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Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by emofine(f): 10:56am On Dec 09, 2011
Long One:

Say no more, there’s a deeper level to flirting, if you follow I’ll lead.

Could take you to on an endless adventure that’ll traverse the physical, make you swim in timeless intellectual currents of pure bliss . . .


hmmmn . . . *whispers @ Slimyem* can I borrow your "magic chip"?

Ijogz K:

Are you a dude?  undecided

maybe undecided
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by freecocoa(f): 6:26pm On Dec 09, 2011
Nah never flirted with a chic before,I can tell the difference,I'm sure,although seems like one chic is hitting on me here.
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by eros(m): 9:37pm On Dec 09, 2011
coogar:

i remember flirting with tpia thinking i met a gorgeous female.

i thought wrong! angry angry angry angry angry angry
the amount of testosterone in his body makes a mockery of twhat was found in the body of the biblical goliath!

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

190_@:

yes ive seen REALITY101 BRO AND TOSINVILLE KISS BEFORE angry angry

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Do you have proof of this? A picture or video cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by Xionez(m): 9:36am On Dec 10, 2011
Yeah, just once. During the blooming days of Yahoo Yahoo.
Took 2 weeks to finally 'see'
Hated Yahoo Messenger ever since.
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by Nobody: 10:19am On Dec 10, 2011
I once acted like a "female" online just to obtain some important facts from someone unyielding,

It did the trick but ever since i don repent!! cool
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by emofine(f): 10:43am On Dec 10, 2011
mdsocks:

I once acted like a "female"  online just to obtain some important facts from someone unyielding,

It did the trick but ever since i don repent!!   cool

lol likewise but I never purposely decieved anybody but apparently I had a masculine handle but everybody just concluded I was g[i]a[/i]y so I ended up becoming a babe-repellent  angry grin
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by r231(m): 10:45am On Dec 10, 2011
^^^^^heyyyyyy where have you been grin
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by Nobody: 12:12pm On Dec 10, 2011
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by Nobody: 9:28am On Dec 11, 2011
emofine: lol likewise but I never purposely decieved anybody but apparently I had a masculine handle but everybody just concluded I was gay so I ended up becoming a babe-repellent

Case of mistaken identity then, There are many in your shoes in here, but sometimes they are the ones that deliberately fueled it by leaving their handles

without a gender and speaking from both sides of divide!!!


But does emofine sound masculine??
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by emofine(f): 10:38am On Dec 11, 2011
r231:

^^^^^heyyyyyy where have you been grin

act as if u no no tongue

mdsocks:

Case of mistaken identity then, There are many in your shoes in here, but sometimes they are the ones that deliberately fueled it by leaving their handles

without a gender and speaking from both sides of divide!!!


But does emofine sound masculine??

I was talking about a different site. I actually ran with the idea that people thought I was a male for a while because I thought it will be interesting to channel a male perspective - even though I wavered many times embarassed.
Some people were suspicious of me that's why many believed I was g[i]a[/i]y because apparently I sounded too sensitive to be a man shocked grin.
Even with the belief that I was a "guy" one dude still hit on me and appeared disappointed when I finally clarified my gender - but who knows, the "dude" could have been an actual "female".
In conclusion as a part-time "fella" the "lads" liked me better than the "ladies" - and when I say "liked" I mean a friendly like.

I don't know if emofine sounds masculine to others because before I marked "(f)" to identify my gender some people referred to me via masculine pronouns. Thus I finally felt compelled to clear the confusion.

Regarding people not making known their specific gender - some may not want their gender to influence how fellow posters take their thoughts in consideration because people have biased minds. That was one of my motivation for not immediately declaring my gender plus I wanted people to figure me out first. Surely if my identity had been "male" I would have garnered a different audience and reception.
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by Nobody: 12:49pm On Dec 11, 2011
emofine: Regarding people not making known their specific gender - some may not want their gender to influence how fellow posters take their thoughts in consideration because people have biased minds. That was one of my motivation for not immediately declaring my gender plus I wanted people to figure me out first. Surely if my identity had been "male" I would have garnered a different audience and reception.

Yeah, very true!!

Same way some people hide their ages or lie about it because most people judge what you say most times by your age.

But i guess you enjoyed being a "fella" while it lasted. tongue
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by emofine(f): 2:59pm On Dec 11, 2011
mdsocks:

But i guess you enjoyed being a "fella" while it lasted.  tongue

Well I must confess being considered a bloke did have some benefits grin
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by Nobody: 6:39pm On Dec 11, 2011
emofine: Well I must confess being considered a bloke did have some benefit cheesy

What benefits Like being able to bamboozle people into acceptance during arguments or what?? cheesy
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by emofine(f): 8:10pm On Dec 11, 2011
lol well for one, no one even bothered harassing me for pictures when they hounded other females and they gave me a lot of space. They also seemed to respect my opinions a lot more as a guy. Oh and just like you I took advantage and teased some information from some of the lads tongue.

But it all changed since the reveal. When they discovered I was a lady the whole dynamic changed and my thoughts and ideas were said to have been inspired by PMS - my future nickname at a later stage.
Some of them thought I was irrational and they kept on baiting me, wanting me to kick off. And of course ever since then they flooded me with piles of personal messages requesting to see the new "lady" on the block. I declined all of their offers because none of them deserved the privilege after e-bullying me angry grin. However some were cool with the "girl" with the masculine handle but quite a few particularly ones of a Nigerian descent were sexist pigs and denounced my so called "feminist" () ideals and it got worse once they discovered my age cry.

A lot of them were just sexually frustrated cavemen (or women, who knows) really.
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by coogar: 8:25pm On Dec 11, 2011
emofine:

lol well for one, no one even bothered harassing me for pictures when they hounded other females and they gave me a lot of space. They also seemed to respect my opinions a lot more as a guy. Oh and just like you I took advantage and teased some information from some of the lads tongue.

But it all changed since the reveal. When they discovered I was a lady the whole dynamic changed and my thoughts and ideas were said to have been inspired by PMS - my future nickname at a later stage.
Some of them thought I was irrational and they kept on baiting me, wanting me to kick off. And of course ever since then they flooded me with piles of personal messages requesting to see the new "lady" on the block. I declined all of their offers because none of them deserved the privilege after e-bullying me angry grin. However some were cool with the "girl" with the masculine handle but quite a few particularly ones of a Nigerian descent were sexist pigs and denounced my so called "feminist" () ideals and it got worse once they discovered my age cry.

A lot of them were just sexually frustrated cavemen (or women, who knows) really.


these things happened on nairaland or on another forum?
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by emofine(f): 8:34pm On Dec 11, 2011
coogar:

these things happened on nairaland or on another forum?

Another site. As if I'll ever label Nairalnders as "sexist" "cavemen" grin
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by Nobody: 8:54pm On Dec 11, 2011
:d
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by Nobody: 9:02pm On Dec 11, 2011
emofine:

lol well for one, no one even bothered harassing me for pictures when they hounded other females and they gave me a lot of space. They also seemed to respect my opinions a lot more as a guy. Oh and just like you I took advantage and teased some information from some of the lads tongue.

But it all changed since the reveal. When they discovered I was a lady the whole dynamic changed and my thoughts and ideas were said to have been inspired by PMS - my future nickname at a later stage.
Some of them thought I was irrational and they kept on baiting me, wanting me to kick off. And of course ever since then they flooded me with piles of personal messages requesting to see the new "lady" on the block. I declined all of their offers because none of them deserved the privilege after e-bullying me angry grin. However some were cool with the "girl" with the masculine handle but quite a few particularly ones of a Nigerian descent were sexist pigs and denounced my so called "feminist" () ideals and it got worse once they discovered my age cry.

A lot of them were just sexually frustrated cavemen (or women, who knows) really.


Quite an experience, but what did you expect, you had taken them for a ride and didn't expect a presidential handshake or a red carpet for deceiving them!!

but @ the bolded.  Did you have to also tease me!!.  tongue

I told you i already repented and wouldn't try it again. I was really desperate for that info back then.

I guess i was lucky my "victim" never got to know. Dumped the id immediately i got what i wanted!
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by pendo89(f): 9:06pm On Dec 11, 2011
emofine you are very funny.Most times you sound as if you are posting from a laboratory you know. cheesy
but ur making me laugh here. funny.
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by coogar: 9:29pm On Dec 11, 2011
emofine:

Another site. As if I'll ever label Nairalnders as "sexist" "cavemen" grin

haha. sarcasm.
nairaland has the biggest assembly of sexist cavemen. . . .
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by emofine(f): 10:16pm On Dec 11, 2011
mdsocks:

Quite an experience, but what did you expect, you had taken them for a ride and didn't expect a presidential handshake or a red carpet for deceiving them!!

Yeah so? grin they should live and let live tongue

pendo89:

emofine you are very funny.

kiss

Most times you sound as if you are posting from a laboratory you know. cheesy
but your making me laugh here. funny.

lol well I like experimenting, making observations and analysing grin but I'd rather sound like someone who has just left an artist studio instead (I need to UnCloth my vocabulary).
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by Nobody: 10:04am On Dec 12, 2011
emofine: Yeah so? cheesy they should live and let live tongue

Yeah, good for you!!

coogar: haha. sarcasm.
nairaland has the biggest assembly of sexist cavemen. . . . 


hmmm, Thats a new discovery but I guess the cave[b]men [/b]have "partners" also [size=4pt](i.e their opposites)[/size]  tongue
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by Nobody: 4:41pm On Dec 25, 2011
yes oooooo!! grin

i would rather forget about it!! grin

cos it lasted soo long until we both realized the other was a female! grin
it was someone other than 190 though which makes it twice it's happen to me grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by Nobody: 6:19pm On Dec 25, 2011
@ coogar

you funny
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by Nobody: 11:08pm On Dec 06, 2013
coogar:

i remember flirting with tpia thinking i met a gorgeous female.

oh, the horror! cheesy
Re: Have You Ever Mistakenly Flirted With An Online Character Of The Same Gender? by Timagex(m): 10:54pm On May 16, 2018
It happens to me almost every week when I use female pics for my dp grin grin....I have been entertained cool cool and I also learnt some formats wink wink

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