miss-sweety86:
That's so stupid to act like that! I've never done anything like that when my ex-boyfriends have cheated on me. But I remember one time I got a call from a girl who started to insult me and shout at me saying that I was stealing her boyfriend from her (I had no idea the guy I was dating had a gf). She insulted me but she didn't do anything to him! Stupid girl! Another time the girl my boyfriend was cheating with got my number and called to tell me that my boyfriend was cheating (he had told her that we broke up). So, not all girls act like bitches when they are the other girl or the girlfriend!

xynerise: I never knew girls fighting over a guy still exist

carefreewannabe: Good question.

I would never ever fight a lady who didn't know it was my man. If she knew, I'd definitely say something to her but I would never fight. My mama taught me better. I am a lady, not a wrestler.

I think some girls do it because it's easier for them to fight someone they DON'T love, in this case the other woman.

Wizard_of_Oz:

Í think uv hit the nail right on the head .- it's easier to fight someone one doesnt love.

Wizard_of_Oz:

Í think uv hit the nail right on the head .- it's easier to fight someone one doesnt love.

LadyTC:

No that's not hitting the nail on the head. Its called fear, they are scared the guy will leave them and won't fight with him or ask him point blank to stop communication or they will be leaving. Hence they have lost their identity or have low self-esteem.so they fight the other woman. And its also desperation to hold onto a guy. Whatever you try to control you will definitely lose.

carefreewannabe:


Men might react different though. What do you think?

LadyTC:

No that's not hitting the nail on the head. Its called fear, they are scared the guy will leave them and won't fight with him or ask him point blank to stop communication or they will be leaving. Hence they have lost their identity or have low self-esteem.so they fight the other woman. And its also desperation to hold onto a guy. Whatever you try to control you will definitely lose.

Wizard_of_Oz:
Í like the way the second girl handled herself. Very civil.
So did u confront the guy?

gree-die:
they say sometimes u have to fight for who you love
i may be wrong but i dont believe that i have to fight hard, fight other girls to keep the guy i love
i wont love who dont love me and if he loves, he ll try not to cheat.
if he cheats, he shouldnt expect me to fight to keep him, if he walks away then it is for the best
i wont fight anyone for a guy!!
i have tried to imagine wat my reaction would be if i caught my man cheating on me..im cool and collected so i definitely wont fight or shout
but i will make sure he is aware of my presence and then.... walk away!! some may call me a coward, if i am, there is no shame in that.
i may tear my hair and cry, but he will never know. i dont know if i ll give him a 2nd chance but i definitely wont give him a third.
if i catch him cheating, i wont go after him or the other girl, i will be the coward who walks away



my reasons are not purely emotional,they are logical too.
as controlled as i am, my emotions are consuming... if i decide to flare, the effect will be volcanic!!!

gree-die:
they say sometimes u have to fight for who you love
i may be wrong but i dont believe that i have to fight hard, fight other girls to keep the guy i love
i wont love who dont love me and if he loves, he ll try not to cheat.
if he cheats, he shouldnt expect me to fight to keep him, if he walks away then it is for the best
i wont fight anyone for a guy!!
i have tried to imagine wat my reaction would be if i caught my man cheating on me..im cool and collected so i definitely wont fight or shout
but i will make sure he is aware of my presence and then.... walk away!! some may call me a coward, if i am, there is no shame in that.
i may tear my hair and cry, but he will never know. i dont know if i ll give him a 2nd chance but i definitely wont give him a third.
if i catch him cheating, i wont go after him or the other girl, i will be the coward who walks away



my reasons are not purely emotional,they are logical too.
as controlled as i am, my emotions are consuming... if i decide to flare, the effect will be volcanic!!!

gree-die:
they say sometimes u have to fight for who you love
i may be wrong but i dont believe that i have to fight hard, fight other girls to keep the guy i love
i wont love who dont love me and if he loves, he ll try not to cheat.
if he cheats, he shouldnt expect me to fight to keep him, if he walks away then it is for the best
i wont fight anyone for a guy!!
i have tried to imagine wat my reaction would be if i caught my man cheating on me..im cool and collected so i definitely wont fight or shout
but i will make sure he is aware of my presence and then.... walk away!! some may call me a coward, if i am, there is no shame in that.
i may tear my hair and cry, but he will never know. i dont know if i ll give him a 2nd chance but i definitely wont give him a third.
if i catch him cheating, i wont go after him or the other girl, i will be the coward who walks away

same here.



my reasons are not purely emotional,they are logical too.
as controlled as i am, my emotions are consuming... if i decide to flare, the effect will be volcanic!!!

Wizard_of_Oz: I've seen it more times than I can count. There's some screaming and shouting, two girls are verbally abusing each other (the voice of the “girlfriend” louder and hurtful than the other), the other girl is gathering her handbag and trying to make her way from the scene with the cheating man trying to keep the situation under control. Sometimes it even escalates to a full-on physical assault of the “side chick”.
The thing is I always wonder, girls, you catch your man in bed with another girl, why go after the other girl to assault her (verbally or physically) and leave the greedy cheater of a man unscathed from the shame of the moment??

Mynd_44: This reminds me of when I went to see a friend of mine on a sunday afternoon. Apparently, two of his girls had met in his room and they were getting confrotational. The guy fearing the safety of his appliances (laptop, phones and stuff) pushed them outside the room and he and his neighbours sat and had a great time.

I wanted to stop the fight but who am I to spoil everyone else's fun? Abeg I carry chair siddon look.

gree-die:


and d girls kept fighting, wen he obviously cared abt none!
when ll my sisters learn?? why give him dat satisfaction?

Mynd_44:
I still have pictures from the fight on my phone.

Some made vidoes of the fight.

People just choose to be silly and it is just sad

gree-die:

oh my!!! u watched dem fight and instead of separating them u took pictures and videoed it

naa.... i dont believe dat, not the mynd i know

Mynd_44:
I was out numbered na. What would I have done?

Everyone wanted to watch so I swallowed my tongue. Plus the girls sef did not want to stop fighting.

gree-die:

owk... the better option was to join d crowd...



uhm... can u send me d video

gxpensive:
With what have read so far from the composer to the commentators- this got me to remember a friend of mine once asked me, if i find my girl cheating on me with a bouy friend of mine on my bed that what will i do? My answer to Kunle on that day was simple, i said i will look up to the ceiling while i walk out the scene(room). Why i should i fight on somebody that doesn't have regard for my feelings. **cheaters pack well**

Mynd_44:
Erm.... I can't. I have a no sharing policy when it comes to embarassing pictures