Deenillah:
I'll just go straight to it.

My girlfriend of 2years gets upset when I don't apologize even when I'm not at fault. , saying I don't care about her feelings.

I'm this person who believes that everyone is responsible for their actions and should shoulder the consequences for thier actions.

I don't apologize except when I know I'm wrong and I try as much as possible to avoid things that will make me apologize unnecessarily except of course for the ones that happen coincidentally.

But she wants it to be that at every little instance, I apologize even if she's at fault which to me I find unacceptable and this causes quarrels between us when it happens.


MY QUESTION IS

Am I wrong to want to apologize ONLY when I'm at fault?

She's managing you. Prepare your mind, she can serve you breakfast at anytime

Simply SIMP
🤣🤣🤣

Is emotional blackmailing don't be a victim please. When are wrong apologize but don't be compel or be control like mumu. You are a man I repeat you are a man. And becareful such kind of women can leave you anytime, I was once a victim. God bless you

Tit4Tat1:


I'm watching u, hence forth i don't want to ever see u comment here on nL again and I'm very serious about it. Why come in a public space to constitute nuisance, or do you think this is a play ground for idiots to exhibit their stupidity?

U dey quote jennyclay? Trust me, it's not worth it

Deenillah:
I'll just go straight to it.

My girlfriend of 2years gets upset when I don't apologize even when I'm not at fault. , saying I don't care about her feelings.

I'm this person who believes that everyone is responsible for their actions and should shoulder the consequences for thier actions.

I don't apologize except when I know I'm wrong and I try as much as possible to avoid things that will make me apologize unnecessarily except of course for the ones that happen coincidentally.

But she wants it to be that at every little instance, I apologize even if she's at fault which to me I find unacceptable and this causes quarrels between us when it happens.


MY QUESTION IS

Am I wrong to want to apologize ONLY when I'm at fault?

You wil get tired of apologising sooner n it will be too late for you to pull out because you might be married with kids by then. The earlier you let go off her, the better for you. My cent

donbachi:
So she'll cheat on you and ask you to apologize

don’t make this man feel depressed 😂😂😂😂

RUN . IT WILL ONLY GET WORSE IN MARRIAGE.

FLEE FOR YOUR LIFE IF YOU LOVE YOUR LIFE.

Enough said.

the fact you are even asking if you are right or wrong for not apologizing when u are not wrong shows she is a manipulative and a control freak and you are the best candidate for her

Deenillah:
I'll just go straight to it.

My girlfriend of 2years gets upset when I don't apologize even when I'm not at fault. , saying I don't care about her feelings.

I'm this person who believes that everyone is responsible for their actions and should shoulder the consequences for thier actions.

I don't apologize except when I know I'm wrong and I try as much as possible to avoid things that will make me apologize unnecessarily except of course for the ones that happen coincidentally.

But she wants it to be that at every little instance, I apologize even if she's at fault which to me I find unacceptable and this causes quarrels between us when it happens.


MY QUESTION IS

Am I wrong to want to apologize ONLY when I'm at fault?

Deenillah:


Just what I needed. Thanks.
And yes, she do apologize when she's at fault
She just like hearing the "I'm sorry" thing. Even for unnecessary reasons and will still want to make issues out of it if I don't

she get bipolar disorder, may one day ask you to lay on your chest and give you better flogging if you don’t say that sorry, a word is enough for the wise, only God is irreplaceable
You’d find a better person but don’t let it be too late

You better stop it ,..

Deenillah:
I'll just go straight to it.

My girlfriend of 2years gets upset when I don't apologize even when I'm not at fault. , saying I don't care about her feelings.

I'm this person who believes that everyone is responsible for their actions and should shoulder the consequences for thier actions.

I don't apologize except when I know I'm wrong and I try as much as possible to avoid things that will make me apologize unnecessarily except of course for the ones that happen coincidentally.

But she wants it to be that at every little instance, I apologize even if she's at fault which to me I find unacceptable and this causes quarrels between us when it happens.


MY QUESTION IS

Am I wrong to want to apologize ONLY when I'm at fault?

Babarun ooo .
I need you to understand that if someone is comfy enough to leave you in a state of confusion and hurt, while you repeatedly ask for clarity , they dont care about the impact of their actions on you . They have shown exactly that they are someone who only cares about their own comfort.

As for me I don't want any relationship where I have to constantly feed your ego to make sure the relationship is intact.
The privilege of a relationship is that we both have access to constructively criticize one another.
The aim is to grow, not just to feel good.

Deenillah:
I'll just go straight to it.

My girlfriend of 2years gets upset when I don't apologize even when I'm not at fault. , saying I don't care about her feelings.

I'm this person who believes that everyone is responsible for their actions and should shoulder the consequences for thier actions.

I don't apologize except when I know I'm wrong and I try as much as possible to avoid things that will make me apologize unnecessarily except of course for the ones that happen coincidentally.

But she wants it to be that at every little instance, I apologize even if she's at fault which to me I find unacceptable and this causes quarrels between us when it happens.


MY QUESTION IS

Am I wrong to want to apologize ONLY when I'm at fault?

These type of gals dont truly love your feelings

IconicR:
Just accept her like that, you must not pick her on all of her shortcomings.

God abeg, see Rose ! Relationship counsellor.

Negroid001:


Run Bro. She's a narcissist.

confirm NARC,,,very big one

pegix:
who is this dumb ass bitch ffs

just because she’s feeding her broke man doesn’t mean the OP is broke, she’s just transferring unwarranted aggression 😂 bad bitch

Saintinoo:


You are dating a narcissist, run. I am speaking from experience.

ME TOO....THAT SHIT WASN'T FUNNY...BEING WITH A NARC

If you as a man is very lazy and the lady is working and feeding you. While you don't have anything you are doing. Then you will continue to beg the lady whenever there is misunderstading or argument. But if both of you have good jobs and you are playing your role as husband over her and she is very rude and disrespectful. Then look unto God for help not men. Because at times it can be patience that you need but if you are too hasty then you will spoil the whole thing. Most celebrities break up because of this reason.

SIMP

Deenillah:
I'll just go straight to it.

My girlfriend of 2years gets upset when I don't apologize even when I'm not at fault. , saying I don't care about her feelings.

I'm this person who believes that everyone is responsible for their actions and should shoulder the consequences for thier actions.

I don't apologize except when I know I'm wrong and I try as much as possible to avoid things that will make me apologize unnecessarily except of course for the ones that happen coincidentally.

But she wants it to be that at every little instance, I apologize even if she's at fault which to me I find unacceptable and this causes quarrels between us when it happens.


MY QUESTION IS

Am I wrong to want to apologize ONLY when I'm at fault?

She is an upcoming Narcissistic Human Being.


When does or will she apologise?

She is controlling you and I am sure gaslighting you too.

Do not fall for her tricks.


Whoever is wrong should be the one to apologise.


I repeat, do not fall for her tricks.

Slap her and end the relationship. If you marry a woman like this, your life will be miserable in the future. She has nothing to offer you except pains

Jennyclay:
Just apologize for peace to reign.

Will you die if you apologize . Even you too, you have pride

Is not as if you have money . Broke men and pride and like 5 & 6

Shior!!!

Shameless prostitute. What else do you have but your stinking puss.y?

Idiot.

Jennyclay:
Just apologize for peace to reign.

Will you die if you apologize . Even you too, you have pride

Is not as if you have money . Broke men and pride and like 5 & 6

Shior!!!

Wait! Are u actually serious with all this empty comments u make here often?
Or u are just a guy disguising as a female just to catch cruise?
I really think you have mental issues.
If u are a gal,U are definitely one of those gals with stiff ass as hard as obeche tree.
You are a certified dunce!!!MUGU

Keep explaining... when u see the evidence, no be person go tell u

MrBrownJay1:
its called EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL. what kind of deluded insane woman would want you to apologize, even when you are not at fault?!
why do you even want to stay with such a deluded narcissistic woman?!

Exactly. She’s a pure narcissist.

They specialise in manipulation and emotional abuse.

The ONLY solution for handling narcissists is to end all contact with them.

I ended contact with my own mother because she is a narcissist and manipulator.

donbachi:
So she'll cheat on you and ask you to apologize

OP na small pikin abeg leave am with his cross body go soon tell am when she stab him and still want him to apologize

He that fetched a firewood infested ant should cook and end expect the lizards. Any name you call a puppy will also become its name when it’s a grown dog. These are the principles you could have set when you noticed it’s earlier but you were doing the I’m sorry thing even when she should have taken responsibility of her fuckery. Today is Sunday so let me summarize by saying according to the Bible that open Reebok is better than secret love. Men don’t get scared to correct your woman even if she will refuse to talk to you for a while. Tell her, free her and draw her close when the thing don enter. Yea don’t mean beating or hitting.

Deenillah:
I'll just go straight to it.

My girlfriend of 2years gets upset when I don't apologize even when I'm not at fault. , saying I don't care about her feelings.

I'm this person who believes that everyone is responsible for their actions and should shoulder the consequences for thier actions.

I don't apologize except when I know I'm wrong and I try as much as possible to avoid things that will make me apologize unnecessarily except of course for the ones that happen coincidentally.

But she wants it to be that at every little instance, I apologize even if sheaf ult which to me I find unacceptable and this causes quarrels between us when it happens.


MY QUESTION IS

Am I wrong to want to apologize ONLY when I'm at fault?

Omo leave that relationship na toxic relationship be that...

Deenillah:
I'll just go straight to it.

My girlfriend of 2years gets upset when I don't apologize even when I'm not at fault. , saying I don't care about her feelings.

I'm this person who believes that everyone is responsible for their actions and should shoulder the consequences for thier actions.

I don't apologize except when I know I'm wrong and I try as much as possible to avoid things that will make me apologize unnecessarily except of course for the ones that happen coincidentally.

But she wants it to be that at every little instance, I apologize even if she's at fault which to me I find unacceptable and this causes quarrels between us when it happens.


MY QUESTION IS

Am I wrong to want to apologize ONLY when I'm at fault?

Then you stop offending her.

Some men here are washing their wives undies but will tell you never to do it.


Women always do this.

For your peace of mind and that of your family , you will need to do it at times but other times let her understand why she should learn to say sorry too.

You are not saying sorry because you were wrong. You are teaching an adult how to live well...


When there is peace , then you teach her how to say sorry just for peace sake . She might even cry just to make you apologize. Apologize Mr man.. You follow this method but not always... You are stronger , so just understand how to manage her. 😂


If you follow the hard way you will end up begging for too long when it's time unless you have another woman giving you attention or you don't value your friendship or relationship

Pauliaette:



Ikpa don't mind them. How can u apologize for something you don't commit, who does that. She's a manipulating type of a woman.

Most women are manipulative

Don'i worry tide will change when you marry her.. keep apologizing

You never change AM for her before na why. Which nonsense is that now. If she cannot apologies to herself for being wrong make she get out.