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Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by Chimezie198(m): 8:53am On Jan 06, 2012
Without them being inlove with each other?
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by itiswell1(m): 9:06am On Jan 06, 2012
Why not? You just have to be careful.

My best friend in the uni was a female and we were very close all through my 4 year stay there.
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by martyns303(m): 9:21am On Jan 06, 2012
Prolly the most difficult thing. But yes it's doable especially if u knw she has a BF.
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by Murkie(m): 9:25am On Jan 06, 2012
Yes some they can but not me what about you guy
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by Ivynwa(f): 12:57pm On Jan 06, 2012
Chimezie198:

Without them being inlove with each other?

There is no rule in the world that says that you pick one person as your spouse and not be great friends with any other person. One can still have great friendly relationship with the opposite s*x without getting intimate with them.
I had a classmate who is a great friend, we have such great laughter together as we are always making each other laugh.
Even after graduation we hanged out together, chat up in church, discuss our separate relationships and leave things where it stopped: Friendship.
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by Nobody: 4:29pm On Jan 06, 2012
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Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by kokoye(m): 4:32pm On Jan 06, 2012
what kind of friendship is between a lion and a goat . . ultimately?
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by Nobody: 5:00pm On Jan 06, 2012
kokoye:

what kind of friendship is between a lion and a goat . . ultimately?
By ultimately u mean in paradise??
the lion shall lie down next to the goat and a little child shall lead them. lol!
But seriously with boundaries should be set once in order not to lead to emotional chaos.
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by Flashaldrin(m): 6:13pm On Jan 06, 2012
Chimezie198:

@Op, my best friend is my bfs wife. just be careful.
Chimezie198:

@Op, my best friend is my bfs wife. just be careful.
Chimezie198:

@Op, my best friend is my bfs wife. just be careful.
Chimezie198:

Ofcourse, just be careful.
what is wrong with this dude replying himself undecided
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by Mynd44: 6:21pm On Jan 06, 2012
This topic has been discussed extensively
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by Flashaldrin(m): 6:32pm On Jan 06, 2012
^^Thank you jawe.
myself i don tire undecided
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by Chimezie198(m): 12:11pm On Jan 07, 2012
Mynd_44:

This topic has been discussed extensively
Is ya best friend a guy or a lady?
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by Mynd44: 1:42pm On Jan 07, 2012
It is a dog
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by Nobody: 5:45pm On Jan 07, 2012
Mynd 44!

It's either we met at Leadway or at SJSS, or both! cheesy

You are stumped arent you? grin
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by Mynd44: 7:54pm On Jan 07, 2012
sexkillz:

Mynd 44!

It's either we met at Leadway or at SJSS, or both! cheesy

You are stumped arent you? grin

Okay so you have succeeded in shocking me. Now stop stalking me. It's un-nerving.
*about to faint from a heart attack*
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by Nobody: 7:59pm On Jan 07, 2012
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by Impulse80(m): 11:00pm On Jan 07, 2012
Men, its not easy o! Its like keepin a yam with a goat, i had a best friend who is a girl but guess what? She is my girlfriend now. At first we both didn't feel anything for each other but overtime i started getting really jealous when she is anoda guy and she started givin me the signals
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by claremont(m): 12:39am On Jan 08, 2012
Yes, they can. Though every now and then, the guy would always think of sleeping with her (except of course, the guy is g-ay, a religious goon, or impotent).
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by zurine(f): 2:24am On Jan 08, 2012
QUITE INTERESTING, JUST BE CAREFUL
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by Mynd44: 7:47am On Jan 08, 2012
claremont:

Yes, they can. Though every now and then, the guy would always think of sleeping with her (except of course, the guy is g-ay, a religious goon, or impotent).
And which of the above are you?
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by Nobody: 6:57pm On Jan 08, 2012
Yes.
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by Mynd44: 8:19pm On Jan 08, 2012
Possibly
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by MrCork17: 8:19pm On Jan 08, 2012
Yes.  all my best friends are women actually. They are white! wink
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by Mynd44: 8:23pm On Jan 08, 2012
^^^
We all know what your position will be
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by ektbear: 8:22pm On Jan 09, 2012
Lol no.

Pretty much all of the female friends I have, there is some level of s3xual attraction. Either a lot or at least a little.

I don't think it is possible for a man and a woman to be platonic friends.
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by HotieTima(f): 8:34pm On Jan 09, 2012
yes they can be

trust me my best friend is a male

grin grin grin grin even tho he has feelings for me

but u got to keep it kool u know.

but nah the truth is, is possible but at the same time it's hard for the guys to stay as friends forever.
one way or the other feeling will grow but it always starts with the guys tho.

they get jealousy when guys are flirting with they female friend.
hate seeing other guys hitting on them or them hitting on other guys. grin grin grin(no joke)
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by Mynd44: 9:52pm On Jan 09, 2012
^^^
And how is that jealousy? He might be trying to protect you from getting hurt.
You girls think you know everything about guy *sighs*
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by HotieTima(f): 9:59pm On Jan 09, 2012
undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided

ARE U LIKE STALKING ME NOW OR WAT.
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by HotieTima(f): 10:00pm On Jan 09, 2012
Mynd_44:

^^^
And how is that jealousy? He might be trying to protect you from getting hurt.
You girls think you know everything about guy *sighs*


we don't think

we know everything about u guys tongue tongue tongue silly
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by Sijo01(f): 10:10pm On Jan 09, 2012
YES its possible.
Majority of my frnds ar males &my best frnd of 8yrs is a male.
I now cal him my big bro 4rm anoda mother. Vis a vis.
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by Mynd44: 10:25pm On Jan 09, 2012
Hotie Tima:


we don't think

we know everything about u guys tongue tongue tongue silly

Biggest misconception of the century
Re: Can A Guy And A Lady Be Best Friends? by Chimezie198(m): 11:25pm On Jan 09, 2012
Hotie Tima:

yes they can be

trust me my best friend is a male

grin grin grin grin even tho he has feelings for me

but u got to keep it kool u know.

but nah the truth is, is possible but at the same time it's hard for the guys to stay as friends forever.
one way or the other feeling will grow but it always starts with the guys tho.

they get jealousy when guys are flirting with they female friend.
hate seeing other guys hitting on them or them hitting on other guys. grin grin grin(no joke)

buh u gat feelings for d guy? No lie!

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