why do nigerian men treat their wives with so much hatred and cruelty but treat the woman outside like a queen,i don't get it.

guys don't take it personal here but am being frank with my question coz alot of married woman are crying and smiling same time
coz they have no choice,you are married to a man that neglet and treat u like u don't exist why?they will not take care of their homes, they are, never there for their wives prefer to spend time with women outside,provide more for them than their wives,pay more attension to gurls that are dating two or three men same time. A man that is blessed with a beautiful wife and kids,things are going well for you i believe u have been favoured by GOD,then your obligations are to love and cherish what GOD has given to you.The Bible does say in Galatians 6:7-8, “Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting. The Bible says in Song of Solomon 8:7, “Many waters cannot quench love, neither can the floods drown it: if a man would give all the substance of his house for love, it would utterly be contemned.” There are many good reasons to get married: for companionship and friendship, to have children, and to satisfy your physical and emotional needs of love. These are all good reasons that God created for marriage. so why suffer and neglet the woman you ones told "i love you",she hardly sees her husband,he talks to his girlfriends in her presence not even a little respect for her,calls the shorts the way he likes like she does not exist,women can not commit adultery like the way men do it with free mind,why don't they value and treat their women with respect alot use culture to subdue them with the fact that they are men and is meant to be so,

WHAT IS THE BIG REASON SINCERE ANSWERS PLEASE

who be this one.NAIJA woman never show u pepper yet.dey there dey talk

The reason that they are men is not a good enough reason. It's bull$hit actually. If you want to play around, DON'T GET MARRIED!!!!!!

poster

don't generalize because you dont know every married Nigerian man. Just say you know some men who seem to treat their wives like trash.

Poster, that's why I say generalizing can lead to mistakes because in some countries in Africa Nigerian are known to treat their women like Princess

OP what of those white men who chop their wives into tiny little pieces with axes just because of an arguement they had and throw the body inside the basement.Are those men worse than nigerian men?
Guy its not only nigerian men who have issues.

tom28:

OP what of those white men who chop their wives into tiny little pieces with axes just because of an arguement they had and throw the body inside the basement.Are those men worse than nigerian men?
Guy its not only nigerian men who have issues.

Then you can get what your sisters feel when you generalize about them

tom28:

OP what of those white men who chop their wives into tiny little pieces with axes just because of an arguement they had and throw the body inside the basement.Are those men worse than nigerian men?
Guy its not only nigerian men who have issues.

u mind am

Nayah:

Then you can get what your sisters feel when you generalize about them

He is even wrong in the sterotype.Nigerian men hardly treat women with cruelty and hatred.Now if he said nigerian men are liars and are decietful then i might have agreed with him on that sterotype because a good number are actually decietful .

tom28:

He is even wrong in the sterotype.Nigerian men hardly treat women with cruelty and hatred.Now if he said nigerian men are liars and are decietful then i might have agreed with him on that sterotype because a good number are actually decietful .

loooooooool

WHY IS IT THAT EVERY ONE WHEN POSTING POSTS OF GUYS. U NEVER SEE D OPPOSITE. LOOK B4 U TALK OOOOOOO

AS far as am concerned, i don't no about what white men do to their wives, I am not white. But i can see clearly what Naija men does to them.

But if white men do bad thing, must we compare ourselves to them? why should we judge everything we do to what white do?

Common guys

The reason is cos most women here see marriage as a do or die affair. If your husband treats you like isht, then walk and leave his backside. Must you kill yourself cos of some guy with mental infections?

bilms:

AS far as am concerned, i don't no about what white men do to their wives, I am not white. But i can see clearly what Naija men does to them.

But if white men do bad thing, must we compare ourselves to them? why should we judge everything we do to what white do?

Common guys

Did u not hear about the story around 1998 about a nigerian woman who was shot in the head by her belgian boyfriend over an arguement?.At least the worst the nigerian man would do is give the woman a dirty slap but if it was a white man and the woman pisses him off he had wring her neck and put her body in a bodybag while dumping it in the basement or burying the corpse in the garden.

please dont generalise like that o. By God's grace my dad has never beaten up my mom b4 they've been married for close to 21 years now and their still going strong. It just takes the right man and the right woman and of course God to make a good marriage!

After marriage men change, women change. U marry ur hot gf, she becumz a mother, which is great, bt smthn her husband isnt prepard for. On the other hand, most men marry at a point in their lives when they're startin to climb the ladder, financially. A few yrs into marriage and he finally has the quid to go for outings with his friends n nt worri abt how little wil b left in his wallet. He's got a brand new SUV, a big Benz, a fat acct, and a wife whose social profile no longer fits pleasure covens. So wat does he do? Ur gues is as gud as mine. Moral of the tale: If you stil wanna play,dont get married!

good point there