KINGwax: hey, halt right there! Cos a female dog is your b¡tch doesn't mean you'll treat it wrongly. And really, u might. Didn't your real owners jst collect some cash in lieu of you?
Own up guys, u've being paid for!

agiboma: @ OP I can write a novel as to how wrong your notion is but ill just sum it up in 3 words "you are crazy"

ronkebp:

They ''collected and returned'' that same day, BIG DEAL!!!!!

fellis:
Why do many men get so worked up when they vaguely perceive that they are being challenged by women?

ZUBY77:

this applies to every man and every woman, dont mention my sisters as if i am going to start defending them. Grow up

free2ryhme: y u dey vex abi dem never don pay ya bride prce?

free2ryhme:

They collect something no matter how small they sha collect sometin.. what if nothing was collected and taken how would you feel? no lie ooo .. why you yorubas use the comment "olowo ori mi?" Paying your dowry makes you proud.. Mdm stand one side abeg

free2ryhme:

They collect something no matter how small they sha collect sometin.. what if nothing was collected and taken how would you feel? no lie ooo .. why you yorubas ue the comment olowo ori mi? Paying your dowry makes you proud.. Mdm stand one side abeg

ronkebp:

you are making a point and crucifying yourself too. , if you are in support of the collection then we are on the same page.

ZUBY77: I know where this thread is heading. Women vs men but i still have to spill it.
When a man go to the market and buy a goat or a dog, he owns the animal. When a man buys a house or a piece of land, he owns it but when a man goes to a woman and pays bride price, ladies will start to shout that he doesnt own her. They will remind us that this is 21st century as if we forgot. I am not saying a man should maltreat his wife or even his dog but ladies should get it.
You are all for sale and when we buy you, we take you to our own families.
Let the war begin.

ocelot2006: Well, I think the word "own" is a bit strong as I don't see my wife as my property. Still, I don't run a democracy in MY house, but a benevolent dictatorship, and my wife knows that. Her opinions are always welcomed, but my words and approval are FINAL. Oh, and I don't believe in all that 21st century 50/50 bullshyte. Like my parents, I'm pretty much old school.

ZUBY77: This whole thing of bride price should stop. I started this thread because some illiterate money-miss-road came to marry in our place last week. He paid 250, 000 and started bragging to his friends the next day.
I think the midset of people like him is to threat the ladies however they want because they paid for her.
What i am saying is that bride price should be abolished like slave and be replaced with something different.
I would suggets a cow.

free2ryhme: y u dey vex abi dem never don pay ya bride prce?

free2ryhme:

it means you are owned shekeniah

agiboma:

That is not the issue, we are talking about a human being here and no one belongs to another, not even our children belong to us they are individuals. No one can own another person its just wrong, so no i dont belong to any man and will never be the property of any one.

ZUBY77: We are learning something here. Maybe we can change the course of our future. I believe if nothing like money is paid for a woman, the domestic violence could reduce to 50% or more. I came to this conclusion because there is no way people can beat or maltreat what they dont own or pay for.
And for some of you who are bragging here that even if a hundred million was paid for them, the husbands will never own them, You people should learn to understand the society you live in. You girls are always fast to embrace western cultures like 'never touch a woman, women have equal rights, blablabla' but never wants to embrace their own marriage concept. I have seen situations where boyfriend and girlfriend have many kids and never get married.
Here in Nigeria, you girls wants traditional marriage, wedding, bride price etc, just to impress your friends without even considering the man's capabilities. Then after all that, you still want to enjoy the same rights as western women. I sense greediness here.

ZUBY77: We are learning something here. Maybe we can change the course of our future. I believe if nothing like money is paid for a woman, the domestic violence could reduce to 50% or more. I came to this conclusion because there is no way people can beat or maltreat what they dont own or pay for.
And for some of you who are bragging here that even if a hundred million was paid for them, the husbands will never own them, You people should learn to understand the society you live in. You girls are always fast to embrace western cultures like 'never touch a woman, women have equal rights, blablabla' but never wants to embrace their own marriage concept. I have seen situations where boyfriend and girlfriend have many kids and never get married.
Here in Nigeria, you girls wants traditional marriage, wedding, bride price etc, just to impress your friends without even considering the man's capabilities. Then after all that, you still want to enjoy the same rights as western women. I sense greediness here.

ZUBY77: We are learning something here. Maybe we can change the course of our future. I believe if nothing like money is paid for a woman, the domestic violence could reduce to 50% or more. I came to this conclusion because there is no way people can beat or maltreat what they dont own or pay for.
And for some of you who are bragging here that even if a hundred million was paid for them, the husbands will never own them, You people should learn to understand the society you live in. You girls are always fast to embrace western cultures like 'never touch a woman, women have equal rights, blablabla' but never wants to embrace their own marriage concept. I have seen situations where boyfriend and girlfriend have many kids and never get married.
Here in Nigeria, you girls wants traditional marriage, wedding, bride price etc, just to impress your friends without even considering the man's capabilities. Then after all that, you still want to enjoy the same rights as western women. I sense greediness here.

ZUBY77: We are learning something here. Maybe we can change the course of our future. I believe if nothing like money is paid for a woman, the domestic violence could reduce to 50% or more. I came to this conclusion because there is no way people can beat or maltreat what they dont own or pay for.
And for some of you who are bragging here that even if a hundred million was paid for them, the husbands will never own them, You people should learn to understand the society you live in. You girls are always fast to embrace western cultures like 'never touch a woman, women have equal rights, blablabla' but never wants to embrace their own marriage concept. I have seen situations where boyfriend and girlfriend have many kids and never get married.
Here in Nigeria, you girls wants traditional marriage, wedding, bride price etc, just to impress your friends without even considering the man's capabilities. Then after all that, you still want to enjoy the same rights as western women. I sense greediness here.

ronkebp:

Zuby77 that your conclusion does not hold water, my parents taught me well, and just so you know, to hold my head up high, and i don't need a man to help me turn it this way or that way. Oh!!! so you want to tell me that only married men maltreat their wives? in that same Naija, you have not seen men maltreat their girlfriends that they have not even paid bride price for? Just say you don't have the money to pay and stop drawing fake conclusions here!! I will repeat it again and again, if you marry me and pay billions and think you can maltreat me because of that, i will get guys( since i cannot match up with you strength wise), they will lash you buttocks on that same matrimonial bed and i will attend to your wounds later on!...don't even think it and serve you food that you must eat by force and fire.

ronkebp:

Zuby77 that your conclusion does not hold water, my parents taught me well, and just so you know, to hold my head up high, and i don't need a man to help me turn it this way or that way. Oh!!! so you want to tell me that only married men maltreat their wives? in that same Naija, you have not seen men maltreat their girlfriends that they have not even paid bride price for? Just say you don't have the money to pay and stop drawing fake conclusions here!! I will repeat it again and again, if you marry me and pay billions and think you can maltreat me because of that, i will get guys( since i cannot match up with you strength wise), they will lash you buttocks on that same matrimonial bed and i will attend to your wounds later on!...don't even think it and serve you food that you must eat by force and fire.

Ebeeluv: this is a man's world,

but it wouldnt be notin without a woman or a girl (y guys too dey forget dis part?) na wah o

Reanaa: When u start thinking like this op u r tend to hav problems at home. When a man marries a woman they become one. every one knows man is the head, however he sees the wife as himself. They treat each other with love and respect, this is wat u r supposed to be preaching and not who own a property.

ronkebp:

Zuby77 that your conclusion does not hold water, my parents taught me well, and just so you know, to hold my head up high, and i don't need a man to help me turn it this way or that way. Oh!!! so you want to tell me that only married men maltreat their wives? in that same Naija, you have not seen men maltreat their girlfriends that they have not even paid bride price for? Just say you don't have the money to pay and stop drawing fake conclusions here!! I will repeat it again and again, if you marry me and pay billions and think you can maltreat me because of that, i will get guys( since i cannot match up with you strength wise), they will lash you buttocks on that same matrimonial bed and i will attend to your wounds later on!...don't even think it and serve you food that you must eat by force and fire.

ZUBY77:

Lol. Your big nyash would never allow you to be able to match up with anybody not just men. Who in his right mind will marry an imbe.cile like you.
We are not talking about beating anybody here, we are talking about paying for something... Cars, dogs, lands, women, etc.
Why is it that the only thing we cant own after payment is women? Well we have decided to add them to the list of buyables and until we remove the money payment aspect of the marriage process, you gals remain our paid items.