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5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by julianH(m): 9:38am On Sep 04, 2009 |
Why do men not call when they say they are going to? Let us go over the possible reasons for this, as I know how men's minds' often work. There are lots to learn from each, so let us see which ones ring true for you, And while you're reading each of these, see if you can figure out what each one of these situations has in common. Why Men Don't Call: Situation #1 Some men are too immature to be honest and straight-forward with a woman. Sometimes men are just being dumb and giving themselves ego strokes by flirting with you, even though they never really thought they'd call. But they get your number anyway to feel good and to have it "just in case" they got some random urge or reason to call you in the future. Plus, getting a woman's number is a kind of "trophy" to show to other immature men. Why Men Don't Call: Situation #2 They were just looking for a hook-up, and you weren't "fling" material (which is a good thing, unless that is all you are looking for). Often times, men think they just want a woman to be "physical" with. If you are out at a club or a bar and you meet a man, often times he will have "hooking up" on his mind. Right!? If you meet a guy like this and, in his eyes, You are the girl he would like to bring home to mom, then you might not be the girl he will want to spend his time with, at least for the near future. But in spite of this, he takes your number, in case he gets the crazy foreign idea in his head that he would actually want a great girl for a real relationship. And guess what? He does not come to that realization for a very long time - so he doesn't call. I am not saying it makes sense, but that is how some men operate. And in a strange way, men who do this are doing you a favor at that time in their life. The timing wasn't right. Why Men Don't Call: Situation #3 They thought they were being "polite" by getting your number, even though they never felt like calling. Have you ever given your number to a man who asked for it, meanwhile you were already dreading his call and wishing inside that you had given him a fake number? Exactly, And I know it sucks to think about this, but have you ever thought that the tables could be turned? You see, if men enjoy their conversations with you but are not that interested, they sometimes feel a polite "obligation" to get your number. It is a kind of way to end the interaction on a positive note, even though they never really thought about if they intended to call you. I know it sucks, but men are not often up front and assertive either when it comes to the opposite sex. Why Men Don't Call: Situation #4 They were interested in you at first, but after a little while they started to feel like something was "off", maybe even after they got your number. And while you were trying so hard to create random reasons for you to see each other again, and to not have a guy get your number and not call again, they could sense your subtle fear and discomfort. And so the attraction and connection they had just started feeling and had turned into with you changed and was "broken." Why Men Don't Call: Situation #5 They lost your number or forgot to call. Get a copy of attracting and keeping your ideal man here: http://www.theidealman4u..com 1 Like |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by Nobody: 9:53am On Sep 04, 2009 |
Very good!! |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by 190: 9:56am On Sep 04, 2009 |
true yarn! |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by Nobody: 9:58am On Sep 04, 2009 |
good one man I so needed to know some reasons behind this |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by candylips(m): 10:58am On Sep 04, 2009 |
rokky u don't need those rules |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by Nobody: 11:07am On Sep 04, 2009 |
what am I suppose to do kiss you also? lol just kidding |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by candylips(m): 11:24am On Sep 04, 2009 |
the wink is just fine |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by Nobody: 11:52am On Sep 04, 2009 |
Wouldnt it just be better to not just take the number at all? Gosh Im so hating men right now. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by biola44: 11:59am On Sep 04, 2009 |
there could be a bet |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by candylips(m): 12:49pm On Sep 04, 2009 |
Ebonyeyes: why now |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by scemchee(m): 1:15pm On Sep 04, 2009 |
it happened to me two days ago with a friends cousin,and i know rite now dat the girl will be wondering what manner of guy i was.but i was only trying to be nice or the word friendly.nothing else in mind.well reading this now,will proceed in giving her a call b4 she begins to hate me,lol or look down on her self.she is cute n well figured bt cant just figure why i didn't call.perhaps no credit to waste.sorry fellas. just doing wat makes me happy as a friend told me today,"do wat ever makes u happy no matter what". 4 those who saw my previous thread,u will know wat am talking abt.tired of runaways n back girls. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by Nobody: 1:19pm On Sep 04, 2009 |
candylips:Sorry babes just been having bad experiences with them, |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by Nobody: 1:20pm On Sep 04, 2009 |
scemchee:You better call her Poor thing will be wondering what happened, |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by candylips(m): 1:45pm On Sep 04, 2009 |
Ebonyeyes: eyaaah pele |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by follypimpi(m): 1:56pm On Sep 04, 2009 |
Quite true. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by sexyLeamon(f): 12:29pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
interesting |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by jaybee3(m): 12:33pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
Your number simply got binned straight after the second stage (elimination stage) 1 Like |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by Yumi(f): 12:36pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
Reason number 1 should be He met you, he liked you but he hasn't called you as he has a girlfriend. In that situation he shouldn't really ask for or accept your number though but some men do. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by jaybee3(m): 12:39pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
Yumi:wrong assumption . If he has a GF and obviously willing to cheat on her then i don't see anything stopping him from taking it further. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by candylips(m): 1:24pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
simple they no get credit |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by iice(f): 3:36pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
I'd rather they don't call Just be bombarding pesin |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by Yumi(f): 3:38pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
jay bee: Yep but some men get hit by their conscience mid way and then just don't call as they really can't cheat on their girlfriend. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by jaybee3(m): 3:48pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
iice:U sure abt dat? why give them your number when you obviously wish they don't call? hmmmmmmm 1 Like |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by McDoe(m): 3:59pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
One and the most probable reason is that men often realize that the babe whose number was collected might be a PREDATOR |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by iice(f): 4:01pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
jay bee: To save the trouble of incessant disturbance for number After battling 3 people. . .i no get power. |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by kokadoe: 4:04pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
u really got issues but am afraid ur 1st point is true |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by Yumi(f): 4:21pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
McDoe: Hilarious isn't that what men usually are? |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by sweetpie23: 4:39pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by CrazyMan(m): 5:43pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
*Sighs* |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by solidgold(m): 5:48pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
stupid rules |
Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by battyguy(m): 8:20pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
Not exactly true. pls do more research.
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Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Dont Call When They Say They Would (after Collectin Ur Number) by nana(f): 8:34pm On Sep 18, 2009 |
Ok |
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