Hello guys!!

Please I need ur candid advice on this issue.. Am dating this lady and we re planning to go see her parent next month. So she always come to my place although her place is not far from mine..

No my best friend from childhood who lives in far from me want 2 come and be staying with me, since my place is close to his work place, although he will just be staying few days every week.
I try 2 make him understand that I have a woman in the house and we preparing for marriage.. But this his not going down well with my friend he said since am yet to marry her he should be allow to come stay with me. He started say things like he has left me at home with his girlfriend before which was in the past. My girl is not in support of him coming to stay with me due 2 privacy because it just a single apartment.

Please I don't want 2 have issues with my fiancee or my best friend.. I need an advice on how to convince either one of them.. Because I have no issue with my guy coming 2 stay but still as a man preparing 2 settle down I need some privacy..

Am so confuse I don't know what 2 do..

Tnks

Well, Looking from both Angles , coupled with the fact that it's a Single apartment... I absolutely would say u tell Your best friend NO...

But you see these days, these girls aren't meant to be trusted, Bro Code ( U shouldn't chop ur guy's eye because of these Girls... At the end of the day, things might not work out as you've think between u and ur gurl... And Las las, nah ur guy go remain for u )

But with what you've stated Sir, I'd suggest u let your guy understand... Coz he would be staying with u for days not just for a single day... 💔


An elder sister once told me, if ur ready to settle down with someone u love, Don't take heed to friends and Family coz if things goes south, ur gurl might be the only one for u..

Thank God for that your friend because he's divinely sent to come and stop the bombastic fornication you've been doing with somebody's daughter

Ashawo oshi
I hate to see two unmarried people having sex, it used to pain me very well nonsense

It is kinda complicated.

Not rendering help to your friend when he needs it most is betrayal of trust and friendship. Though he has NO right to force your hand into rendering him help because he has done same to you in the past.

If you ask me, I would keep my best friend and my girlfriend, not to talk of my fiancee far apart. I no wan hear story that touch.

On the flip side, I think your fiance's concert is valid. It is easy to accept 'visitor' but to send them away is a different ball game.

Having side P3, I think it is out of place for her to mandate you to stop your friend from staying with you. I hope that's not a red flag for a domineering or possessive woman. Will she also be determining who you speak to or where you visit...think am ooo


Note: you can reach an agreement with your friend about the exact days (Mon/tues/sat/sun/)he will be staying in the house and let him know this would only be possible till 2 weeks to your wedding.

Talk to your woman on the above and assure her that the agreement is sacrosanct.

Please stay away from sin, especially fornication.


Happy married life!

Which privacy are you talking about? Are u suppose to be cohabiting with your girlfriend in the first place?

IconicR:
Thank God for that your friend because he's divinely sent to come and stop the bombastic fornication you've been doing with somebody's daughter

Ashawo oshi
I hate to see two unmarried people having sex, it used to pain me very well nonsense

Ashawo oshi!!
're u a saint?

Dyfynezz12:

Ashawo oshi!!
're u a saint?

Shush it

You are also having sex with somebody's daughter yeye

A

IconicR:
Shush it
You are also having sex with somebody's daughter yeye

don't mind him, he dosen't know you're a virgin.

This matter hard oooh

This op can lie, ma everytime e dey get issue for relationship..

From experience I'd say don't let your friend stay, especially since you're planning on getting married, it's easy to let someone stay but it's not easy to tell them to leave and since it's a job he's coming for it'll take him a couple of months before he can get a place of his own. My two cents

IconicR:
Shush it

You are also having sex with somebody's daughter yeye

At least am not pretending

Dyfynezz12:

At least am not pretending

And who is pretending

Your friend should understand and not pressure you’ and your fiancé should understand and not pressure you. Both of them are not good people.

Honestfrend:
Hello guys!!

Please I need ur candid advice on this issue.. Am dating this lady and we re planning to go see her parent next month. So she always come to my place although her place is not far from mine..

No my best friend from childhood who lives in far from me want 2 come and be staying with me, since my place is close to his work place, although he will just be staying few days every week.
I try 2 make him understand that I have a woman in the house and we preparing for marriage.. But this his not going down well with my friend he said since am yet to marry her he should be allow to come stay with me. He started say things like he has left me at home with his girlfriend before which was in the past. My girl is not in support of him coming to stay with me due 2 privacy because it just a single apartment.

Please I don't want 2 have issues with my fiancee or my best friend.. I need an advice on how to convince either one of them.. Because I have no issue with my guy coming 2 stay but still as a man preparing 2 settle down I need some privacy..

Am so confuse I don't know what 2 do..

Tnks

What is wrong with youths of nowadays? You are camping a lady that you aren't married to and you are even proud of it. Well prolly your religion or culture accepts it, no qualms. That's by the way. Your guy is kinda right. You ought to house him.

IconicR:
Thank God for that your friend because he's divinely sent to come and stop the bombastic fornication you've been doing with somebody's daughter

Ashawo oshi
I hate to see two unmarried people having sex, it used to pain me very well nonsense

. What has the Op's lamentation got to do with sexxx?

Privacy for fornication you mean

Nonsense and ingredients

If the guy has done it for you before...na there wahala dey ooo

Don't forget..she has her own house. Go and stay there, conscience go prick the dude..he will leave olorun..

Thank me later

You are very indecisive…

Why can’t you make up your mind?

What do you want?

Your main guy wants to come stay with you for few days due to work issues and you are concerned about your girl who stays closeby?? Kai...weak men everywhere!!

If my girl can't tolerate my main hommie, their is no point going further with any marriage plans!! You haven't married her, yet she has started selecting people for you!! Omo...!!! Is this not a red flag to you?? Just chill until she stop your mother from visiting you, continue being a sissy...!!

I wonder how guys behave and relaxed to the extent their GF starts detecting how things should go in their life, your friend has even done the same for you in the past, but here you are...

If you cannot handle this small issue as a bachelor, your marriage go brutal oO!!

Iseoluwani:
This op can lie, ma everytime e dey get issue for relationship..

Change is constant.. U seems to think that if a man is single yesterday he will still remain single in years 2 come.. Grow up..

Some of them up there has a BQ in their compound with nobody sleeping in it.

But they are here giving advice to Op to let his guy share in his selfcontain room.

Yeye people.. cohabiting is a sin and not permissible in any religion.
Instead of Christians to fight for jannah, they'll be busy competing with Islam.
Its a religious war indeed. Coming publicly to glorify fornication is not strange or new to Christiandom.

Mumu people

Same thing happened to me,my brother friend sent my brother, me and 2 guys from his house because of his girl friend that he got pregnant. Me and my brother,block him ASAP

So don't just say no to your friend.

Happy birthday to me

Matter tie gele and wrapper. Let's call a meeting of the elders.

Alright

Friendship means little when it is convenient.

I'm sure this supposed conundrum will teach you life long lessons.

What's tha business?

That your friend is being reasonable and considerate. Imagine the intended invasion of privacy

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