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Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by englishmart(m): 11:03am On Jan 02
I saw this on X and couldn't stop wondering why some men simp like this.
Let not bore you.
Here, from @wizarab10 on X.

Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by englishmart(m): 11:03am On Jan 02

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Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by englishmart(m): 11:04am On Jan 02
embarassed

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Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by PerfectStranger(m): 11:05am On Jan 02
You can never get rid of simps in the society no matter what

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Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by englishmart(m): 11:08am On Jan 02
A woman doesn’t break up to go be alone

Before every break up , there is a third party she’s now in love with

If you beg , you are only telling her you want to be her second choice

If she ever accepts , she will put the new nigga first and treat you like piss


Remember it’s not her fault .. she naturally thinks with her feelings like a child .. it’s you who doesn’t understand female psychology

No woman leaves a relationship to be alone

If she leaves you , she found someone she thinks is better … tbis can not be reversed

EXCEPT the new person starts changing towards her … for safety reasons as not to still stay alone , she can consider to come back to you …

And while she does , she still hunts for the next man

This is why it’s dangerous to beg for love

Hope you learn

Simping should be prohibited in this country in 2024 🤦🏼

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Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by englishmart(m): 11:08am On Jan 02
PerfectStranger:
You can never get rid of simps in the society no matter what
That was disgraceful

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Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by SharingIsLife(m): 11:22am On Jan 02
You will blame that guy outrightly if only you have never been in love. When you are truly in love, you act like mad. You can't even believe yourself. It happened to me once after many years of acting macho. Now, I really wonder if I was actually the one.

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Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by elmagnifico411(m): 11:24am On Jan 02
Where una dey see all these stories written by yeye boys them? This no be man now! Some are just grown but na boy them be for their heart

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Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by englishmart(m): 11:25am On Jan 02
SharingIsLife:
You will blame that guy outrightly if only you have never been in love. When you are truly in love, you act like mad. You can't even believe yourself. It happened to me once after many years of acting macho. Now, I really wonder if I was actually the one.
Being in love is one thing, being in love with someone who is done with you is madness. Don't you have self-respect?
What does she have that you can't find elsewhere?
When you treat a 3/10 as 9/10 because of your simping, you will learn the hard way.

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Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by SharingIsLife(m): 11:32am On Jan 02
englishmart:
Being in love is one thing, being in love with someone who is done with you is madness. Don't you have self-respect?
What does she have that you can't find elsewhere?
When you treat a 3/10 as 9/10 because of your simping, you will learn the hard way.
I didn't get to this level. But I could have easily gotten there if the lady broke up with me at that point.

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Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by UptownVibes(m): 11:34am On Jan 02
englishmart:
Being in love is one thing, being in love with someone who is done with you is madness. Don't you have self-respect?
What does she have that you can't find elsewhere?
When you treat a 3/10 as 9/10 because of your simping, you will learn the hard way.
Bro if you are truly in love with a woman you will simp without even knowing. Other girls won't matter to you.. No matter the shit she does,you won't want to let her go. Most especially when you invested alot. Its after breakup you will realize how stupid you have been.. That is why I advice guys not to make mistake of falling in love with a woman. To me falling in love with a woman meañs becoming a fool for a woman.. Anyone who once loved and broke up later will understand better.. Those that are under the spell (Love) will say m stupid... I was once like them,until I learnt the hard way.. cheesy

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Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by englishmart(m): 12:00pm On Jan 02
UptownVibes:
Bro if you are truly in love with a woman you will simp without even knowing. Other girls won't matter to you.. No matter the shit she does,you won't want to let her go. Most especially when you invested alot. Its after breakup you will realize how stupid you have been.. That is why I advice guys not to make mistake of falling in love with a woman. To me falling in love with a woman meañs becoming a fool for a woman.. Anyone who once loved and broke up later will understand better.. Those that are under the spell (Love) will say m stupid... I was once like them,until I learnt the hard way.. cheesy
I ensure you invest as much as I invest. I can't be dating myself. If she takes 10 minutes to reply, my next reply will be in 20 minutes. There was a day I dropped a message on WhatsApp and she didn't reply for 2 days, meanwhile her data was on. When she eventually replied, I didn't reply for 4 days. She started noticing I was withdrawing, then she adjusted.
I changed strategy. If I initiate a conversion on Monday, it's your turn on Tuesday or we forget about it. I don't give her shishi and she doesn't ask. I believe she's an adult like me, and she's capable of taking care of herself. How can you break up with someone who is so intent on reciprocity?
She has told me several times that why she cant break up unnecessarily is that she has invested a lot.

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Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by englishmart(m): 12:05pm On Jan 02
SharingIsLife:

I didn't get to this level. But I could have easily gotten there if the lady broke up with me at that point.
Always be ready for a break up. You remain a potential until she finds no one else. More importantly, be the one who does the breaking up.

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Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by UptownVibes(m): 12:09pm On Jan 02
englishmart:
[b] I ensure you invest as much as I invest. I can't be dating myself. If she takes 10 minutes to reply, my next reply will be in 20 minutes. There was a day I dropped a message on WhatsApp and she didn't reply for 2 days, meanwhile her data was on. When she eventually replied, I didn't reply for 4 days. She started noticing I was withdrawing, then she changed a bit.
I changed strategy. If I initiate a conversion on Monday, it's your turn on Tuesday or we forget about it. I don't give her shishi and she doesn't ask. I believe she's an adult like me, and she's capable of taking care of herself. How can you break up with someone who is so intent on reciprocity? [/b[
You say all these because you understand women and their manipulation tactics already. But it will interest you to know that some guys don't.. Even as we speak, so many guys are in bondage and they calls it LOVE. You will see them telling you " my babe can't cheat on me" meanwhile that girl is having more than 4guys excluding sugar daddies o.. This lover mumu boy will pay her bills,that of her family and some of her boyfrds without him knowing. Those our guys overseas does that alot.. They pay bills for ladys ,family and boyfrds ,while they work their ass out in overseas thinking they have a loyal girl in niaja.. Bro not all guys are wise in handling women o.. Some mumu pass mumu.

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Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by marlow1962(m): 12:12pm On Jan 02
If you can reply that guy, tell him he is a curse to humanity.

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Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by oneda(m): 12:27pm On Jan 02
That guy should be donated to Yahoo boys to use to plus up. Oh! Sorry! Baba no go even accept him.
Just tie him to a pole in the forest key hunters use him for target practice. Kai! What a disgrace to manhood

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Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by Irupetepete: 12:37pm On Jan 02
I used to be worst than this guy...
My own simping na raised to the power of 1000...
I was dating mariam, all of a sudden she started giving me attitude..
I begged tire, I wail tire.
He brought a guy to his house one day in the evening. I went to the window and was begging despite hearing the papapapa sound and she was moaning loudly, I waited till they were done and still beg while she was escorting the guy...
Right from onset, I am a simp for women and I can't date two people at a time..
It got worse, I still beg and beg...
Later met a new babe, it was hard to forget mariam. I was in 200level,she was a remedial student, unilorin then, agro villa tanke...
I still carry simping enter matrimony, I just can't date two people at once... My wife use my eyes see shege pro max pro pro...
She left me after some time, then I became dangerous, I no longer have feeling for women...
Till now, I don't womanize, don't smoke, don't drink,dont just have feelings for women again, my heart became a stone when it comes to women matter.
Met a nairaland lady few years later. She was beautiful, kind, enterprising, hardworking, loving etc..
I tried to reciprocate the love but it was too late, she was giving me great vibe and love and I was so cold towards her, even when I hurt her feelings, she won't let go easily...
We separated Sha, fault was 💯 from me...
Till now, I still can't love, can't date just squarely facing my business...
I know the nairaland lady will see this, so the notion that all nairaland girls are bad is false... We still communicate Sha.

People are meant to be treated fairly in all ramifications of life. My case was that of a goat pushed to the wall.

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Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by Aaaaarghmed(m): 12:41pm On Jan 02
Irupetepete:
I used to be worst than this guy...
Mine SIMP raised to the power of 1000...
grin
Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by Aaaaarghmed(m): 12:42pm On Jan 02
englishmart:
I ensure you invest as much as I invest. I can't be dating myself. If she takes 10 minutes to reply, my next reply will be in 20 minutes. There was a day I dropped a message on WhatsApp and she didn't reply for 2 days, meanwhile her data was on. When she eventually replied, I didn't reply for 4 days. She started noticing I was withdrawing, then she adjusted.
I changed strategy. If I initiate a conversion on Monday, it's your turn on Tuesday or we forget about it. I don't give her shishi and she doesn't ask. I believe she's an adult like me, and she's capable of taking care of herself. How can you break up with someone who is so intent on reciprocity?
She has told me several times that why she cant break up unnecessarily is that she has invested a lot.
na like this I dey treat dem.sotey one frustrate.because I was always giving her double of her medicine.she knows it's easy for me to get anoda lady,she know say woman no dey hard me to get so,I am always confident and never afraid to loose any woman.

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Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by Nicepoker(m): 12:47pm On Jan 02
A time will come when waiting on events to happen should have its reward. The simp has been duly rewarded grin
Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by id4sho(m): 1:13pm On Jan 02
englishmart:
A woman doesn’t break up to go be alone

Before every break up , there is a third party she’s now in love with

If you beg , you are only telling her you want to be her second choice

If she ever accepts , she will put the new nigga first and treat you like piss


Remember it’s not her fault .. she naturally thinks with her feelings like a child .. it’s you who doesn’t understand female psychology

No woman leaves a relationship to be alone

If she leaves you , she found someone she thinks is better … tbis can not be reversed

EXCEPT the new person starts changing towards her … for safety reasons as not to still stay alone , she can consider to come back to you …

And while she does , she still hunts for the next man

This is why it’s dangerous to beg for love

Hope you learn

Simping should be prohibited in this country in 2024 🤦🏼

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Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by vvvbobby205(m): 2:12pm On Jan 02
It's not a crime to simp. Don't just simp for the wrong person

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Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by MrCork: 2:14pm On Jan 02
englishmart:
I saw this on X and couldn't stop wondering why some men simp like this.
Let not bore you.
Here, from @wizarab10 on X.



angry
Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by MrCork: 2:15pm On Jan 02
englishmart:
I saw this on X and couldn't stop wondering why some men simp like this.
Let not bore you.
Here, from @wizarab10 on X.



Why dont u keep wondaring to 2025 sir!!(no oofensece) angry
Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by johnog4sure: 2:42pm On Jan 02
SharingIsLife:
You will blame that guy outrightly if only you have never been in love. When you are truly in love, you act like mad. You can't even believe yourself. It happened to me once after many years of acting macho. Now, I really wonder if I was actually the one.
I am married already, but I pray it never happen to me or my son
Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by Gadafii: 2:43pm On Jan 02
I saw that thread on agba johndoe page, Omo I was angry with the stupiiiid boy, disgracing his ancestors

He claimed he invested everything in the girl and relationship, a very fôolish move because a wise man know very well not to invest in a relationship what you can not let go at once, just like betting you stake what you can afford to loose and you ensure she invest even double, if she likes to be spoiled, let her know you sef desired to be spoiled, if she wants bone straight of 250k, you sef want ps5 of over 500k and don’t be shy or disgraced about such

A good woman can identify a man with potential and appreciate the little efforts you make in her life and she will definitely reciprocate, don’t accept sex as gifts, na u go do the work and na she go enjoy am pass so who she wan deceive


Secondly, as a man you deserve more than one woman, don’t let anyone lie to you. But if you choose to stick to one woman that’s fine also, but never commit everything to that one woman, na premium tears you Dey face

This simp went as far as going to her house to beg her after she blocked him everywhere, what a pathetic fellow, what he failed to realized was that what he was begging and crying for is freely given to some other guys who know their ways around women, guys who understand women and their tricks and as such they can never fall victims to such tricks and gimmicks

Please kings do t be this type of guy this year and beyond, instead of committing your time and resource to a woman, use that instead to learn skills or choose a hubby like work out, writing, playing music instruments, develop your self

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Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by Exceed15: 3:22pm On Jan 02
I don't run after women. I ignore them.
Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by Dyfynezz12(m): 3:24pm On Jan 02
SharingIsLife:
You will blame that guy outrightly if only you have never been in love. When you are truly in love, you act like mad. You can't even believe yourself. It happened to me once after many years of acting macho. Now, I really wonder if I was actually the one.
Swears bro,
Sometimes I do wonder if it was jazz

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Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by Jewessgratitud3: 3:26pm On Jan 02
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One thing y'all don't know is.. all men are " simps" including you that is forming lion with your expired redpill. Youve just not met that girl that will control your mumu button; you too will simp.

As for the guy , let him forget about her. She never loved him from the very beginning. Was prolly with him for one benefit or the other, is now tired of him and Just looking for a way to discharge him. Imagine saying they had become exes since three months ago.

Make the guy commot mind there. No be him own.

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Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by advanceDNA: 3:39pm On Jan 02
It cringed me reading his pathetic story.

..I couldn't continue after some point.... Mr beggar....
Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by Aaaaarghmed(m): 3:40pm On Jan 02
Jewessgratitud3:
Kikikikikkikikikiiiiiiii grin grin cheesy grin cheesy grin grin

One thing y'all don't know is.. all men are " simps" including you that is forming lion with your expired redpill. Youve just not met that girl that will control your mumu button; you too will simp.

As for the guy , let him forget about her. She never loved him from the very beginning. Was prolly with him for one benefit or the other, is now tired of him and Just looking for a way to discharge him. Imagine saying they had become exes since three months ago.

Make the guy commot mind there. No be him own.
that means you have dated all men.wow senior okpo.you never jam
Re: Why Are Some Men Like This? When Will They Have Sense? by reddingtonblack: 5:15pm On Jan 02
SharingIsLife:
You will blame that guy outrightly if only you have never been in love. When you are truly in love, you act like mad. You can't even believe yourself. It happened to me once after many years of acting macho. Now, I really wonder if I was actually the one.


No one is infallible, and when it comes to love/dating a lot of people submit completely to "FEELINGs" thats the problem

No man is a macho, when a gurl you love badly breaks up with you, "Feeling" is bound to over ride your system and you start doing stupid shit but the difference between simp & OG is there OT and maturity,

No one has a stone heart , those stupid thoughts will come but i can't just do certain shits even if i love her 99% cos of the kind OT wey i don get thats the difference

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