nothing yet.
i didn't want to involve my girlfriend to pick the cash having in mind what she is capable of doing
ok its good you knew before hand but risked. cool
I didn't have choice to send her to this guy to pick the cash since am currently not in the country, I told her to take 10k for anything she needs and she should send the balance to my account.
Blame yourself.You knew you couldnt trust her but went ahead to do this? wait a sec. No trusted relative? or what about transfer or western union?
After she gave so much excuse of being busy
pyschology at play.Claims shes busy thereby setting stage for her planned act so that you dont think shes desperate to handle cash.
but this is not the first time of such lies.
See I told you its not the first nor the last.
she hasn't eating since that day,that i shouldn't break up with her. off course,am not breaking up,i just can not stand to believe the woman i plan to marry can lie at any cost to get money.
Really? breaking news! wives lie. shes a gf !what makes you think she cant? cz your so much in love? oh plus tears are what girls do to push buttons. Its a gift or God given talent.
you dont have to break up as you say.Just learn to live and deal with it.
what bothers me now is, i cant trust this girl in this area,
Relationships are built on trust so what are you gonna build your on? Lies? or blind love.
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You know I really have nothing more to say. You have the answer with you.
wish you luck

dyt don start again. . . . smh

touches d man above me

Dyt:

^^ well dats my tots as a lady
no vex
.
laxy u v bn followin me
back off else . . . .

Dytsy,

I luf it when you call me laxy .

Kini se o? Se o ma wa ki mi ni ilu California? Mo bere lana boya omobadan ni o, o da mi loun.

cm grt u 4 wetin?
u b prime minister?
sha buy tickets frm me

pendo89:

You know I really have nothing more to say. You have the answer with you.
wish you luck

Pendo heartbeat,

Can I just make luuuuv to your intelligence. We can have mind-blowing selgz  . You never told me what the name of the chosen one would be.  

Dyt:

cm grt u 4 wetin?
u b prime minister?
sha buy tickets frm me

Dytsy,

Did you use spray can on your hair? That color wey dey your hair dey interesting . Come to Cali na. We fit go hang out for Rodeo drive wey all the celebrities dey. You will blend in with your red hair

i m so sure u know i dont v a job n cant afford a trip down dere
well i i love coloured hair so much

Dyt:

i m so sure u know i dont v a job n cant afford a trip down dere
well i i love coloured hair so much

Dytsy,

You have a job na. You be hustla-Diva

Sebi you dey ojuelegba side? Ti o ba wa si Cali, mo le mu e lo ri awon J-lo and co. Wan mo mi. Emi ni gufnor ibi bayi