my best friend needs my advice, please advice me to advise her.

my gf is 28yrs old and a singer by profession, a hardworking and honest person. she became a flirt as a result of how men had used and dumped her in the past despite her good heart and her crave for a serious and long term relationship that will lead to marriage, she was always afraid of falling in love with the wrong guy again.

recently, she told me that she met this guy whom is in his 33years of age, a govt worker, he had been professing love to her for a long long time but she refused and the guy said he does not wants to date her but marry her and she should stop seeing other men.

before you could say jack, my gf had fallen head over heels with him and him being a producer as well, he was working effortlessly in producing her songs in his recording studio after his official work.

out of love for this guy, she locked up from other men and became sincere to this guy even in his absence.

recently, she ran to me crying that no matter her sincerity, her new guy still suspects here especially any day that they don"t spend the night together or allow him to bleep over and over.

she said, she woke up one morning from her bed which she slept alone after a hard day"s job to see an sms from her guy at about 4.am in the morning which reads ''because you were broke that"s why you went to do that and turn down our appointment of me coming to spend the night with you in your house, forgetting what i mean to you? i came to your house and you where not there.please forget about me, i will be fine. pleas Bleep off''

in this case i don" know what to advise her. please i need your advise. thank you.

she told him that she can"t go on with the relationship without trust again even though she still loves him much. please what is your advice?

brb!

Relationship wahala everywhere!

stepo707:

Relationship wahala everywhere!

where is up-casted

they should be communicatin wit each other so as to knw each others whereabout, and d lady needs to make him understand that she nt cheatin.

People like wasting their lives and forget they are not getting any younger.
I see where her weakness is. This gal is not used to being alone.She needs a man around her all the time to make her life complete.
If she can take time off relationships,sober up then find out what exactly she's looking for in man, she will do herself justice.

The relationship with the producer is only intimacy based and not solid. What value has it added to her life? do they do anything else other than intimacy?
Her loneliness and broken heart makes her fall for the next available guy who comes showing some' love'.
Its easy to tell the guy is posessive and doesn't trust her a bit because he knows the type of gals he hooks up with>>Short time projects.

Please tell your girl to take time off and rediscover herself cz she seems pretty messed up emotionaly and not in any position to make a wise decision.
And let her know that unless shes feels complete,happy and satisfied on her own first no man will come fill that void.  She ends up 'using men'

Who made you special adviser?

@69 it is very obviose that d guy does not love ur gf he only wants sexual satisfaction and ur gf shuld stop been desperate 4 Ƌ long relationship that will lead to marriage.she shuld enjoy herself Ąπ∂ b free and appreciate life, Hmmmmm relationship wahalaaaa everywhere hope my own is safe lol,

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@190 yesooo ma bf is in lag Ǎ̜̣̍м̣̣̥̇̊ schin in anabara but ma relationship is not on Ƌ rocky ground

Tell her to, by GOD's grace and mercy seek GOD first and avoid fornication, as should we all. "And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment." - Mark 12:30

"Mortify therefore your members which are upon the earth; fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection, evil concupiscence, and covetousness, which is idolatry: For which things' sake the wrath of God cometh on the children of disobedience:"-Col 3:5-6

thank you all for your responds phewwwww, i appreciate them. big up pendo.