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Please How Do I Stop This? by NotNairalandi(m): 6:36pm On Dec 19, 2011
i love my girl somuch that i get jealous of every little thing.if she recieves call i be anxious to know who called her.sometimes if she didnt pick my call i will begin to think otherwise.if i see her with a guy trouble.though she does same thing to me.i really want to stop it.pls really need u tips.thanks
Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by ArQueBusieR(m): 6:41pm On Dec 19, 2011
Work on yourself.
You have kong(control), trust and
insecurity issues. If she's going to cheat on you, she's going to cheat on you! Show some trust, mahn!!
Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by iice(f): 6:42pm On Dec 19, 2011
Work on yourself.
You have control, trust and insecurity issues.
Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by MrsChima1(f): 6:46pm On Dec 19, 2011
iice:

Work on yourself.
You have control, trust and insecurity issues.


Damn, you beat me to it! grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by MrCork17: 6:48pm On Dec 19, 2011
Nairalandi:

i love my girl somuch that i get jealous of every little thing.if she recieves call i be anxious to know who called her.sometimes if she didnt pick my call i will begin to think otherwise.if i see her with a guy trouble.though she does same thing to me.i really want to stop it.pls really need u tips.thanks

Brop.  first. u need to change that hat from your profile pic. It dosent really help! undecided
Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by itiswell1(m): 6:49pm On Dec 19, 2011
Bros, ask yourself if you are trust worthy or you have complex issue. If not, i feel thats why feel insecured
Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by NotNairalandi(m): 6:55pm On Dec 19, 2011
@Mr.cork,so you have the time to watch people's profile pic? grin
Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by ArQueBusieR(m): 7:52pm On Dec 19, 2011
Mrs, Chima:

Damn, you beat me to it! grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by cynthiafred67(f): 8:20pm On Dec 19, 2011
iice:

Work on yourself.
You have control, trust and insecurity issues.

Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by MrsChima1(f): 8:27pm On Dec 19, 2011
ArQueBusieR:



Park well jor! angry
Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by xynerise: 8:37pm On Dec 19, 2011
@op. Thats d spirit of being over possessive. Like grandma iice said " work on yourself". Ciao
Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by kokoye(m): 8:40pm On Dec 19, 2011
That aint love. it's bondage.

You need deliverance. . . a dirty slap from a MOG should fix you up.
Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by ArQueBusieR(m): 8:44pm On Dec 19, 2011
Mrs, Chima:

Park well jor! angry
Who taught you that slang?! shocked shocked shocked

Anyway, my SMSS parks itself better than any other. cool
Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by MrsChima1(f): 8:47pm On Dec 19, 2011
ArQueBusieR:

Who taught you that slang?! shocked shocked shocked

Anyway, my SMSS parks itself better than any other. cool
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Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by ArQueBusieR(m): 12:31pm On Dec 20, 2011
^^Yeah. Be confused.
Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by Goldieluks: 12:58pm On Dec 20, 2011
You have insecurity and trust issues,you have to work on it and also try to loosen up when your with her,by allwoing her the space to feel free around you,instead of feeling anxious when you both are together.
Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by bekay911(f): 6:57pm On Dec 20, 2011
No relatnshp can survive wtout mutual trust n respect.deal with it bro
Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by pendo89(f): 7:16pm On Dec 20, 2011
I would rather date a robber than an insecure jealous guy. They make you a prisoner.
Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by Chimezie198(m): 7:34pm On Dec 20, 2011
**looks at op's profile** Lwkmd! Your donkey dey vex o! See kung fu nah.
Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by Roland17(m): 7:49pm On Dec 20, 2011
You do not understand the severity of harm you are doing to yourself until she walks away from you, i just hope you don't end up harming her.
please remember she is neither your fiancee or wife, she is your girlfriend.

Learn to appreciate yourself more, that way you would never feel insure in any relationship, being jealous in a relationship once in a while is healthy, but if it becomes possessive then there is serious problem.

Be open, this way you are prepared for unforeseen situations that might change the tide in the relationship.

Women are very sensitive, If you can not trust, please avoid falling in love, stick to relationships founded on intimacy until you are mature enough to get hold of your emotions and not the other way round.
Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by Nobody: 8:33pm On Dec 20, 2011
I guess u ar new to the game and dats why u don't know how to play.work on urself just like they told u.
Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by Konnektions146(m): 8:45am On Dec 21, 2011
jbx:

I guess u ar new to the game and dats why u don't know how to play.work on urself just like they told u.
guess he a little naive and some pre-programmed state of mind on how ladies work,
guy , being too protective/careful ant bein too safe.

loosen up and see life as air-ffffffffffrrrrrrrrrrrrrreeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by Kslib(m): 11:04am On Dec 21, 2011
OP You are insecure.If u continue dat way, trust me u are pushing her away.Like others said,work on ur self.Ok now dat she's with you, u are behaving like dis,what will u do if she leaves you?
Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by MrsChima1(f): 1:57pm On Dec 21, 2011
ArQueBusieR:

^^Yeah. Be confused.

You wish and trust me it wasn't the confused look. lipsrsealed
Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by Exponental(m): 2:20pm On Dec 21, 2011
Make friends with oda girls, witout any intention. So u can always compare with urself.
D best way 2 be happy is not 2 worry about things dat u cant prove.
Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by ArQueBusieR(m): 8:26pm On Dec 21, 2011
Mrs, Chima:

You wish and trust me it wasn't the confused look. lipsrsealed
Oh well, be thou gagged.
Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by Mayflowa(m): 8:39pm On Dec 21, 2011
You are in perfect state of mind. People like you are good lovers and are in high demand in the world of ladies.
Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by Mayflowa(m): 8:41pm On Dec 21, 2011
Re: Please How Do I Stop This? by ArQueBusieR(m): 9:15pm On Dec 21, 2011
^^Going by your comment, you've certainly got your front teeth to lose. May I?

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