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For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by Alert(f): 9:06am On Feb 26, 2012 |
Please married people in the house, I need to know when you first quarrelled with your spouse, after your proper wedding, was it up to a day, or a week or a month before your first quarrel? I would like honest answers plssssssss. |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by Nobody: 9:26am On Feb 26, 2012 |
I am a newly wed bride I hate threads like this. |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by Idowuogbo(f): 9:37am On Feb 26, 2012 |
Poster family section would have bin better off for dis post,I mean d post below has no atom of sense in it.I warned you ooooo |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by Excelboi(m): 9:48am On Feb 26, 2012 |
Op, i dnt know ur business with people marital life, olofofo! |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by chelseabmw(m): 9:51am On Feb 26, 2012 |
i don't quarrel cos am not married |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by Okontami: 10:48am On Feb 26, 2012 |
Every day and its fun, There is no way you wont quarrel with ur wife. Different things must happen. clash of ideas, clash of emotions , clash in priority, clash in objectives, Konji and Agro dey catch you but no dey catch her and vice versa, money matters too. cos u might just see her as over spending. Imagine suggestion that u should buy a 2,500 chandelier or make una go malta for this economic crunch Some times devil go just dey at work. So my girl just know that marriage is not what it is on TV and Magazines. but after each quarell , abeg pull your wife to ur side and slam her ur koboko, then the fight is over. U guys can now talk it out. |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by modavi: 11:04am On Feb 26, 2012 |
like every other day and it's kinda fun cos it ends mostly in wat you know already. |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by blackcat1: 11:17am On Feb 26, 2012 |
The OP's question is when was your first quarrel? |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by modavi: 11:19am On Feb 26, 2012 |
our wedding eve n it has continued like dat till date, kinda fun cos it always ends up in wat you know already, |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by Nobody: 11:26am On Feb 26, 2012 |
I cannot remember |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by agiboma(f): 12:01pm On Feb 26, 2012 |
Quarrel in a marriage is so normal, its how you handle the conflict that is important. |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by sigmundfreud(m): 12:17pm On Feb 26, 2012 |
quarrel get levels o. The first one i can remember was 3days after, during the honeymoon, and its been quarrelling happily ever afta! |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by Samoo01: 12:37pm On Feb 26, 2012 |
rokiatu: With your pseudonym and over 27,000 posts on Nairaland alone, it's not so difficult to fathom your rational for that answer. Pathetic! |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by crackhouse(m): 12:45pm On Feb 26, 2012 |
We do quarrel but at the end of the day, we always settle with sex, i mean we end up having sex. 1 Like |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by Idowuogbo(f): 12:46pm On Feb 26, 2012 |
Samoo01:Mean |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by Nobody: 12:49pm On Feb 26, 2012 |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by hannahmay(f): 1:14pm On Feb 26, 2012 |
Guess dis thread is nt for me. Brb! |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by TV01(m): 1:18pm On Feb 26, 2012 |
Quick shout out to wifey just confirms; we are yet to have a quarrel. Thank God that "making up" is not the key driver for passion or I'd be in pickle huh? Quarrelling does not have to be normalised in marriage. Even if there are daily differences in opinion or percieved conflicts. Thanks TV |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by Nobody: 1:30pm On Feb 26, 2012 |
Idowuogbo:Really that was mean? Wow!! The definition of mean must mean something else to me. |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by doofanc: 1:33pm On Feb 26, 2012 |
crackhouse: modavi: i wonder it is about quarrels that shoots up the libido. I've heard of so many couples having sex soon after disagreements. |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by doofanc: 1:45pm On Feb 26, 2012 |
For my parents, it was a few days after the wedding. The cause? Well, Dad wanted to sell some of gifts because he felt there were too many of practically the same types, but mom wouldn't have that and wanted to keep all of them. . |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by texazzpete(m): 2:05pm On Feb 26, 2012 |
Alert: What business of yours is it? Be warned that people who do tatafo like this do not usually live long o! |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by modavi: 2:08pm On Feb 26, 2012 |
doofanc:it sure does, hmm, i enjoy making my man go mad at times cos he looks more sexy and inviting seeing him charging his muscles and breathing high n yelling just for me to grab him fast n kiss him to shut the Bleep up, d rest of the story is wat u know already, |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by Businesstools(m): 2:14pm On Feb 26, 2012 |
I knew my wife four years before we got married and we have been married for two years and have never had a quarrel.Whenever we disagree on an issue,I tactically excuse myself.My approach to conflict resolution is avoidance.May be I'm weak.I have absolute control over my temper and I don't confront conflicts.Those who have known me can testify to that. |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by modavi: 2:21pm On Feb 26, 2012 |
Businesstools:how boring, u need to be charged up my a naughty wifey lolz!, just saying, |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by tundesto(m): 2:40pm On Feb 26, 2012 |
From the responses so far, majority are of the opinion that after each quarrel you should have intimate with your spouse. What if she is the type that derives pleasure denying you sex? |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by modavi: 3:00pm On Feb 26, 2012 |
tundesto:Many reasons could be responsible for that:she has had enough sex in her youth days-she has got another lover;probably a spiritual husband-or just that you do not give her enough excitement n enough atmosphere to make her crave for you n wanna give you sex. its just smh sha, eeeeeya, pele ooh! |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by kepsi123(m): 5:31pm On Feb 26, 2012 |
i think it was the same day. And we still average about twice a month. it does not make my marriage any weaker. rather it makes it stronger. In a union where there are no disagreement one partner is unhappy. i enjoy having my wife tell me am wrong if she thinks so without hesitation. |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by whitedove(m): 6:30pm On Feb 26, 2012 |
The very night after the wedding,it was always little things like misplaced car keys to lack or too much spices in the food,in this case :pepper.but it always ended in intimacy,unfortunately,i lost her during childbirth 2 months ago,precisely December 13 last year, i will gladly give everything that i have to have her back with all the Skirmishes, 1 Like |
Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by Sprumbaba: 9:03pm On Feb 26, 2012 |
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Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by whitedove(m): 9:47pm On Feb 26, 2012 |
Sprumbaba:
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Re: For Married People: When Was Your First Ever Quarrel? by Idowuogbo(f): 9:54pm On Feb 26, 2012 |
whitedove:Awwwh touching! D lord is your strength. |
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