[size=13pt]<sup>d'accord . . . .  

mais où es-tu tant de présents, je veux dire, quel pays?  

Oh , she's been so lovely to me on this forum for very long time now-- Yeah , giving her all the attention in the World is my due    .

D .Y. T darling. . . meet our new friend --</sup> [/size]

La Parisienne:

D'accord.

Dyt followed you here, pls give her attention

Ogaga4Luv:

[size=13pt]<sup>d'accord . . . .  

mais où es-tu tant de présents, je veux dire, quel pays?  

Oh , she's been so lovely to me on this forum for very long time now-- Yeah , giving her all the attention in the World is my due    .

D .Y. T darling. . . meet our new friend --</sup> [/size]

Est-ce qu'elle est ta petite amie?

Take him back he but under probation.

[size=13pt]<sup>Wow . . . . . J'ai tellement manquez pas notre pays, je vous dis ma chère. heureux de savoir u nouvel ami.


Oui, je l'ai connu depuis longtemps ici en ligne pour longtemps maintenant --- elle est plus qu'une amie mon cher, je l'aime tellement</sup> [/size]

La Parisienne:

Je suis actuellement au Nigeria.

Est-ce qu'elle est ta petite amie?

Ogaga4Luv:

[size=13pt]<sup>Wow . . . . . J'ai tellement manquez pas notre pays, je vous dis ma chère. heureux de savoir u nouvel ami.


Oui, je l'ai connu depuis longtemps ici en ligne pour longtemps maintenant --- elle est plus qu'une amie mon cher, je l'aime tellement</sup> [/size]

Ah bon. Du courage.

[size=13pt]^{merci bien ma cher. . . elle comprendre moi aussi} [/size]

La Parisienne:

Ah bon. Du courage.

Ogaga4Luv:

[size=13pt]^{merci bien ma cher. . . elle comprendre moi aussi}  [/size]

Sorry where did you learn ur french? You are mudering it . Is it Google translate?

[size=13pt]<sup>Well , i don't use authamated language translator my new friend , i speak FRENCH very well and also pretty good in writting it .

I did learn my French from school . well , i guess you haven't stayed with the francaise very long . the way i write my last is the short form of spelling in French -- Lushi

like example , when u are writting hello in French instead of writting it correctly like this ( Salut ) u can also write this way ( slt ) every francophone understand the short -form of writting</sup> [/size]

La Parisienne:

Sorry where did you learn ur french? You are mudering it . Is it Google translate?

Ogaga4Luv:

[size=13pt]<sup>Well , i don't use authamated language translator my new friend , i speak FRENCH very well and also pretty good in writting it .

I did learn my French from school . well , i guess you haven't stayed with the francaise very long . the way i write my last is the short form of spelling in French -- Lushi

like example , when u are writting hello in French instead of writting it correctly like this ( Salut ) u can also write this way ( slt ) every francophone understand the short -form of writting</sup> [/size]

You really don't know jack abt me. But it's all good. Peace




Still expecting more responses to the topic

[size=13pt]<sup>Yeah i agreed with u i did not know a jack about u -- we're just meeting today but pleased to see u I'll be hoping to knows the jacks in u soon my new friend .

Let us face the purpose of this thread later we'll talk. . .</sup>
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La Parisienne:

You really don't know jack abt me. But it's all good. Peace




Still expecting more responses to the topic

I should have paid better attention in my french classes ooo

[size=13pt]<sup>Really ? ^^

so why didn't u pay berra attention. . .</sup> [/size]

Mynd_44:

I should have paid better attention in my french classes ooo

give it a shot what have you got to lose?

I was sitting beside a very hot girl na.

[size=13pt]^{So because of girl u lost your mind in French class right?} [/size]

Hmmm.

May I ask why there is a vacuum for him to return to. I mean why didn't you move on into another relationship? Who is he to think he can come in and out as he please? How does he know you are still available? What would have happened if you had moved on into another relationship? Was he single for all those months or was he dumped too and he has found you available to always return to? Are you quite certain he has changed? Are you sure he doesn't have another chick somewhere? What guaranty is there that after a year, its not bye-bye to the relationship again? Is it worth wasting another tenure with him?

Finally, what do you, La Parisienne want as a girl/lady/woman? I mean what are your goals, what do you want? What would make you happy? Do you want to give it a try or you want to leave your options open and get the best that life have to offer? Do you want to settle for less and are you an easy babe or you want him to prove beyond reasonable doubt that he is worth the trouble. Do you want to limit yourself because you are not confident for a better offer.

After you answer my questions then I would advice you accordingly. Even if you decide not to give a response, the answer which you seek lies from these combination of question. Best of luck.

^^^ lol you harsh oooooo lol

Ogaga4Luv:

[size=13pt]^{So because of girl u lost your mind in French class right?} [/size]

No be my fault na. The girl fine no be small

eghost247:

^^^ lol you harsh oooooo lol

Funny enough I am not O. As a matter of fact it can happen to anyone. Everyone has been in that kind of situation or similar at one point in time. I just don't want her to get her hands burnt again. She deserves the best, its her right but its also her decision to make. I am only giving her questions that may/may not be relevant to whats going on.

I wish I can give you the right suggestion but can't be too sure cos with human you can never really tell, I'd tell you to study him but don't do that with a heart that wants him back(Im sure he's got more cash now cos he's got a job). You dated for 2 years im sure you will know if something is amiss, You said he has a phobia for long commitment don't you think he stayed away for a year to play around got bored with other girls and want you back for another 2 years? Just saying,

You need to know what YOU want, when you answer that then other things will fall in place, Good luck (Not jonathan )

@Cuddlemii
You raised some insightful questions that I hadn't even asked myself, quite impressive
-I didn't want to rush into another relationship. When I was ready to date again, I didn't meet someone worthy. Not just yet.
-I really don't know what would've happened if I had fallen in love with someone else. He believes this is a good sign.
-He swears that he did'nt mess around. I don't hve any reason to doubt him cos he was really preoccupied with his Msc.
-As a principle, I don't rely on others to make me happy. I make myself happy by making the right choices in life and by putting smiles on people's faces.
-I wasn't desperate to get married then, but it just didn't feel right being with someone who didn't have the same long term goals with me.
-My goals are planned out and I'm well positioned to achieve them speedily.
-I can't predict the future but I feel he's being sincere about his change of priorities.
-Finally, I'm not going to make the come back too easy for him. But at the same time, I don't want to push him away. He's a good man, atleast he's always sincere. Giving him another wouldn't mean settling for less by any means.

I can only hope and pray that it turns out well.

yup

La Parisienne:

@Cuddlemii
You raised  some insightful questions that I hadn't even asked myself, quite impressive
-I didn't want to rush into another relationship. When I was ready to date again, I didn't meet someone worthy. Not just yet.
-I really don't know what would've happened if I had fallen in love with someone else. He believes this is a good sign.
-He swears that he did'nt mess around. I don't hve any reason to doubt him cos he was really preoccupied with his Msc.
-As a principle, I don't rely on others to make me happy. I make myself happy by making the right choices in life and by putting smiles on people's faces.
-I wasn't desperate to get married then, but it just didn't feel right being with someone who didn't have the same long term goals with me.
-My goals are planned out and I'm well positioned to achieve them speedily.
-I can't predict the future but I feel he's being sincere about his change of priorities.
-Finally, I'm not going to make the come back too easy for him. But at the same time, I don't want to push him away. He's a good man, atleast he's always sincere. Giving him another wouldn't mean settling for less by any means.

I can only hope and pray that it turns out well.

Pardon my digression, as a layman in all these love game you girls are well versed in, how exactly are you going to make your Ex's come back "difficult or not too easy for him." . . . .  

No second chance without a ring or wedding date

We get to date so we can find out more about eachother , if you dated for at least a year before and now "he wants to continue ( puck) to know you without a diamond sparkler and a definate date then it means you sef get commitment phobia, and you can have fun rolling in the hay.

P.S That feeling you are feeling of doubt is good , let him eject it, or you move on,

Just my opinion.

@ OP, from ur last post, I think u hv decided to go back already. And I also blv u shld, was in the same situation once, left her for A year, after dating for like 3yrs. Now we back and planing our weding. That year gave me a clearer picture of things, hw much I valued her and what I was going to miss by my action. Wish u luck.

pedestal82:

@ OP, from ur last post, I think u hv decided to go back already. And I also blv u shld, was in the same situation once, left her for A year, after dating for like 3yrs. Now we back and planing our weding. That year gave me a clearer picture of things, hw much I valued her and what I was going to miss by my action. Wish u luck.

Oh congrats! I wish you the bestest. Happy married life in advance. . .

Metalgoong:


Pardon my digression, as a layman in all these love game you girls are well versed in, how exactly are you going to make your Ex's come back "difficult or not too easy for him." . . . .  

On a second thought, come closer and I'll tell you how

horny4u:

No second chance without a ring or wedding date

We get to date so we can find out more about eachother , if you dated for at least a year before and now "he wants to continue ( puck) to know you without a diamond sparkler and a definate date then it means you sef get commitment phobia, and you can have fun rolling in the hay.

P.S That feeling you are feeling of doubt is good , let him eject it, or you move on,

Just my opinion.

You so are correct. I'll keep your advice close to heart

La Parisienne:

@Cuddlemii
You raised some insightful questions that I hadn't even asked myself, quite impressive
-I didn't want to rush into another relationship. When I was ready to date again, I didn't meet someone worthy. Not just yet.
-I really don't know what would've happened if I had fallen in love with someone else. He believes this is a good sign.
-He swears that he did'nt mess around. I don't hve any reason to doubt him cos he was really preoccupied with his Msc.
-As a principle, I don't rely on others to make me happy. I make myself happy by making the right choices in life and by putting smiles on people's faces.
-I wasn't desperate to get married then, but it just didn't feel right being with someone who didn't have the same long term goals with me.
-My goals are planned out and I'm well positioned to achieve them speedily.
-I can't predict the future but I feel he's being sincere about his change of priorities.
-Finally, I'm not going to make the come back too easy for him. But at the same time, I don't want to push him away. He's a good man, atleast he's always sincere. Giving him another wouldn't mean settling for less by any means.

I can only hope and pray that it turns out well.

I just hope that your plan for him is well mapped & carried out. Make sure you know what you are getting into and it should come with what you want, what you deserve, your happiness & peace of mind. Its not too late to change ur mind if you observe that he is not coming from the same direction as yours.

Best of luck, remember to exercise the girl power, show him pepper (just kiddin)

this is old so i guess OP is by now jocking german balls.

sexkillz:

Errm! First things first! Tackle the only thing that caused the break up! Marriage! If he is not ready for the relationship to lead to marriage, he should remain in the "fcck off" status! There is really no need giving him a second chance when in actuality, he'll still try to talk you out of one of your most important values. . . Marriage!

You want marriage, and he is not ready to give it. So why still hanging around you?  

According to him, he's now ready for long term commitment. The only way to know his level of seriousness is by accepting him back, whilst expecting a ring soon. I'll thread carefully. Tnx though.

Cuddlemii:

I just hope that your plan for him is well mapped & carried out. Make sure you know what you are getting into and it should come with what you want, what you deserve, your happiness & peace of mind. Its not too late to change ur mind if you observe that he is not coming from the same direction as yours.

Best of luck, remember to exercise the girl power, show him pepper (just kiddin)

Well said

OK2NV:

this is old so i guess OP is by now jocking german balls.

Ha ha ha. Not so fast.
You do have a grey sense of humour. Have you ever tried stand-up comedy?