Mumtwins08:
Hello momas ... I have a question
For mostly experienced mothers. If one gives birth without an episiotomy will the vagina be slack? Or wide ? Cos I always think having an episiotomy and them stitching it will make the vagina tighter . Please enlighten me .

Hi dear, It doesn't slack but you need to do the kegiel exercise in order to help yourself too. When I had my first the doc sewed me so tight that It was so difficult to penetrate. I went back to her and d indian doc laughed so hard and told me I should be very happy she packaged the thing well.

@Enkeydewdrop, Mitchyy, hafofems, n Twogreatnations, thank you all for asking after me. I'm OK now and I have been discharged from the hospital. I will stick to your advises.

Enkey mama pls try and do somfin abt that bubby so chinco baby will enjoy himself and also enable d ministry to locate it's permanent site.

@iomoge2 my capoo, you are are really looking good o double tommy n double bubby.

@JUMAYIN my teamie, wari is dis? Where is your Pata pls don't blind some bori's eyes o. I love d shape of your tommy.

sexyshe:
Sweet mothers ,how una dey?I am team September ,I hav been a silent reader.I read virtually everyday.I have indeed gained a lot here.may God bless you all.i I hav been placed on calcium and aspirin for this pregnancy cos I had high blood pressure when I was pregnant with the first.my doc said it might prevent the high blood pressure this time .The problem I do hav is taking my drugs daily,even my prenatals I skip for weeks.I thank god this time no swollen legs so far and my blood pressure has been normal.I am 29 weeks gone,team blue.

Na one of the mamas wey we go fine be this! Silent reader bawo Iv been calling your name on our rollcall since na, you nor gree answer.
Oya just submit some dollars and we shall be happy.

Please do take your drugs, no matter how hard it may seem. I always use some food to take my drugs... mostly suya or asun cos of the pepper. Wether you would try wrapping yours in eba? We want mother alive and baby alive at the end of this journey. May God continue to make it smooth for you by God's grace.

lovinam:

Hi dear, It doesn't slack but you need to do the kegiel exercise in order to help yourself too. When I had my first the doc sewed me so tight that It was so difficult to penetrate. I went back to her and d indian doc laughed so hard and told me I should be very happy she packaged the thing well.

Thank you very much .

olaoyekemi:
Mama's pls help me out.
I teach in a private skool,our Head teacher a lady during teachers briefing last week said DAT we pregnant women av not notify d management about our pregnancy so dey don't believe they av any pregnant staff imagine.she said we were suppose to inform d management once we know we are pregnant.pls who does not.
Yesterday dis same lady said anoda tin DAT we are suppose to submit our letter for maternity leave the day we put to bed so that our leave will start reading from that day.

Now my question is this,for those DAT work in private organization when do u apply for mat leave,do u inform ur boss about ur pregnancy before showing bcus dis our HM is just a lousy and badbelle lady.

Pls don't read and pass.

Cc zaynie,rezzy, all sabi mama's

Well you are supposed to inform the management that you are pregnant. Why? Since its a teaching job, they need to make plans in case you have an emergency. They plan for who will take over your class when you are out of school. They also need to make plans for the days you will go for Ante natal visits. When you birth, you should write to inform them. Maternity leave starts from the day your letter arrives the desk of your Admin head.

Team September for supernatural delivery, Oya shakey bumbum. How are we, op we are using our prenatals religiously, kpekusing dailyling and praying fervently. May the Lord strengthen us and help us carry to term.

Our muslim sisters, 7dayz to go. May Almighty Allah reward us all. Amin.

Cute bump everywhere, Enkay u are a black beauty.
Imoge,jumayin,britney my able captain,and all the other bumping mamas, all this fresh bumps u pple are sharing. Dairis God o.

Make I try join in d bump sharing.
Surprise baby shower.
33weeks,team August.

@Godmother, you'll deliver ur baby and no evil will befall your family. Amen. But in case of next time abeg rebuke it out loudly n send it back to four of his generations. That man is a devil. Just free your mind. It's well.

Evacroft:
Cute bump everywhere, Enkay u are a black beauty.
Imoge,jumayin,britney my able captain,and all the other bumping mamas, all this fresh bumps u pple are sharing. Dairis God o.

Make I try join in d bump sharing.
Surprise baby shower.
33weeks,team August.

Awww. Lovely. I'm tripping seriously. Dear friends and family members, kindly surprise me too. I promise to say a big Tnk you.

funmz:

My sexy captain,i hail o! It's not as if i'm praying to port to October o. It's just that i was overdue during my last pregnancy so i am just keeping an open mind this time around and not stressing myself over it. September mamas, oya make una show una faces before i vex and open register. Na we plenty pass for this thread and na we suppose to dey run the show for here. My sweet honeylicious captain SUGAH, abeg do roll call and fine all the absentee mamas with heavy fine of a thousand dollars and a truck of tomatoes! Hehehehe.

You might want to look into getting your baby out before your due date then. Did they say the cause of the last incidence? Im not sure where I read about babies dying due to placenta something something.

olaoyekemi:


My thought also,since I will be due september ,why should I submit my letter in June.DAT woman as a big ish,she just wants to know everything abt ones life

I would suggest you get your company's HR policy. If your company doesn't have a documented process so it's what the owner says that goes, then ask the owner.

You can't use one company's policy for another company regardless of what our personal beliefs are. I run a small business. I would expect you to let me know when you will be going on leave and not leave me guessing at least 2/3 months before so that I can factor it in.

Godmother:
My Rant...

Has anyone ever had a mean person place a curse on your pregnancy? It wasn't a good feeling at all! I felt quite bad.

He did not place a curse on you my dear, He just let out his frustration.
You are a child of God and angry words from a frustrated fellow has no impact in your life.

Godmother:
My Rant...

I just had an annoying experience. I was coming from my mom's place this evening and took a keke. Since it was evening I didn't think it was so necessary to ask the keke driver if he had change (would have done that if it was early morn).

We got to my bus stop and I made to pay him only for him to flare up calling me wicked and evil. Huh What just happened. He sounded angry and insultive and me too lost it. I told him not to insult me as it was evening. We were at a filling station sef and if he hadn't being so insultive I would have come down to look for change.

Next thing this guy turned around and ordered me to come down from his keke and said that for my wickedness I would die with the pregnancy I was carrying. That was when other guys in the keke flared up and shouted at him. Me I was just speechless but was rejecting it in my mind. I couldn't believe anyone would be so mean as to say such.

Has anyone ever had a mean person place a curse on your pregnancy? It wasn't a good feeling at all! I felt quite bad.

This is not sometin to take lightly sweetie,whoever that says we will not leave to enjoy the fruit of our labour will die before us. I cover u and ur baby with the blood of jesus. Pray about this. As for that Keke man if he means what he says he will not be alive to witness d day u will have ur baby.he has been marked except he has a change of heart and ask God for forgiveness. Don't worry dear u are covered.

Evacroft:
Make I try join in d bump sharing. Surprise baby shower. 33weeks,team August.

Awwww, xoxo lovely I love surprises too...
lol @simababe

@Godmother, pls take your mind off wat d man said and pray harder. Nothing bad will happen to u and your household. He's a frustrated man and looking for who to vent his anger on. Safe delivery to us all

Evacroft:
Cute bump everywhere, Enkay u are a black beauty.
Imoge,jumayin,britney my able captain,and all the other bumping mamas, all this fresh bumps u pple are sharing. Dairis God o.

Make I try join in d bump sharing.
Surprise baby shower.
33weeks,team August.

Awwwwwww.. so Cute

cherrymum1:
Soonest, Happy Born Day to you. Greater and bigger you I pray.

Adorablewifey, HWA to u and your King. Many more beautiful and sweet years to both of you. You will see you children's children together and grow old with peace of mind.

Enkaydewdrop, afraid catch me as I read ur BS finish o. We thank the Great physician and warrior for coming thru. Love from Baby Lam and I to Bobo Jay.

Mamas two hands in d air o..... I dey twale everybody.

Amen and thanks ma, kisses to baby Lam.

Praise the Lord Halle......
Lift Him high Halle
Halle leel eni Oluwa ogo Halle......
It can only be you God.
I had my beautiful Princess yesterday at 35weeks 6days.
Yes am a mother again after three stillbirth

Bs Loading. ......
Team July l don port oooooooo

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princessKF:


Lol...Cute bump, pls incase Iomoge borrow u her boobies, pls pass ur own to me let me use o

Lemme borrow you mine na...
Lolololololololo

Heavy duty

Praise God. Congrats dearie.

raptor2:
Praise the Lord Halle......
Lift Him high Halle
Halle leel eni Oluwa ogo Halle......
It can only be you God.
I had my beautiful Princess yesterday at 35weeks 6days.
Yes am a mother again after three stillbirth

Bs Loading. ......
Team July l don port oooooooo

raptor2, congrats, congrats, may your lo bring plentiful blessings on ur household. waiting for ur bs.

hafofems thanks.

godmother, don't mind the frustrated man. It is him and his generations that will die not you.

enkaydewdrop, black beauty, no wonder Jay is so fine.

raptor2:
Praise the Lord Halle......
Lift Him high Halle
Halle leel eni Oluwa ogo Halle......
It can only be you God.
I had my beautiful Princess yesterday at 35weeks 6days.
Yes am a mother again after three stillbirth

Bs Loading. ......
Team July l don port oooooooo

Praise the lord.... Halleluyahhhhhhhhh
Thank Jesus.... I so much in love with good news
Congratulations ma'am. God protect you and your beautiful princess.

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Today is Bump tuesday, my bump @ 33 weeks.

raptor2 congratulations, God win ,God bless and preserve your LO.

raptor2:
Praise the Lord Halle......
Lift Him high Halle
Halle leel eni Oluwa ogo Halle......
It can only be you God.
I had my beautiful Princess yesterday at 35weeks 6days.
Yes am a mother again after three stillbirth

Bs Loading. ......
Team July l don port oooooooo

Congrats m'am may Gods name be forever be praised in our lives. Welcome little princess

princessKF:


Fwesh bump

Thanks mama, we are trying to be like you nau.

raptor2:
Praise the Lord Halle......
Lift Him high Halle
Halle leel eni Oluwa ogo Halle......
It can only be you God.
I had my beautiful Princess yesterday at 35weeks 6days.
Yes am a mother again after three stillbirth

Bs Loading. ......
Team July l don port oooooooo

Congrats ma'am..... may her arrival bring joy and blessings to ur home.

iomoge2:


Lemme borrow you mine na...
Lolololololololo

Heavy duty

I don't mind oo

funmz:

No, my case was different. The baby was in distress and came out not breathing. She died two days later. God is in control and this time around things will be different by God's grace.

Ok. Affliction shall not rise a second time.

sugah:

Ok. Affliction shall not rise a second time.

Big AMEN my dear captain. God bless u.