mathew247:

There's a way they use to do it,so you need to Google about it, send an email about the transaction with the peoples details then to CBN and tag both the CBN and your bank on the same email. It'll be returned. I'll get back to you if I see it again.

Yigiyaga:
wise one indeed.

The danger is what if u refrain and then d other partner then goes outside to have it, and u discover after marriage. What would u do? I can manage no sèx, but with litte touchie, else i might explode!

emkz:
Which ancestor of a moderator decided to push a thread opened eight years to front page?

On the topic. I have been doing some thinking. Why exactly is sex so important? There is no day that passes without discussions bordering on sex on nairaland. Marriages have been destroyed because of sex. Careers have been destroyed because of sex. Lives have been ended because of sex. Reputations have been mortgaged because of sex.

Why exactly is sex so important? If there is anyone that knows, please tell me. I wish to be educated.

nextstep:
Old thread, but still useful to reply anyways, so let me add my two cents.

For men, a relationship without physical (body) intimacy is not fulfilling; likewise a relationship without psychological (mind) intimacy is not fulfilling to women. Both are valuable, but generally men would be OK without mental commitment, and women would be OK without physical commitment, at least initially.

I'm paraphrasing from maniac_high (don't ask me how I know him) who once wrote this gem about "diamonds and gold" that I've always appreciated:



So in conclusion, my summary is that physical and psychological intimacy are both needed and complement each other, for that's what makes relationships strong. Denying the validity of either is not going to undo millions of years of evolution that require these two complementary aspects to a relationship: you can't make babies if you're not physically intimate, and you can't raise that baby to maturity unless you're mentally committed to each other*

*of course in today's world, a woman can raise a child without the father, but in aeons past, she was setting herself up for disaster if she got pregnant without a committed mate to go and hunt that nutritious antelope or kill that dangerous tiger.

sly100:
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If as a woman u don't want sex in a relationship, pls do not also demand for money in that relationship. If u have to enjoy my hard earned money in a relationship, I also have to enjoy sex. it's that simple.

ImaIma1:


As in! Such self control is commendable and hard to find in men these days

pocohantas:
Excellent.

Any man that can keep himself till marriage is a wonder of the world. I will cross seven seas for him...

ImaIma1:
But sex ws originally made for marriage.how were they coping in d past where it ws rare 2 hv sex b4 marriage.and then divorce cases were not hitting d roof like right now.now we guys must taste d pudding first sha