My friend has been dating this guy for 3yrs now and has been coping with his spoken english which isnt smooth and most times incorect, she is not excatly posh but she can be viewed as one.now,it has goten so bad that she has to speak for him in public cos he wil surely "tabon", she claims to love him but his spoken english wan do "ojoro" for d love.

That is a stain which will erode the love if her attitude doesn't change.
But tell me this for 3 yrs she has tolerated the guy, so what changed? When he first started talking to her did she not notice the broken english or was she 'blindly in love?'
3 yrs is no joke but here's is another question.How old is the dude? A grown up I guess.That means he has been communicating to people in various places even before he met the girl. People dont succeed in life because they speak good english. He must  be good in other areas so she needs to focus on that more.
A guy that is good in all aspects and lacking in refined foreign language is worth keeping. classes/reading can help

Dont make a mistake of asking the dude to take english classes straight to his face. That's disturbing. Use wise ways to encourage him and stop all that caging in public. its a shame.

Sumtyms i wonda wat dose ppl were doin wen odas were polishing dere english vocubulary

what has she been doing with him for the past three years if she knew his communication skills would be an issue for her later in life?smh for her.the guy's a grown man and it might be difficult for him to change him.she should either deal with it or walk away.

op is not dat bad english is a borrowed language

Op are you looking for an english tutor for him in here?cos I no understand which one you come dey tell us.
Since when is english speaking ability a prerequisite for love?

After 3yrs u suddenly realise his English is bad? Abeg commit dia! 3 whole years!!! Time waster!

NaJa HaJe:

After 3yrs u suddenly realise his English is bad? Abeg commit dia! 3 whole years!!! Time waster!

she had hoped his spoken english would improve within 3 years but she miscalculated.

coogar:

she had hoped his spoken english would improve within 3 years but she miscalculated.

is she your sister?u sound like you know her,

bekay911:

Sumtyms i wonda wat dose ppl were doin wen odas were polishing dere english vocubulary

This is not exactly what polished English looks like.


Remove the speck in your eyes so you can see clearly!

Abeg forget English Jo. Na your papa language?

slimyem:

is she your sister?u sound like you know her,

i don't know her neither is she my sister but i understand exactly how these stories play out.