How a family who initially prevented me from marrying their daughter, made a U-turn when they discovered that I’m now successful in life — Germany-based Nigerian man.

https:///instablog9ja/status/1747296866327207939?s=46&t=6OZ_nbE1xwVeLo2T5RIeWw

Lol... Some parents matters get as e be!

As a man just know that you are only loved conditionally. With that at the back of your mind you will take steps that will favour you more. You will filter women and know that alot of them are after what they benefit.

Be thankful to them. if they not reject u, maybe u for never enter Germany

slimjohn2k5:
Be thankful to them. if they not reject u, maybe u for never enter Germany

Is like you are the relative to the gal.

So na them help Hussle.

Dey play

He might still be poor if he has married the lady. God work in a mysterious ways.

Yugoslavia247:

Is like you are the relative to the gal.

So na them help Hussle.

Dey play

they helped him change his priorites

Most women that complain about not having a partner is due to the fact they want the one percent, not that they don't meet regular suitors, me sef go make am

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Thank your God my brother

That was a conditional love bro

slimjohn2k5:


they helped him change his priorites

They helped him.??..he should thank them??

Bet why u be like this??

Are u the girl's Father...

Proserpina:
Most marriage refusals aren't orchestrated by women but family that consists of father and mother where the father is the head.

Sometimes I laugh when people complain of inability to get married due to financial ability when these same people made the rules

As usual,post shifting
Is the lady a dummy? 😁😁

They go explain tire no gree for anybody o, tell them u want to marry their daughter as second wife to know their reaction.

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Come back and take her to Germany. Free of charge. Lol.

Thank God the man has sense.

People that didn’t soak garri with you, don’t deserve to eat Pizza with you

Proserpina:
I see

Is the lady receiving the bride price and engagement items ?

It's only an immature lady that will allow others opinion have impact on hers, there are cases of children who married against their parents wish due to race, tribal and religion differences and they lived happily ever after.

In this case both the lady and her parents are just too financially blinded that they put important factor out of consideration, at least the lady must've been with the guy enough to know his future plans and prospect

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ednut1:
How a family who initially prevented me from marrying their daughter, made a U-turn when they discovered that I’m now successful in life — Germany-based Nigerian man.

https:///instablog9ja/status/1747296866327207939?s=46&t=6OZ_nbE1xwVeLo2T5RIeWw

he should thank God for his life, if he had marry thier daughter that time, he would have be a failure for the rest of his life.

Proserpina:
Most marriage refusals aren't orchestrated by women but family that consists of father and mother where the father is the head.

Sometimes I laugh when people complain of inability to get married due to financial ability when these same people made the rules

Blame shifting as usual! If you as the lady insists on marrying a particular guy, your father and every other person will respect your choice.

My brother run for your life

Wouldn't make a post of it if it were me.

Everyone's different sha

Yugoslavia247:

Is like you are the relative to the gal.

So na them help Hussle.

Dey play

ogbeni if u don't understand someone don't rush to cAstigate. Because he said hey helped him doesn't translate to he should take her back.

Maxxim:

As usual,post shifting
Is the lady a dummy? 😁😁

She is honouring and being respectful to her parents as the Bible insists.

Do parents blessings no longer matter again?

If its me I will pose with my oyinbo babe sitting on the bonnet of a bentley bentyga in front of a luxury mansion to pepper dem more

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Trying times came before good times and they showed their color. No big deal except maybe that the man dodged a bullet.

Jenniejenna:
That was a conditional love bro

Which love is not conditional in Nigeria?

There are so many people with similar experience.
The problem is that many girls have married whom they loved and things nose dived, and to some, the guy became a star after marriage.
Some guys became husband when things get better and others became the lion of the tribe of their family; terrorising their homes.
Choosing and accepting someone as a partner is indeed a matter of faith.
Maybe this guy and his ex where not meant to be together. Maybe, the guy might not have achieved as much success he's enjoying if he had married the lady and vice versa.
Best of luck to all the single girls and boys in this forum.

dawnomike:
Lol... Some parents matters get as e be!

Plenty. Na witchcraft and poverty mentality bro... He did well to run very far