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7 Tips To Save Your Marriage From Collapse by mirabor52: 11:19am On Dec 23, 2011
One of the greatest factors for the collapse of many marriages is infidelity, either on the part of the man or woman.  Cheating occurs in a relationship when the man or the woman strays away from his or her partner and begin to get intimate with other people.
In some cases the man is pushed to commit adultery or fornication either by the attitude of the wife or her sudden dislike for sex after a baby or two. 
The Following Tips will help to guide against collapse of Your Marriage
  Does your husband now spend more time away from home than he used to?. If you observe this, look inward and find out what you used to do that you are no more doing. If your husband gets more sexual satisfaction outside, he is likely to spend more time there. Many women, after marriage seams to throw caution to the wind and begin to take everything for granted. Remember that your husband will want you to remain as you used to be when both of you were courting.

At the beginning of your relationship you were always eager to please him both in attitude and sex, if you change your attitude, there are other women out there who are ever ready to please him. However, there are still ways to take your husband’s roving eyes away from other women and make him have eyes only for you.

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There is the need to look deep down to see where your husband’s infidelity starts   from. Does he have self-confidence?  Is he going through some financial difficulties? Has he some unsolved sexual problems?

What about you? Do some self appraisal yourself to see if you are the one driving him into the arm of another woman without knowing it. Are you happy in the marriage? How about your sex life, is he happy with it?  This is very important because sex is one of the determining factors in a marriage. These and more could be the cause of his infidelity.

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Do you communicate with him very well?  Good communication helps you to understand each other. It is through communication that you are able to know what pleases, displeases or irritate your husband. Do not mock or gets bitchy when conversing with him, even if he does not completely satisfy you sexually.

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Even if his actions hurts you deeply, try hard to find it in you to forgive him and look beyond his action into that person you fell in love with. Love him completely, absolutely and selflessly.

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“Cleanliness is next to Godliness”. Keep the house clean and keep yourself clean. Do not be carried away by the household chores and forget to make out time for your spouse and yourself.

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If your husband has self-confidence issue, do not let him feel unappreciated and allow that secretary that has eyes on him continue to shower him with complement. Make him feel that he meant the world to you, so that when any admirer comes along, he will pinch himself to remember that a woman that thinks the world of him awaits him at home.

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Do not forget that we all have it in us to be exiting and make others enjoy our company. All you need do is to be yourself, relax and do not let everything gets to you. Concern yourself with the overall health and happiness of every member of your family.

The way to happiness is to keep your heart free from hate, your mind from worry, expect little, give much and fill your life with love.
One factor that keeps even the noblest and greatest men out of their marital bed is great sex. Have you ever wonder what those women they chase after have that you do not have? Ask yourself that, and begin to liven up your sex life.

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