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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by seeker121(m): 12:24pm On Sep 24, 2023
Rich generation always start with one big THIEF.

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Nobody: 12:25pm On Sep 24, 2023
I will be careful next time.

Well, when you're from a family whereby you always eat together and share your food, you'd understand.

Me and two of my sisters are like that, we don't enjoy eating alone... Sometimes the food would even get spoiled and we'd be forced to throw them away because we wouldn't be eating them.
frankson1:




Then you should either be more careful or change where you ate on Friday when next you eat out.

Sometimes, being lonely can save life.

Besides, I'm just knowing that it can be lonely eating alone smiley

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Mayany(m): 12:30pm On Sep 24, 2023
We are product of the decisions we make

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Nobody: 12:30pm On Sep 24, 2023
Don't bother... I won't be responding to the dm.
dingbang:
not bad. I'll dm.

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by JohnnA1: 12:31pm On Sep 24, 2023
Gajagojo:
Keep your mouth shut. Don't advise anybody
What about the younger ones like children who are for the most part naive, innocent and inexperienced?

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Lance008(m): 12:31pm On Sep 24, 2023
WarrenP:
FAMILY IS NOT ALWAYS FAMILY
Bro u said it all

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Lance008(m): 12:32pm On Sep 24, 2023
Sometimes those people you are fighting for want you disgrace

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by frankson1(m): 12:33pm On Sep 24, 2023
Samantha124:
I will be careful next time.

Well, when you're from a family whereby you always eat together and share your food, you'd understand.

Me and two of my sisters are like that, we don't enjoy eating alone... Sometimes the food would even get spoiled and we'd be forced to throw them away because we wouldn't be eating them.



And you won't suffer from it again.

I don't enjoy eating with someone and infact, there are lots of things I don't do with partners.

You should drink plenty of water.

Have a good rest and get well as quickly as possible.
Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by emerged01(m): 12:34pm On Sep 24, 2023
Chingyyy878:
What’s the hardest truth you have learnt as an adult?
No matter how you love your wife and your wife loves you. Dont get too comfortable with her to start telling her what you shouldnt.

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by LordIsaac(m): 12:35pm On Sep 24, 2023
CaveAdullam:
1. Talk is cheap, action is hard.

2. The majority of humans clamor for freedom. But the price of freedom and individual sovereignty is an expensive price to pay. This makes people settle for mediocre lives, mediocre jobs, and mediocre relationships.

3. Refusal to do the important things with joy when young will be done in shame when old.

4. Don't castigate what you don't understand. Because in few years you may become a partner with it.

5. Humans are altruistic as well as selfish. The side you find them on any day is dependent on their mood.

When situations are light, the altruistic side shines. When it becomes a matter of survival, which is the commonest mode, selfishness goes overboard.

6. If you don't have solid principles you'll be tossed to and fro by every wind that blows.

7. It becomes harder to remain focused and consistent as you age. Because your mind is scattered along many terrains.

8. Hard work is important. But to rise from top to bottom, you'll need a helping hand.

9. It takes one person to change your life for good. Hence, be vigilant with everyone you come across.

Don't squander time and interactions with good and powerful people.

10. Nothing goes for free in this life. If you have nothing of value to exchange nobody will treat you with respect.

11. Instead of begging someone for help, see how you can help them. In doing so, you protect your reputation and dignity. And nobody can shame you for working to earn.

12. Anything right and good your mind is prompting you to do now, do it. Don't postpone it. That's where your fulfillment lies.

13. Stay aloof from people who fail to reciprocate kind gestures.

Reciprocation doesn't need to be equal. At least they should be trusted enough to side with you when you are at the low.

14. If you want to see the burgeoning of good behavior, good deeds, and luminous character, reward people who effuse it.

15. Learn to think in 2, 3, 4... dimensions. Your first and best plan may fail. But having other strategies and options will help you when things become tough.

16. Don't depend on promises and favors. Without it, you'll survive. So, why then have you suspended your survival hoping for it?

17. Disappointment is part of life. You must be prepared and wait for it. This is not pessimism. It's just a little handbook of wisdom.

18. Never fail to express your love to people who love you. Your friends and families. Acting strange with them makes you less than lower animals.

19. Wolves are always in the raiment of sheep. Being a sheep draws them close as they arrive to feast on you. Being a wolverine yourself makes them fear you.

Occupy the paradox as an adult.

Beautiful and wisdom packed!

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Barcalee: 12:36pm On Sep 24, 2023
Life is vanity

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by ictplotter(m): 12:37pm On Sep 24, 2023
University education is so overrated, if you want to be wealthy don't be a graduate but be educated.

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Nobody: 12:38pm On Sep 24, 2023
You and your wahala! grin grin grin

Doctors ran some tests on the early hours of Saturday morning because I was rushed to the hospital in the evening of Friday when my condition deteriorated and no baby was found anywhere.


It's food poisoning.
Dshocker:


Hahaha!

You never can tell, just calculate the last time you had it unprotected, and the last time you saw your flow grin grin grin

Triplets are coming.

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by SweetDipBenny(m): 12:40pm On Sep 24, 2023
U on ur own sad
Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by john1101(m): 12:40pm On Sep 24, 2023
reiddecuti:
There's no God anywhere to serve justice to the evil or corrupt once.

There's no karma. If you're smart enough to cover your track, you go free.

If justice is not serve here right the moment evil is committed, then the justice is lost.

lol Very funny, Trouble is to be avoided at all costs Ask the ekweremadus, despite their money trouble found them.

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by forgivenezzBank(m): 12:40pm On Sep 24, 2023
You are the commander in chief of your destiny!

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Edusouls(m): 12:40pm On Sep 24, 2023
SkengRay:
Everyone no matter their social standing will face challenges in different aspect of their life
true

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Edusouls(m): 12:41pm On Sep 24, 2023
90% of humans are not Good

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Deco7: 12:41pm On Sep 24, 2023
Samantha124:
You and your wahala! grin grin grin

Doctors ran some tests on the early hours of Saturday morning because I was rushed to the hospital in the evening of Friday when my condition deteriorated and no baby was found anywhere.


It's food poisoning.



Do you have proof of food poisioning. Don't go subjecting yourself to mental turmoil for the next year's if your life suspecting people you never should. Don't allow people imprison you with ideas. If it's not medically proven, please let the doctor tell you the cause and quit speculation
Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by vickydevoka(m): 12:42pm On Sep 24, 2023
WarrenP:
FAMILY IS NOT ALWAYS FAMILY
How?
Please don't tell me de don't want to help, say something else

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by zainkay: 12:42pm On Sep 24, 2023
MikeofKd:
Money doesn’t necessarily bring happiness ,it’s just important to have it to solve basic problems. but you think it does cause there’s probably a lot of stuffs you want to do with money.

Well think about it this way , after getting all the money and you’ve done everything you’ve always wanted , you start to feel empty ,it’s like you’ve seen it all so there’s no excitement anymore , u begin to get tired of luxury easily.

That’s why you see the likes of Elon musks , Dangote , Otedola , money doesn’t seem to excite them at all. But they understand that it important to have it.
This is very easy to say for those already succesful.

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by flexindino(m): 12:43pm On Sep 24, 2023
sotall:
lipsrsealed

That the major religions Islam and Christianity are scams.


A fact i wish i had known since i was a child.

God bless you richly for dis.....I just had this in mind.
Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by vickydevoka(m): 12:43pm On Sep 24, 2023
obinna58:
People will want to help you when it’s of no use to you anymore, they’ll try to give you what you have already achieved, they’ll show concerns at the point it doesn’t matter,benefit you.

They’ll deny you food when you’re hungry/starved and try to feed you when you’re full

They’ll bully, terrorize and show you plenty of wickedness at your lowest point but start preaching morality at your peak level

You’ll be castigated, insulted at your worst times but be praised at your best times.

Do the same n be amongst they people. You will be alright

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Nobody: 12:44pm On Sep 24, 2023
So you're one of those people who would hide food around the house whenever you have guests?😂😂😂
frankson1:




And you won't suffer from it again.

I don't enjoy eating with someone and infact, there are lots of things I don't do with partners.

You should drink plenty of water.

Have a good rest and get well as quickly as possible.
Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Postinor: 12:45pm On Sep 24, 2023
Samantha124:
I've learned that food poisoning is real... I've been 🤮🤮🤮 all evening.

Hopefully I'll be okay tomorrow.
fine girl dey mess,I cover my nose 🐽
Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by LordIsaac(m): 12:45pm On Sep 24, 2023
UncleKoboko:
1, A SLÚT, wayward girl, whóre or olosho will forever be OLOSHŌ.
They never change.
What usually seem to change them is conditioning (marriage, having a child etc)
Most times when circumstances change again, they will go back to their old ways.


2, Never trust anything that comes out ot a NON-VIRGIN girl's mouth, as regards her sexual history and past. They lie 99.99% of times.

3, Women have pattern behaviours.
If she's cheated in the past, she will always cheat again.
A girl that you snatched from someone or that left someone for you, CAN ALWAYS LEAVE YOU FOR SOMEONE or will still leave you for someone else.

4, If you didn't marry her as a virgin
PLEASE DO DNA TEST ON YOUR CHILDREN.
Even if you married her as and you notice or suspect misbehaviour or waywardness, PLEASE STILL DO DNA TEST. DNA TEST IS NO LONGER AS EXPENSIVE AS IT USED TO BE.

5, A woman with good morals, decent and modesty and with average looks is far more VALUABLE AND A GOOD ASSET THAN THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN IN THE WORLD FOR A PARTNER.

6, IF YOU WON'T LIKE YOUR DAUGHTER TO BE LIKE HER, SHE IS NOT A GOOD PERSON TO BE THE MOTHER OF YOUR CHILDREN.

7, People's past matters a lot and we should always Judge people by their past.
The law judge people by their past (actions)
Your cv is your past to get jobs
Banks will judge you by your past before giving you the next loan...
Even God will judge us by our past at the end of life.
But for you here on earth, one cunny and mischievous girl will tell you not to judge her by her past after living a useless and wayward life and you'll think she has a point grin grin grin
For this glorious piece, remain blessed!!!😊

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by blingxx(m): 12:47pm On Sep 24, 2023
A305:
it was Fabulous B.I.G who first said it.

Rip Biggy

Drake normally copy OG rappers grin so I'm not surprised

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Nobody: 12:47pm On Sep 24, 2023
😂😂😂😂
Postinor:
fine girl dey mess,I cover my nose 🐽
Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by LordIsaac(m): 12:48pm On Sep 24, 2023
For EVERY interaction people always have a motive…find it; it is the key to defining how far you are willing to go with them.😊

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Nobody: 12:48pm On Sep 24, 2023
Didn't you read the part where I said doctors ran some tests
Deco7:




Do you have proof of food poisioning. Don't go subjecting yourself to mental turmoil for the next year's if your life suspecting people you never should. Don't allow people imprison you with ideas. If it's not medically proven, please let the doctor tell you the cause and quit speculation

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by 9182736455O1999(m): 12:48pm On Sep 24, 2023
Zuckembego:
All human beings are hypocrites
Seconded man. We're all fvcking Hypocrites.

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by motayoayinde: 12:49pm On Sep 24, 2023
sotall:
lipsrsealed

That the major religions Islam and Christianity are scams.


A fact i wish i had known since i was a child.

NOTHING IS MORE REAL THAN ISLAM.

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