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| Please I Need Serious Help by Lobi(f): 6:37am On Dec 23, 2011 |
i have being with this guy for almost Three years now,i am so addicted to him that i am finding it so hard to let go.all my friends have begged me to break up with him that they don't know what i am doing with him.recently he broke up with me,cos he hooked up with his ex and i am still finding it so hard to let go.my friends and family are tired of hearing my story and i am tired of it myself cos i really want to move on and not let the guy take advantage of me cos of this, the day he broke up with me i was virtually telling him not to go and kept on saying in my mind dat he shouldnt accept me back |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by Ranoscky(m): 6:58am On Dec 23, 2011 |
So what do u want us to do for u now? |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by 195(f): 7:08am On Dec 23, 2011 |
lobi shooting football stars club of ibadan - are u sure ure OK |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by Lobi(f): 7:14am On Dec 23, 2011 |
if i was feeling ok,i wouldnt b asking for help, |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by 195(f): 7:31am On Dec 23, 2011 |
^OK - i need you to drink some water Calm down OK - 190 is here to help you let me know when you drink some water OK? *turns and winks @ nairalanders* |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by Lobi(f): 7:40am On Dec 23, 2011 |
funny,i usually easily lose interest in relationship,so this last one i tried to put in effort and now i cant let go,each time i speak to my ex its ack to square one and somehow i cant stay without talking to him |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by Goldieluks: 7:48am On Dec 23, 2011 |
Easier said than done Yes,but the earlier you get a life the better for you. He moved on with his ex while your here lamenting. Your family is tired of listening to ur story but still you keep holding on to an already dead relationship. Wake up and move on ,or spend your days thinking about a guy who's not worth the stress right from the on set. |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by 195(f): 7:50am On Dec 23, 2011 |
Lobi why dont you just let go there are tons of great guys around like 190  |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by Lobi(f): 7:58am On Dec 23, 2011 |
thanks,guess i would just have to take it one day at a time |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by Idowuogbo(f): 8:31am On Dec 23, 2011 |
Lobi u have clearly identified ur problem and you no exactly how its affectin you , family and friends have given you all d solid advice you may need , so coming to nl to hear d same tin in a different context shows u proven a Deaf Ear.I am assuming you a grown lady/woman,stop giving excuses MOVE ON!!he has and u need 2 as well.Tell ur sef u can move on ok cus if you keep negativity in mind ,you miss everything coming your way.B Brave good luck |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by Nobody: 8:45am On Dec 23, 2011 |
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| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by 195(f): 8:48am On Dec 23, 2011 |
Lobi: Just incase u need a real man 190's here nairalanders can vouch for me Im a real man |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by Nobody: 10:02am On Dec 23, 2011 |
190_@: [size=30pt]its VOUCH u dimwit[/size] |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by 195(f): 10:06am On Dec 23, 2011 |
^Yes sir  |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by Flashaldrin(m): 10:35am On Dec 23, 2011 |
well there was once this girl i unfortunately met, somehow somehow she unfortunately got it into her head that we were some sort of lovers or something  maybe it was cos i was being nice to her ( I'm always too nice to girls - my one weakness) she got it so twisted in her mind that she saw me as her soul-mate and the other usual nonsenses. then, she always called me by the hour. she got so pathetic that i stopped picking her calls, totally turned off my Mr. nice guy attitude and deleted her from all social networks available. she then resorted to threats and the mere thoughts of her disgusted me. op, if you are reading this, i want to you to know this might be how the guy sees you, yes pathetic, disgusting it was so bad he had to hook up with his ex??!! now i hope this jolts you back to your senses and you realize the dude is just not into you and never will somewhere out there is someone that deserves you, the sooner you get over it, the better |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by Flashaldrin(m): 10:36am On Dec 23, 2011 |
OK_2_NV:and you've got no sense of humor whatsoever, cretin!! |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by Nobody: 10:48am On Dec 23, 2011 |
Flashaldrin: why did you skip the part that she actually was your ugly sister? 1 Like |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by Nobody: 10:50am On Dec 23, 2011 |
Flashaldrin: and you have no sense at all to begin with! |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by Idowuogbo(f): 10:53am On Dec 23, 2011 |
^lmao sum1 is angry ooo , don't bite us oo hehehe chillllll |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by 195(f): 1:10pm On Dec 23, 2011 |
Flashdarin leave am - Its easy to know those wen broke from those of us wen nor broke so free am  |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by Ranoscky(m): 1:53pm On Dec 23, 2011 |
bandiejay:I dey tel u! Lobi:Nooo. No take am, stil dey dier dey wait already dead and gone r/ship with som1 that has moved on SINCE!! |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by 25omega(m): 2:20pm On Dec 23, 2011 |
[size=18pt]A wise woman on this site (IICE if im not mistaken) said connect your emotions to your rational.[/size] if you can make sense of those sage words you will feel better in no time |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by Kx: 2:24pm On Dec 23, 2011 |
Let go of him. what exactly are u hanging on to, so to speak? |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by Ranoscky(m): 7:35am On Dec 24, 2011 |
^ Help me ask am o! |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by Nobody: 8:07am On Dec 24, 2011 |
Op, whot really has this guy of yours done to get resentments from friends and families? Secondly,you dated this guy for three years and he later abandoned you for his ex,dont you think both of you are playing mind game? Lastly,whot is making you want this guy desperately even after the break. My comment:This guy of yours is a great guy and he loves you. Probabely,you are the bossy type and tries to castigate him before parents and friends of wrongdoing each time you messed up to appear as the saint. The reality that he is gone makes you cries before the same people you slander him cos only you knows the truth. Convincing them now is an uphill task for you that the guy is good. Lick your wound and change ur behaviour. Lastly,check my signature bottom:i do not follow d crowd but my conscience. Imbibe it,it will do u good. For the fact that you brought your case here wont make me judge in ur favor. Merry xmas |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by freecocoa(f): 8:22am On Dec 24, 2011 |
Nuff said here. |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by Nobody: 8:51am On Dec 24, 2011 |
Flashaldrin:she's talking about a relationship of three years. Yours hardly compare! . . .and was certainly not a relationship! |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by Youngpo413: 6:06am On Oct 05, 2014 |
Lobi: In other words you always do the DUMPING(s) abi? Now karma don catch up with you,so deal with it. MUMU. |
| Re: Please I Need Serious Help by Nobody: 6:10am On Oct 05, 2014 |
his ex after three year,that means you are dull   |
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