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Confused Married Woman Needs Your Advise by Psoul(m): 10:20pm On Jan 10
Stanley got married to Mary, a very beautiful young girl. They both sincerely love themselves.

Stanley was a virgin when he got married to Mary. Though Mary was not a virgin, but she was not promiscuous. She lost her virginity to the man that wanted to marry her whom she left when she noticed that the man was not faithful and even had a child with another young girl.

Mary and Stanley have been married for 6yrs now and no child and not even miscarriage or missed period from the wife.
This caused a crack in their marriage as Stanley has started accusing Mary as the cause of their problem.

Mary will cry every night and pray for just one child. Stanley started avoiding having sex with Mary and he told her that it's a waste of time having fruitless sex with her. Mary suffered many abuses cos of her childlessness from the husband and people around.

Stanley was already thinking of taking another wife or going outside to meet another woman that will secretly give him a child.

One day Mary was kidnapped. Unfortunately, at the kidnapper's den, the leader of the gang slept with Mary😭😭 without protection.

Mary was kept in the den for 2 weeks. After the demanded ransom was paid, Mary was released from the kidnapper's den. She was reunited to her husband.

After one month, Mary started feeling sick with signs of malaria.
She went to a hospital to run test.

When the test results came out, the doctor said to her. "Madam, congratulations, we did not find any malaria parasite in you. We also ran PT test on you and it came out positive. You are a month pregnant."

Mary was thrown into a deep shock. She started flashing back. She remembered that it has been over 4 months the husband has not touched her.

Suddenly, she remembered that the kidnapper's gang leader raped her severally when she was kidnapped. She broke down in tears. She became confused on what to do.

Mary remembered that her husband has bn accusing her of been barren due to her wayward lifestyle while growing up. So many people also believed she was infertile.

Mary now saw that the problem was actually from the husband and not from her as had been the case. "This man must have bn the impotent one here and I've bn bearing all these pains for years," says Mary to herself.

In the night, Mary broke the news to her husband. The man became so furious and ordered Mary to abort the pregnancy first thing in the morning.

Now, Mary is in between the devil and the deep blue see.

If she keeps this pregnancy, she will lose her marriage. Keeping it will also shut the mouths of those making mockery of her before now.

She also thought about the child being later labeled bastard as the man will not accept the child into his house.

If she abort the pregnancy, her marriage will be safe and the blame of their childlessness will still be seen as from her from ppl around.

In the other hand, if she keeps the pregnancy, she will lose her marriage but the shame of being a barren woman she had bn bearing for years will be lifted off her.

Mary is confused and wants you to suggest to her on how to go about this situation.
To keep the pregnancy or abort it.
Re: Confused Married Woman Needs Your Advise by FavoredbyGOD: 10:21pm On Jan 10
Keep the pregnancy
Re: Confused Married Woman Needs Your Advise by immortalcrown(m): 10:26pm On Jan 10
This Nollywood plot is so common and outdated. But it's nice.

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Re: Confused Married Woman Needs Your Advise by Nonexisting1: 10:29pm On Jan 10
Let both of them watch nollywood movies, they will know what to do because this same story have been told and retold in movies. Or if they have direct phone number to the simp Tony Umez, he can also give them first hand advice because he played the role of husband in most of them movies.

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Re: Confused Married Woman Needs Your Advise by Aonkuuse(m): 10:30pm On Jan 10
Keep the pregnancy and lost your marriage, abort and you commit sin, nairaland cannot help her, only God can do that.
Re: Confused Married Woman Needs Your Advise by TINTINABULATION(m): 10:31pm On Jan 10
So Mary was so foolish that she didn't seek medical attention when she was released from the Kidnappers then? How are we even sure that Mary has not contracted HIV? Mary should just leave us, Nigerians are going through a lot at the moment.

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Re: Confused Married Woman Needs Your Advise by ekelebeXstunner: 11:01pm On Jan 10
Did not read. Lol.

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Re: Confused Married Woman Needs Your Advise by skj1377(m): 11:13pm On Jan 10
So she wants a child from a killer/kidnapper . It's well with her.

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Re: Confused Married Woman Needs Your Advise by OBTOREPA(m): 11:42pm On Jan 10
She should not abort anything, for abortion is equal to committing murder and its a terrible sin in the sight of God .
She should meet there Pastor, family elder or whosoever the husband respects to discuss the issues ASAP.
Re: Confused Married Woman Needs Your Advise by oz4real83(m): 6:10am On Jan 11
Fake story from the pit of hell embarassed. Mary was 'kidnapped and raped" but forgot that she was raped shocked, she only remembered four months later that she was raped when she became pregnant shocked shocked . For your information, rape victims don't forget rape, they only try to move on, do you know the trauma it creates on rape victims? Stop creating false stories sad

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Re: Confused Married Woman Needs Your Advise by duduade: 6:22am On Jan 11
immortalcrown:
This Nollywood plot is so common and outdated. But it's nice.

I couldn't even read it
Re: Confused Married Woman Needs Your Advise by madscientist88(m): 7:19am On Jan 11
my opinion is she should not be selfish about this whole thing,she could also be wrong concluding her husband is impotent if she doesn't have the medical tests to proove these assertions, their case as a couple could simply be that of a rhesus factor,if he was able to get her out of the kidnappers den and still want to keep her as his wife why is she complaining?she only want to keep a kidnappers child because of her own selfish reasons?the way it sounds its like she has made up her mind to end the marriage because she is now pregnant with someone's child,she is not even regretting what happened to her,i wont be surprised if this was all a set-up to get herself pregnant anyways,weve heard stories about people kidnapping themselves anyways.he gave her a chance by getting her out of the kidnappers den she should give him a chance to make things work between them, abortion is a dangerous thing but it would save her more shame now than to carry on with the bastard in her womb.

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Re: Confused Married Woman Needs Your Advise by flokii: 8:31am On Jan 11
Unless she'll abort the child and then divorce the husband to look for a new suitor.. If not I see no point staying in a marriage without fruits but constant verbal abuses from the 'infertile" husband and waging tongues outside.

Every disappointment they say is a blessing.. the kidnap experience was for her eyes to get opened to the realities on ground. It's either she runs now or she dies because the husband will make attempts on her life to cover his own secret.
Re: Confused Married Woman Needs Your Advise by Jayboi(m): 8:42am On Jan 11
Both of them shud av gone for medical tests to know the issue and there are treatments. So she wud rather birth a bastard? Lailai. Her marriage comes first. Her husband shud now realise who the fault lies with. He shud seek for help. They can start again
Re: Confused Married Woman Needs Your Advise by galantjoe(m): 9:33am On Jan 11
let her keep the pregnancy. God works in miraculous way. even if she lose her marriage, she will still find love elsewhere

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