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Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by Nobody: 9:59pm On Jan 21, 2012 |
Scenario: Boy A and Girl A have been together for months. Girl D is interested in Boy A. She flirts, says she likes him, etc, even though she knows he's taken. Boy A repeatedly tells Girl D he's not interested as he's in love with Girl A and has no intentions of leaving her for anyone. Girl D continues to be playful and flirt, until Boy D, Boy A's best friend, comes along. Now, she's flirting with Boy D, says she likes him, etc. Boy D is single, oblivious, and, as a result, is becoming interested in Girl D. With this information, what are your impressions of Girl D? Would you tell Boy D about Girl D's track record? What's terrible is that Boy D is a responsible young man who shuns wild girls in hopes of finding a genuine, sincere woman. Imagine if things even go far between Boy D and Girl D. People would obviously ask how they met. "Oh, she was into my best friend but he was taken so she settled for me" lol. Thoughts? |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by mobf: 10:57pm On Jan 21, 2012 |
*yawns* |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by Mynd44: 10:59pm On Jan 21, 2012 |
If it were me, I would not tell Boy D anything because girl D girl D might be wild and crazy, but she seems like a girl who once is drawn towards someone would not let that person go instantly. She might not necessarily be a who-re just because she wanted to break up a relationship, she just knows goes for what she wants |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by doeeyed: 12:06am On Jan 22, 2012 |
Want to test her ''love", simply set up a boy F to seemingly draw her attention of boy D Have boy D observe the ensuing tango. For all u know, she may genuinely like boy D, n not fall foul. |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by slimyem: 12:13am On Jan 22, 2012 |
girl D tried her luck with boy A but it didnt catch. Boy A doesnt have to tell boy D anything.boy D should be able to take care of himself. Let people make their own mistakes.it should not be boy A's headache. |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by Nobody: 12:17am On Jan 22, 2012 |
boy A + girl A = boy D + girl D. No difference! |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by Nobody: 1:02am On Jan 22, 2012 |
slimyem: Yes, it shouldn't be his headache, but I think it would be awkward. It would be for me, if I were a guy. A girl that was once all over me is now with my best friend? Ew lol. To me, it seems like she wants any dude that looks her way. It could even be her attempting to get closer to the boy she couldn't have in the first place. A girl that's willing to break up a relationship can't be trusted in my book. |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by iice(f): 5:45am On Jan 22, 2012 |
Depends on the friendship of the guys. |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by IbroSaunks(m): 6:32am On Jan 22, 2012 |
I like their names, very cool like someone said, it depends on how close boy A and boy D are. but if I was boy A, I would talk to girl D First to figure out her intentions and warn her about boy Ds! if I'm convinced she's ok, I'll leave it at that, else I guess I'll have to warn boy D, that is if we are close. if we weren't close none of this would happen. you can call me boy Z, cos that kinda rhymes with jay Z |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by eghost247(m): 6:36am On Jan 22, 2012 |
i say let them be |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by Mynd44: 1:04pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
ogugua88:What happened to being happy for your friend? As long as she has not behaved in an unbecoming way towards your friend it should not be a problem. He should even be happy that she is off his back |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by pendo89(f): 1:34pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
lol lemmie try to understand in a simple way. BA + GA = BGA BGA + GD = BGAGD = Crowd. BGAGD - GD = BGA = GD + BD = GBD BGA = GBD. I dont see any problem. cz only time will test if its of convinience. And who knows,convinience could turn genuine. it only provides an opportunity to meet. |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by Mynd44: 1:44pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
Omo see equations |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by claremont(m): 1:48pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
This reminds me of O-level maths. |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by Mynd44: 1:54pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
More like genetics in Biology |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by IbroSaunks(m): 2:04pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
what happened to looking out for a buddie? |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by doeeyed: 2:53pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
My thoughts exactly!!!!!! He's concerned that his friend may fall into the laps of a delilah. He tells his friend of her previous dalliance at the peril of losing the their friendship n friend still having a failed relationship. So set her up to determine if she's really changed, never know. Wish we all had friends watching our backs like u. |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by freecocoa(f): 3:27pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
Oboy I don dey get headache with all this equations. Anyaways,Boy A doesn't have to say anything to Boy D,Girl D may be wild but you never can tell,it could work out for the Ds. |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by Mynd44: 5:01pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
The guy does not have to say isht. He should just watch out and see if the girl is showing tendencies of Naughtiness. Remember the OP did not say the girl was flirty just that she liked Boy A and she wanted him and so when Boy D came, she decided to go for the next best thing |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by tellwisdom: 5:17pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
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Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by Mynd44: 7:56pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
, |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by tellwisdom: 8:06pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by Nobody: 8:53pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
IbroSaunks: Bros that's exactly what I've been wondering. The comments have been surprising but cool nonetheless. I guess "Bros before Hos" holds in yankee only lol. Mynd_44: She's very flirtatious. One week she's all over guy A. Now she's telling guy D she needs someone to hold her at night lol. doe-eyed: |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by Mynd44: 9:13pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
Inlight of recent evidence, I change my view on girl D. Boy A should tell girl D |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by Nobody: 9:18pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
which kin algebra relationship be this one? boy A, boy D, girl Z, that said, Boy A should shush and watch from a distance to know if Girl D's intentions are genuine. If they are not, he can let the cat out of the bag. |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by Jay5000(m): 6:49pm On Jan 23, 2012 |
slimyem: What if Boy D (Mr. Responsible)was your brother? Would you let him go out with, and probably marry the cheerful giver (girl D) so he can learn from his mistakes? And by the time he learns from his mistakes, don't you think you would have succeeded in reducing the number of responsible 9ja men that our 9ja sisters are so desperately searching for? |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by pendo89(f): 7:01pm On Jan 23, 2012 |
this thread makes me laugh, abcde, they are grownups. let them handle |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by Nobody: 7:16pm On Jan 23, 2012 |
slimyem: Agreed! |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by MrCork17: 7:21pm On Jan 23, 2012 |
^^^ looooong hisssss 20 times!! |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by Mynd44: 7:23pm On Jan 23, 2012 |
pendo89:Speak for yourself ooo. Most NLers are less than 12 years old |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by pendo89(f): 7:27pm On Jan 23, 2012 |
lol |
Re: Is It Genuine Or Is He Just Convenient? by Nobody: 7:30pm On Jan 23, 2012 |
Gawd i hate maths! |
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