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| What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by Wbong: 6:41pm On Jan 31, 2012 |
what advise wld give a girl who is very pretty but insecure, how does she avoid men that approach her or show some interest in her? does she tell the men that she has too many problems to date them |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by kokoye(m): 6:45pm On Jan 31, 2012 |
does she really want to avoid those men . . or she's just too insecure to engage in a conversation? pretty outside but ugly inside = negative zero. |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by Wbong: 6:48pm On Jan 31, 2012 |
shes too insecure to get into a conversation and to get into a relationship |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by kokoye(m): 6:55pm On Jan 31, 2012 |
So . . .does this mean she does not want a relationship? |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by Wbong: 6:58pm On Jan 31, 2012 |
she wishes she can but she cant because she has too many problems. she doesnt want to put her garbage in another persons life |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by pendo89(f): 7:03pm On Jan 31, 2012 |
Wbong: In that case she needs to get rid of all that garbage before she can breakthrough. Its the bondage holding her back and nobody needs more garbage in their lives. Are the problems family related or personal? |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by Wbong: 7:17pm On Jan 31, 2012 |
pendo89: personal problems the girls is always rejecting guys not because she doesnt want to date them but she just cant due to her problems she has a low self esteem she think shes not good enough she has been bullied severly in the past academic issues etc 1 Like |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by kokoye(m): 7:19pm On Jan 31, 2012 |
She needs to go see a shrink . .someone to help her deal with her own personal issues. Only then can she learn to deal with others. |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by pendo89(f): 7:37pm On Jan 31, 2012 |
She seems so broken inside, it's interfering with her progress. The world is cruel and there are very few people who can be kind and encouraging. What most do is take advantage of other's misery to break further. How is family helping her or are they fueling this? When all fails the family is always a good leaning post you know. She must understand that she can shape her own destiny and if she just sits there feeling miserable,she will forever be and nobody enjoys hanging around misery. Let her also keep the company of positive/optimistic people not those who keep reminding her of her past failures. Its all in her will.She can overcome if she decides to. |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by Wbong: 7:43pm On Jan 31, 2012 |
pendo89: Her family like her mother is really helping and praying for her. her mother visits her once a week. shes now an active church member and avoid all the friends that have bullied her in the past |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by pendo89(f): 7:51pm On Jan 31, 2012 |
I modified the post. Listen Wbong.Church is ok but being an active member aint gonna solve her problems. See the mistake people do? Run to church hoping their issues will disappear in a flash! .Truth is,church activities will keep her mind occupied BUT only for a while.When church doors are locked she goes back to her miserable state. I mean some self esteem issues are progressively dealt with not hidden in church activities. Her soul is troubled but her spirit is saved, so can she please address the real issues in her soul? God can help her do it but not through being a busy body. That's *escapism.* And before I forget. The way to confirm you have overcome anything is by meeting the same thing and feeling nothing about it. She will know shes ok when shes able to meet those bullies and talk to them the same way she does everybody else.That's called healing. I have noticed from ur post shes using escape or substitute as a way of tackling her insecurity. |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by Mynd44: 7:53pm On Jan 31, 2012 |
She should try to get into a relationship. Not a romantic one, but a really close friendship type. Perhaps with a guy who she can offload one and be free with because problems are better shared and not bundled inside while she keeps living in a shell. Unfortunately, guys like that are scarce. |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by queensmith: 7:54pm On Jan 31, 2012 |
i'm no expert but I will say take your time and don't rush into anything. Pay attention to men that seek your frienship in place of those that want to rush into a relationship. Those are normally the men that are no good. Treat all men that seek a relationship the same way you will a friend, in time you will be comfortable enough to proceed to the next level with whoever is suitable for you. Take up a nice hobby and try your best to get confident. |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by claremont(m): 8:25pm On Jan 31, 2012 |
kokoye:I agree! She may have deep-seated psychiatric issues which would be better addressed by paying a visit to a psychiatrist/psychologist. |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by 9janinja1(f): 8:40pm On Jan 31, 2012 |
dude i feel your pain |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by snthesis(m): 10:10pm On Jan 31, 2012 |
@op - tell her to call me  im a trained psychologist - ill get her fixed in good tyme- |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by Wbong: 10:24pm On Jan 31, 2012 |
pendo89: hmmm good! |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by Killz3(m): 11:05pm On Jan 31, 2012 |
Let her make friends out of her age group, with people older than her, people she can tell her problems without being ridiculed at. People than can give her practical advice. She should also learn to be more trusting, learn how to smile, be of help to others in need, and not just to people that would repay the favor. When she has built her self confidence, she's ready to face the world! |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by iice(f): 4:39am On Feb 01, 2012 |
How is she insecure? Anyway, its up to her to make the decision to fix her life or not. If she wants more or if she's okay with what she is. The best would be for her to see a psychologist. Not those quack people throwing out words because it's the new slang reigning in town. |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by Wbong: 5:14am On Feb 01, 2012 |
iice: academic, behaviour issues, people think shes stupid! |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by pendo89(f): 5:40am On Feb 01, 2012 |
Wbong: These are easy to deal with issues not impossibilities! for christ's sake people have major life threatening issues and they still manage to socialise and break a smile. Look here,If she's academically challenged.Why not go back and study? if money is the problem, she can hang around libraries,not gossip with friends and doing silly things, read magazines,newspapers,journals,diaries,blogs, just any source of info to broaden her mind! she needs to spend time with people who challenge her and are superior to her so that she can match up. Sometimes people have a tendency of wanting to mingle with people of a lower cadre for ego sake.It gives them a superior false ego based on who knows more while in reality they are useless. If her behaviour is a put off she can work that out! if its all in the past then the best remedy is cut off her past bad relationships and mingle with a different group of people who can positively influence her. Accepting the status quo is not the answer. In summary this is my advise,if she messed up her life she can use the same amount of energy to put it all back together. It will take her WILL. We don't live in the past or else the world wl never progress. |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by Nobody: 6:46am On Feb 01, 2012 |
She should consult a teraphist |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by pendo89(f): 6:57am On Feb 01, 2012 |
what if she cant afford a therapist? |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by sigmundfreud(m): 7:06am On Feb 01, 2012 |
we learn almost everything in life. Unlearn insecure feelings and learn confidence. |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by CrazyBone(m): 9:23am On Feb 01, 2012 |
she nid plenty kissss |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by iice(f): 2:48pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
Pendo, well said. Though if she can't afford a therapist, she should talk to someone with an understanding of mind and environment. Some people cannot manage on their own. Heck some can't manage with a squad showing them directions. |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by 25omega(m): 3:26pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
Wbong:is she hiv positive? because you are being cryptic about the problem she has |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by badmrkt(m): 4:01pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
perhaps sh's feeling an inferiorty complex about herself,due to her low academics attainment if i may get the @op right or she's just being shy associating with people.everbody has a problem so she should not see herself as being the most unlucky person on earth.she needs people around her,those she can trust not necessarily a lover.get close to those who are more advanced than you in every sphere of life,there you can learn how to push ahead.being lonely always will only increase her plight and may as well affect her psychologically. |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by Nobody: 5:35pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
One Line: Give the Pretty Face to someone who can use it. . . |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by drnoel: 6:46pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
U 4get all pretty girls are insecure. I've met a lot and dated a lot of them too. It's sad but I retain my opinion that all pretty girls are insecure. |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by Wbong: 7:07pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
HQ: lol damn  |
| Re: What Advise wld you give A Girl Who Is Very Pretty But Insecure. by Wbong: 7:09pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
25omega: no shes not shes just insecure! |
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