Please can we refrain from commenting for a while? Trying so hard not to view this thread to no avail. People are just watching me here in BRT, wondering why a 'grown up man' is crying in public

Peace be upon her family.

Just seeing this, RIP

Somebdy tell me it is'nt tru.

Afta all d pain she went tru she stil did nt survive it.

O God!
R.I.P Dear sista.

freecocoa:

Paddy me really?he wanted her that much and he didn't take her since and he let her suffer all those pain like really? I still can't think straight,I couldn't sleep last night,NO no no no its just a lot to take in Badosky e dey pain me well well,IVYNWA girl you need to see me,I don't know what to think,I'm just shattered,God i didn't know i can hurt this much,I've never felt so hurt since my mum's death,Mbanu this one is really paining me,chei PERX this isn't what we agreed on ooo,I was seriously waiting dance during thanksgiving,Is this really happening?

God knows best Mama dee,he knows best ooo

Kai its not right but its ok ooo

Sijo01:

Somebdy tell me it is'nt tru.

Afta all d pain she went tru she stil did nt survive it.

O God!
R.I.P Dear sista.

Sj d bolded is my pain oo

Yellow mango wasnt ready, they took her.

Oh my good GOD! I am deeply saddened by perx's dead. I wish it was a dream. God who am I to question u? Pls I humbly ask for the acceptance of perx's soul in ur kingdom. May looking back in memory helps comfort her family in sorrw. May the love of GOD and the love of all our wellwishers reinforce our (perx family and nairalanders) hope of eternal life in HIS Kingdom. I am humbled by all nlers who support nland teHN course. May GOD bless us all

Oh my good GOD! I am deeply saddened by perx's dead. I wish it was a dream. God who am I to question u? Pls I humbly ask for the acceptance of perx's soul in ur kingdom. May looking back in memory helps comfort her family in sorrw. May the love of GOD and the love of all our wellwishers reinforce our (perx family and nairalanders) hope of eternal life in HIS Kingdom. I am humbled by all nlers who support nland teHN course. May GOD bless us all

May her soul find peace in the beyond!

rest in peace

freecocoa:

Paddy me really?he wanted her that much and he didn't take her since and he let her suffer all those pain like really? I still can't think straight,I couldn't sleep last night

This is the saddest part for me, I read one of her descriptions once and it struck me that she must have been going through a WHOLE lot of pain, the kind that cannot even be imagined. Having your bones so tense that they fracture without you falling or anything? Damn that's insane.

So for me, I see her as not having to go through that kinda pain ever again and who knows what quality of life she woulda had after that UBTH treatment? Those people know next to nothing about common cases how much more somthing of this nature?
I dont care what took her whether na God decide say hin wan carry am go after all that suffering, all I know is she's at rest now and if truly there's heaven in the biblical sense of the word, then I can rest assured that she's there right now cos she was close to God towards the end.

It is well.

Idowuogbo:

God knows best Mama dee,he knows best ooo

Kai its not right but its ok ooo

Chei my paddy,babe I've been trying to get it together but i can't,paddy na our yellow mango PERX bebe dem dey pay tribute to o,its not ok na its really not,I'm sad,I'm angry,I'm heartbroken,I'm in a place I don't like being right now,after everything?I'm honestly finding it hard to hold back the tears and to say goodbye,paddy my head aches so bad,my eyes hurt,I've not eaten since last night and I'm not even hungry,my roommate is getting mad at me,what should i do?I don't like being in this state cos its always very hard for me to get out of it,PERX why you do me like this?

i have still not come to terms with this,

GOD, WHY HER LIFE AND NOT THE PAIN? PLEASE CAN SOMEONE TELL ME WHY??
i dont want to say things i might regret later because this lady chose life, she doesnt want to die.

RIP. [b]PERX[/b]

Very sad.
RIP Perx.

Rest in peace and may God give her families the strength to bear the loss and console them as well,

Dee i cant console u oooo, pls someone who talks to dee call, email, yim , fb , skype her or something.

Bado don weak oo

hmmm so na die d babe die sha?

Vanity upon vanity! All is vanity. We love you perx, we know God loves you more. REST IN THE BOSSOM OF THE LORD IN PEACE.

AJJ:

Vanity upon vanity! All is vanity. We love you perx, we know God loves you more. REST IN THE BOSSOM OF THE LORD IN PEACE.

Can you people stop saying that God loves her most crap?where the fu ck is the love?oh allowing her go through so much pain,people squeezing out the little they had to give to make her better,allowing her go through a painful procedure and then finally leaving us all shattered and hurt is love in your dictionary?oh please say something else,mstcheew.

freecocoa:

Can you people stop saying that God loves her most crap?where the fu ck is the love?oh allowing her go through so much pain,people squeezing out the little they had to give to make her better,allowing her go through a painful procedure and then finally leaving us all shattered and hurt is love in your dictionary?oh please say something else,mstcheew.

and i ask again

moHot:

i have still not come to terms with this,

GOD, WHY HER LIFE AND NOT THE PAIN? PLEASE CAN SOMEONE TELL ME WHY??
i dont want to say things i might regret later because this lady chose life, she doesnt want to die.

RIP. [b]PERX[/b]

its so easy 4 some pple to say y feel suicidal
or actually do it?
if things r going well or great 4 u dont
mean everyone is d same
some problems pple go thru are worse than
others so DUH!!!

This is the wake up call to everyone. If things are going well or great for you, doesn't mean everyone is the same.  Some problems people go through are worse than others, so DUH!!!

freecocoa:

Can you people stop saying that God loves her most crap?where the fu ck is the love?oh allowing her go through so much pain,people squeezing out the little they had to give to make her better,allowing her go through a painful procedure and then finally leaving us all shattered and hurt is love in your dictionary?oh please say something else,mstcheew.

Calm it down!. . .no one's going to live on forever!  Good things happen to bad people and bad things happen to good people,  doesn't mean God loves the latter any less.   she was in pain and now she's resting, away from the many worries and terrible woes of this world.  

I lost my mum a couple of years ago, and yes, I hated God for it! It was the thing any rational person will do. But now, when i remember how depressed and worried she was in the months preceding her passing away, I get the bittersweet feeling that she wouldn't have to go through all that again.

Perx has shown us by her own life how to love someone we've never met or known, and not to judge people without hearing them out first. This is a great lesson for us all, but we must take comfort in the fact that the young lady is not living in pains anymore.

i actually cant believe the tears in my eyes.
R.I.P Perx!

This is extremely sad oo. Didnt sleep well last night as a result of this news.
She was always in my prayers and I wanted so bad for her to walk again. I cannot even imagine what her family and loved ones must be going through now. Looking back at her posts, it was so obvious that she wanted to be well again. All she wanted was to live a normal and full life once more. She constantly encouraged herself with songs and silent prayers to God. It is just so sad to see that she ended this way.

I know death is inevitable but a young person like Perx (RIP) does not deserve to die especially after all the pain she had been through. I was looking forward to the day all the sorrow and suffering would end, so that she would be able to wear a full smile again but that was not God's plan. Just when we saw a glimmer of hope, just when we thought we were going to  let out that sigh of relief, just when we thought we were going to show the devil how big of a liar he is; the very worst happened.

Perx, I did not know you personally but I had been following your case on Nairaland from the very beginning and truly, I have learned an inestimable amount of things from you. Now, I know not to despair over the little challenges life might bring, but to always look on the brighter side of things. I know now, to not complain about every blemish on my skin or to not feel sad because I do not look a certain way that I wish to because there are actually people that would give anything to be in the state I am. I have definitely learned to give God thanks in every situation I find myself because things could be worse. More importantly, I know now, to help people while I still can because they might not be there the next day.

I hope that wherever you are now, you are at peace. No more injections, no more bandages, no more drips or blood transfusions. No more pastor TB joshua and obnoxious doctors. No more begging charity organisations Perx,  heck no more pain.
The above is what we all should take solace in. She is in a better place now.
@Free cocoa, calm your self down. All would be well.


Rest in the bosom of the Lord, Perx.

My eyes are red and full with tears, My your soul rest in peace.May God grant your family the fortitude to bear this great loss.Condolences to 865449 Nlders too.

Rest in peace, dear perx.

Wow, so so sad

May her soul rest in peace and may God continue to be with the people she left behind

Ify tell me it is not true

jennykadry:

Ify tell me it is not true

I've been begging to be told the same,they all keep saying its true,maybe ify will finally tell us its a bad dream.

The outpouring of love on this thread for Perx is overwhelming, thank you Nairaland for all the love. Freecocoa cry all you want but get a hold of yourself. It was time for Perx to exit the stage of life. What can we do? Little, just come to terms with it !

Sadly, It is true.

RIP Perx in the bossom of the Lord.

jennykadry:

Ify tell me it is not true

I wish i could

@ ALL

We at TeHN are finding it difficult to digest

Thank you all for your messages

We love you Perx, surely you will missed