dayokanu:

^^ Why cant we digress?

Ascony:

you can outsmart your way tru life, wat will dat profit u? u can manage to dodge all d bullets dat life throws at u. wat will dat make u in d end? A Nobody!

But d real man is dat man dat look his obstacles and fears face 2 face!; d man dat tackles his challenges wit all d strength, vigour and pasion; d man dat swims tru d oceas of tribulations and tough times and still comes out alive and successful! Dat man is d Real Man!

Life is not a bed of roses, when life confronts u with a difficult challenge, do not dodge it, rather face it with all your guts, , cos wat does not kill u will surely make u stronger! se fini,

blogger1.0:

LWKMD, BTW wot u said is it a form of beef to men or wot?

No, why should i beef them
Frankly, i don't use the term real man unless i'm talking about transgendered people and that's only to differentiate between heteros and homos.
People use real man/woman to define what suits their needs/wants.
In the end, having responsibility or maturity makes a person simply a responsible/matured adult. Nothing real or unreal about that.

WAVixen:

one with balls of steel!!!!

kayalla:

from my own view,

A man is oe who makes more money yhan his wife can spend

Ascony:

you can outsmart your way tru life, wat will dat profit u? u can manage to dodge all d bullets dat life throws at u. wat will dat make u in d end? A Nobody!

But d real man is dat man dat look his obstacles and fears face 2 face!; d man dat tackles his challenges wit all d strength, vigour and pasion; d man dat swims tru d oceas of tribulations and tough times and still comes out alive and successful! Dat man is d Real Man!

Life is not a bed of roses, when life confronts u with a difficult challenge, do not dodge it, rather face it with all your guts, , cos wat does not kill u will surely make u stronger! se fini,

ronkebp:

If a man chooses to be single at forty then, it is his cross, there is nothing fulfilling, than giving life to another (children) and caring for them, i know some would say, afterall you can have them without necessarily getting married ( well, to each his own). You can do all these, give to charity and so on and so forth and not still be a real man, Being a real man is not determined by the money you have in the bank, but your heart.

DaLover:

A real man is at least 8 inches long and can pleasure his female partner successfully, lolz

ronkebp:

We have our duties, men have theirs, women have their own duty to perform as human beings. Yes women want to have families, raise children and live happily ever after (monetary wise). Who does not want a good thing?? or when did aspiring to be great become a sin? Men, decide to put this women in their own homes, no woman can tie a man down, haven't you seenand heard, from the experiences sorrounding you and even on NL, how men leave their wives and children to tend to other things that matter most to them So stop saying women tie men down, instead it is the other way round. Men are the ones tying women down these days.

There are so many women that have decided to stay with their men both interms of need and in plenty, not all women are like what you painted, ''gold diggers' ''fff's'', And there are men, when everything is now clear and good, they forget the woman that stood by them against all odds (and again, not all men are like that). And when i said ''that was his cross' is that; every decision we make, we are accountable to them, we face the consequences alone. so a 40 year old man/woman that decides to not marry or have children, not because there are no spouses, but because of ''hatred'' for the other gender, is sooo carrying his/her cross.


I don't know the crowds you have been hanging with, but you need to change your friends, why live a bitter life?

harakiri:

First of all, i'd give my left arm and my right leg to get listen to you lecture me on HOW MEN TIE WOMEN DOWN! ! ! I wouldn't miss that for anything in the world. Second, i can't remember where i painted women as gold diggers. I can't remember ever painting women as gold diggers on nairaland. You must be taking me for someone else (see your life?). Third. . .did you say "bitter life"? Lady, i don't mean to blow my horn but i'm living real good and peaceful with any woman i'm having a relationship with. The only difference between me and the gullible,naive,dim witted,weak minded man/men in your life is that I KNOW HOW WOMEN ARE! ! ! Yeah! I know how totally phucked up your minds are. And my friends (mostly business associates) are very successful matured men that are usually way,way,way above my age group. . .so, i learn a lot from them. I am yet to see any of them talk about how "peaceful" their marriage is. It's always one trouble or the other which is ALWAYS started by the wife (who is hell bent on making sure the man never enjoys 48hrs of peace and harmony) .They might put up the "happily married facade" in public but deep down, they all hate the day they decided to throw away their freedom and get married. Marriage is all about WOMEN,WOMEN,WOMEN,KIDS AND WOMEN! ! ! That's all there is to it and the man is just the ATM to keep the engine running.


End of!

ronkebp:

You do not have to paint women as 'gold diggers' in your post, before i can perceive you infering that in your statements. I will gladly lecture you on how men tie women down, since you don't know.

You see!! am so right to say, you are bitter, and you have a bitter feeling and attitude towards women, you are such a chauvinist, that do not see anything good in a woman, all you do is talk/ write about, women doing this, marraige is that blabla and bla. Dude, like i said, i do not know the calibre of women and men you have been hanging out with or dating. There are some men that look at their relationships/marraige and are grateful for who they have in a girlfriend or wife. You have the ''wrongest'' attitude towards marraige, that is ssooooo wrong. Marraige is all about having a family!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, family!!!!!!!!!!!!!! something to call your own, wife to call your own, children to call your own. I am not trying to change your mentality( which is really messed-up) about marraige, but just letting you know what some of us see marraige as.
And am so glad for the 'ONE' in my life, i just imagine the ladies that go into relationships with you, you obviously use them as 'se.x object'' and dump them, going on to the next available one. Too sad that they cannot see through, those fake smiles and corky attitude.

ronkebp:

You do not have to paint women as 'gold diggers' in your post, before i can perceive you infering that in your statements. I will gladly lecture you on how men tie women down, since you don't know.

You see!! am so right to say, you are bitter, and you have a bitter feeling and attitude towards women, you are such a chauvinist, that do not see anything good in a woman, all you do is talk/ write about, women doing this, marraige is that blabla and bla. Dude, like i said, i do not know the calibre of women and men you have been hanging out with or dating. There are some men that look at their relationships/marraige and are grateful for who they have in a girlfriend or wife. You have the ''wrongest'' attitude towards marraige, that is ssooooo wrong. Marraige is all about having a family!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, family!!!!!!!!!!!!!! something to call your own, wife to call your own, children to call your own. I am not trying to change your mentality( which is really messed-up) about marraige, but just letting you know what some of us see marraige as.
And am so glad for the 'ONE' in my life, i just imagine the ladies that go into relationships with you, you obviously use them as 'se.x object'' and dump them, going on to the next available one. Too sad that they cannot see through, those fake smiles and corky attitude.

ronkebp:

You do not have to paint women as 'gold diggers' in your post, before i can perceive you infering that in your statements. I will gladly lecture you on how men tie women down, since you don't know.

You see!! am so right to say, you are bitter, and you have a bitter feeling and attitude towards women, you are such a chauvinist, that do not see anything good in a woman, all you do is talk/ write about, women doing this, marraige is that blabla and bla. Dude, like i said, i do not know the calibre of women and men you have been hanging out with or dating. There are some men that look at their relationships/marraige and are grateful for who they have in a girlfriend or wife. You have the ''wrongest'' attitude towards marraige, that is ssooooo wrong. Marraige is all about having a family!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, family!!!!!!!!!!!!!! something to call your own, wife to call your own, children to call your own. I am not trying to change your mentality( which is really messed-up) about marraige, but just letting you know what some of us see marraige as.
And am so glad for the 'ONE' in my life, i just imagine the ladies that go into relationships with you, you obviously use them as 'se.x object'' and dump them, going on to the next available one. Too sad that they cannot see through, those fake smiles and corky attitude.

emmatok:

You are so predictable!!!

Immediately someone say something you don't agree with, you quickly spin it around .

My friend, stop judge people by your own ideology.

Every Married man i know complain about it - but it is their cross .

If i decide not marry that is my choice.

I heard that Kim Kardashian will file for divorce  after 72 days of marriage.

That is marriage for you-Just a contract and noting else.

emmatok:

You are so predictable!!!

Immediately someone say something you don't agree with, you quickly spin it around .

My friend, stop judging people by your own ideology.

Every Married man i know complain about it - but it is their cross .

If i decide not marry that is my choice.

I heard that Kim Kardashian will file for divorce  after 72 days of marriage.

That is marriage for you-Just a contract and noting else.

harakiri:

Abeg, no mind dat woman jare. Even from the way she types and the gibberish she's flooding this place with, it's easy to tell she isn't the "brightest of the bunch". Her last comment is so dumb,dense and reetarded that i wouldn't glorify it with an answer. I'd rather discuss politics with a random lunatic on the street.

emmatok:

You are so predictable!!!

Immediately someone say something you don't agree with, you quickly spin it around .

My friend, stop judging people by your own ideology.

Every Married man i know complain about it - but it is their cross .

If i decide not marry that is my choice.

I heard that Kim Kardashian will file for divorce  after 72 days of marriage.

That is marriage for you-Just a contract and noting else.

ronkebp:

AM BACK TO YOUR POST, WHO SAYS MARRAIGE IS SUPPOSED TO BE PROBLEM FREE,? IN WHICH DICTIONARY OR LITERATURE DID YOU SEE THAT? ALL MARRAIGES, AND I REPEAT ALL, MARRAIGES ARE FULL OF PROBLEMS AND IT TAKES ''MATURITY'' TO BE ABLE TO SOLVE MARITAL PROBLEMS. THAT IS WHAT '' REAL MEN WITH SENESES'' ARE SAYING ON THIS POST.