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True Life Stories by mrwils(m): 1:28pm On Dec 05, 2011
TRLS!--[True Life Stories].
Hi
A frnd of mine jst got married 6months ago and not happy wit d guy,d guy beats and insults her and wen she reports to d guys parents,dey av notting to say abt it, she said she is so afraid and wants out of d marriage dnt knw wat to tell her and I tld her am goin to send it to yu jummy. Wat shld she do, ?

QUESTION:- PLS WHAT WOULD YOU ADVICE A WOMAN WHO AFTER 6MONTHS OF MARRIAGE, HER HUSBAND STARTS BEATING & INSULTING HER, SHE REPORTS TO HER IN-LAWS, THEY DO NOTHING ABOUT IT, ---NOW, SHE SAYS SHE HAS MADE A TERRIBLE MISTAKE, SHE NO LONGER WANTS TO BE MARRIED!!! ?

Anyone with useful advice please !!!
Re: True Life Stories by obowunmi(m): 2:34pm On Dec 05, 2011
did anyone force her to marry ? angry angry angry
Re: True Life Stories by 195(f): 2:39pm On Dec 05, 2011
This is what happens wen ppl rush into marriages

If she had dated that dude for 6years she would have known him in out

shes married - let her die in that marriage

Gold digger

probably the dude knows she married him for money thats why hes beating her

he has not started - let him use Moutar and pestle on her head angry angry

fooolish woman
Re: True Life Stories by Nobody: 2:48pm On Dec 05, 2011
190_@:

This is what happens wen ppl rush into marriages

If she had dated that dude for 6years she would have known him in out

shes married - let her die in that marriage

Gold digger

probably the dude knows she married him for money thats why hes beating her

he has not started - let him use Moutar and pestle on her head angry angry

fooolish woman


lol, but anyway this is not about dating for 6years what about a situation whereby the couple dated for 7years and 6months after marriage things turn upside down what would you say to that?
My view is just that Frustration lives among present Youths and ladies of now adays lack something they call Patient in Married Life
Re: True Life Stories by 195(f): 2:51pm On Dec 05, 2011
^then the woman should be patient with him

she must have seen that he's a woman beater but decided to go in cos of the money

or she rushed in2 that wedding cos of the money

either way there is money involved

nor be nigerian women again - what else do they live for if it isnt money undecided
Re: True Life Stories by Nobody: 2:54pm On Dec 05, 2011
[size=14pt]A hundred and ninety fools!Is that all? How about shooting her in the head? Nonsense!

She should separate from her husband until he learns to control his temper. . .  I did not say Divorce. . .[/size]
Re: True Life Stories by slimyem: 3:06pm On Dec 05, 2011
Why would she want to stay in an abusive relationship??
she'd had better move out before he kills her finally,
Re: True Life Stories by bekay911(f): 3:07pm On Dec 05, 2011
@ 190 r u dat hardened ppl lyk u can kill der wife.
@ op d lady shud leave dat house wit immediate effect, unless she wnts to die. She shud act fast and as for er inlaws she shidnt seek advice again from dem, let er act an her own instincts anytn dey c make dem take.
Bt if she is loveblinded n wants to stay let er get some self defense lessons n training and equip ersef wt gud watever weapons she can handle excludin guns and dig it out wit him
Re: True Life Stories by 195(f): 3:12pm On Dec 05, 2011
^I;ll kill u first b4 i kill my wife angry angry
Re: True Life Stories by Nobody: 3:22pm On Dec 05, 2011
190_@:

^I;ll kill u first b4 i kill my wife angry angry


CHIEF TREVOR grin grin
Re: True Life Stories by bekay911(f): 3:28pm On Dec 05, 2011
@190 catch me if u can
Re: True Life Stories by 195(f): 3:29pm On Dec 05, 2011
bekay911:

@190 catch me if u can

Dont dare me ooh

I will Just vex buy JEEP GIVE YOUR PAPA JUST NOW undecided
Re: True Life Stories by 195(f): 3:29pm On Dec 05, 2011
bandiejay:


CHIEF TREVOR grin grin

hehehe my son how are u doing cool cool
Re: True Life Stories by freecocoa(f): 3:33pm On Dec 05, 2011
She should hire some boys,buy enough ganja for them and let the ease their highness on the man,after that he won't beat her again.

But seriously,she should take a break from that dude.
Re: True Life Stories by corkpikin(m): 3:36pm On Dec 05, 2011
castr8t the man OP angry
Re: True Life Stories by bekay911(f): 4:19pm On Dec 05, 2011
@190 c'mon dad is tired of jeeps he wants to buy a jet plane
Re: True Life Stories by 195(f): 4:23pm On Dec 05, 2011
^ I pray - na him him daughter dey nairaland dey find 190 toast up and down grin
Re: True Life Stories by Ruqaya(f): 4:58pm On Dec 05, 2011
She shud divorce him and get married in a family were she is wanted by d man nd in-laws.not all men are warriors nd not all inlaws are useless.
Re: True Life Stories by bekay911(f): 5:16pm On Dec 05, 2011
190_@:

^ I pray - na him him daughter dey nairaland dey find 190 toast up and down grin
its gud to dream honestly hope ur dreams come true
Re: True Life Stories by Nobody: 6:20pm On Dec 05, 2011
Just woke up from dream.i'm comin' let me wash my face.
Re: True Life Stories by Mynd44: 6:30pm On Dec 05, 2011
Is marriage by force? Separate for some time as Sexkillz said but I doubt if it will work. If after you come together he as much as raises his hand to even slap you, call the police and if she lives in Lagos good for her. The Lagos state government does not take abusing women lightly
Re: True Life Stories by Nobody: 6:35pm On Dec 05, 2011
Eh heh! *Clears throat*the girl should poison the guy,and inherit his wealth afterwards.just saying.
Re: True Life Stories by delpee(f): 11:02pm On Dec 05, 2011
She should leave before she gets herself killed since his family is helpless.

If the man wasnt violent before marriage and he WILLINGLY married her then something is wrong. Theres more to this story IMO.
Re: True Life Stories by Mynd44: 5:54am On Dec 06, 2011
There Isin't more to this story. Beating on your wife is inexcusable
Re: True Life Stories by Nobody: 6:45am On Dec 06, 2011
she needs to GET OUT asap!!

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what is with these links i am seeing tonight! LMAO!!]

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