Kobojunkiee:
Not when you are in a Nigerian marriage which is what the man is talking about. For instance, many Nigerian women in Nigerian marriages have had to stupidly condone adultery, abuse, etc. all so they can continue to wear that Mrs. title in their Nigerian marriages. Even this man boasting here may have had to subject his own wife to many of the same in all of those 34 years, things he would not openly speak of on video of course.

Well said

Agent8706:
I can relate.

If you want your sanity, just act a fool.

Where is that song dedicator, come and dedicate Ludacris' Act a Fool for us

He is usually 1st to 4th comments.. Guess marriage talk is not for him, he didn't just bother

Kaiser20:

How can you get married when you are still depending on your parents for sustainability?

My father warned me not to get married until I became a Man. No be every male with casava be Man.

I have no reply for jobless youths wey still dey stay their parents house dey chop mommy thank you.

bestman09:
He said the truth. I'm married for 23 years now and I know it's not bread and butter

Keep enduring

Jeon:
But those aren't stupidity. it's maturity.

Exactly.


But ur profile though.

Ekpekus:

Who be this one?
The Op was not gender specific but you just want to create a narrative here...
Haba....

u even get time to dey quote dat mad girl. She’s damaged beyond repair. na everyday her papa dey rape her na why she dey always pour out her bitterness and frustration on every thread.

BadMaster:

90% of What is spent in marriage is never gained in this life

Jennyclay:
Yen yen yen!! Indeed you’re really stupid!! .

So women should keep tolerating and enduring physical abuse and rape in their marriage .

The men we have today in Nigeria are rapist and murderers!

you're simply ignorant.

Ekpekus:

Who be this one?
The Op was not gender specific but you just want to create a narrative here...
Haba....

Why you dey answer the Bush meat.

achimendy:



Exactly.

But ur profile though.

Awkward, right?

Jennyclay:
Yen yen yen!! Indeed you’re really stupid!! .

So women should keep tolerating and enduring physical abuse and rape in their marriage .

The men we have today in Nigeria are rapist and murderers!

Did he say that?

Entanglement:
marriage is not for the kids neyneyney
Isn't not the mature minded adults divorcing up and down?

Stop opening your mouth to say useless things

That's exactly his point. You see them as mature minded adults until something they can't handle maturely happens.

Well said

Jeon:
But those aren't stupidity. it's maturity.

You definitely didn't get the sarcasm

Jeon:
But those aren't stupidity. it's maturity.

The situation is as the man put it. It definitely takes certain level of it to keep things moving.

Entanglement:
marriage is not for the kids neyneyney
Isn't not the mature minded adults divorcing up and down? Stop opening your mouth to say useless things

It takes a level of maturity to call it quits when you know things are not working. Enduring stewpidity in the name of marriage is not maturity at all.

alizma:
The situation is as the man put it. It definitely takes certain level of it to keep things moving.

But is it right and reasonable to stewpidly endure the nonsensical when the mature and sensible to do would be to call it quits for your sanity and that of others entangled?

bestman09:
He said the truth. I'm married for 23 years now and I know it's not bread and butter

E no easy oooo ... At all ...

Kobojunkiee:
Not when you are in a Nigerian marriage which is what the man is talking about. For instance, many Nigerian women in Nigerian marriages have had to stupidly condone adultery, abuse, etc. all so they can continue to wear that Mrs. title in their Nigerian marriages. Even this man boasting here may have had to subject his own wife to many of the same in all of those 34 years, things he would not openly speak of on video of course.

Nigerian women are not innocent too, at least, not all of them are innocent.

Ekpekus:

Who be this one?
The Op was not gender specific but you just want to create a narrative here...
Haba....

Person wey don run mad

maasoap:
■ Nigerian women are not innocent too, at least, not all of them are innocent.

I am not here saying they are all innocent but the vast majority of Nigerian women in Nigerian marriages are forced — by society and family —to endure the unreasonable all so as to hold on to that Mrs. title. The same society and family would not cajole the Nigerian man in a Nigerian man to endure the same shit the woman is forced to.

On point Sir. I can relate. Thank God I have the same mindset and it's helping my marriage l. But it's not very easy. Patience with the women is very important as well.

omolola12345:
On point Sir. I can relate. Thank God I have the same mindset and it's helping my marriage l. But it's not very easy. Patience with the women is very important as well.

Is it helping your marriage or are you unconsciously(or consciously even) doing it simply for the sake of adding more years to the count of years you have been married?

Jeon:
But those aren't stupidity. it's maturity.

Are you married?

Me that I hate when a lady behaves like a slowpoke what will I do ?.

Marriage is always will last thought...

Kobojunkiee:
Childlike? Do you speak in terms of the woman in the Nigerian marriage or what?

It simply means, to imitate a perfect life which we can't as sinful humans, we should become like a child.

Jackson619007:
■ It simply means, to imitate a perfect life which we can't as sinful humans, we should become like a child.

Childlike means to imitate a perfect life? Sinful humans can't do it but somehow married folks can? Huh?

Ekpekus:

I like your hasty generalization tactics and assumptions. Now read what I quoted and the op topic, then draw an inference.

Based on my previous efforts and further analysis, I have arrived to the same conclusion.

Kobojunkiee:
Childlike means to imitate a perfect life? Sinful humans can't do it but somehow married folks can? Huh?

Based on your responses, it appears that you did not comprehend my message to a significant degree.

Kindly review the content once more.

Jackson619007:
Based on your responses, it appears that you did not comprehend my message to a significant degree. Kindly review the content once more.

This is your now updated original post

Jackson619007:
Indeed, fact! It may be argued that adopting a childlike mindset is conducive to fostering a prolonged marital union. That helps a lot believe me.
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Now your response to my query is as follows...

Jackson619007:
It simply means, to imitate a perfect life which we can't as sinful humans, we should become like a child.

So, my question again is, if according to you, this childlike existence you preach cannot be achieved by sinful humans, who then can adopt this childlike mindset which you claim is conducive to fostering a prolonged marital union? Why would anyone have needed to imitate this perfect existence . i.e. live this fake life to begin with?

Jennyclay:
Yen yen yen!! Indeed you’re really stupid!! .

So women should keep tolerating and enduring physical abuse and rape in their marriage .

The men we have today in Nigeria are rapist and murderers!

Sorry, but the women we have are worse ...loud mouth, loud smokers, losho enthusiasts, lazy, self entitled with nothing to show, stingy, she Pharoahs, e plenty abeg......
But African queens still dey
May fate fix the right with their type for compliment because we need sane children and families.

Jeon:


Awkward, right?

Not really.


But for real are you a lesbian?