[color=#990000]Am a final year student, i meet this girl two weeks i moved into school as i got admision, we started dating since then till our 300lvl. We were admired by her friend and my friends. My friends will always tell me then that they wished they were in my shoes. Inshort we were expecting couple of the year award this finals. I loved this girl that i can give her all i have and stay empty. Shes brighter than i am in academis coz i ventured into school politics which she never accented to. Through my date with her, i only had a one time intimacy with her and that was in my 200lvl which she gave me conditions that it must be in a hotel outside were we stay. That never gave me headache cuz the cash was present. At the end of our 300lvl she started showing some character that bafled me. As a guy i had to mount spies on her and found out shes going out with one of my helo, hi friends. I confronted her about it but she rebufed having anything with the guy, not untill i caught her redhanded and decided to put an end to everything. Now i've found someone who respects, loves, cares and shes very loyal to me. She has seen me with my new love twice and now she want a comeback but she cant tell me instead she is trying to get my attention back. First, she sent me a text to come back to school that lectures are serious. 2nd she sent me another text that she's still having some pics we took together during my friends brothers ordination. All these fell on deaf ears. Thirdly she saw me one evening in school and told me she is sick and want to go and take injection, that i should take her to the place, since i was less busy that day, i had to take her to the place. She was expecting me to massage her after the injection as usual bt i didnt. She was expecting me to say something but i never did. Lastly, She sent me a text message asking if i would attend a relationship programe in school at about 8:30 pm. Cause then we attend programes together but thanks to MTN that delivered the massege 2days after. She really wants me back but am not available at the moment. But she doesnt want to read the handwriting on the wall. Am really happy with my new love and dont intend going back to her. Anytime she sees me in school she must stop to have a conversation with me and offer her hand for me to hold cause thats my routine. Shes really on me and dont know what to do. Nairlanders, i really need your candid advise on what to do.

I advise you post once.

But you seem to have the answers already. Follow your gut.

Show are your new girl.... Case close!!!

U already said u dnt want her bck n u dnt wanna liv ur new girl. Wat else do u wnt NLders 2tel u?

this one is mad ooo

Tellfoolrish bitterry, i tought u'r gay!

Let her know u hav smone else ur happy wt n dnt gt too friendly wt her.. simple

I don't understand the purpose of this thread. Seems you still love this girl and want permissions to go back to her, if not I don't see the necessity to create this thread.

ur ex is a flirt, u don't even want to imagine the guys she has been with before naw, women lie to get wat they want, a woman hates wall, they go around it, what makes them fall is their past, you are her past, you hold a key, maybe becos u reali loved her and she saw that as a route to outsmart you, i love the way you treating the uprising, neva let her win, put simple.

Yea phrase, dtz exactly wt am doing. Aint going 2 let her win. Tanks man

d devil u knw is beta dan d angel u do not knw. It wil take d grace of God 4 u 2 find a lady dat doesnt hv a fling. So dnt b so assured abt ur new galfrnd cuz she mite nt b diff. Ur mind is made up bt jst b careful

Tell her u're queer

TELL HER YOU WOULDN'T WANT TO CHEAT ON YOUR NEW GIRLFRIEND

Introduce her to ur new girlfriend; that should show her dt u've moved on and she should too.

I appreciate all ur advice. Emmy11

I feel you are still showing her you are available.

emmy11:
I appreciate all ur advice. Emmy11

But you are a lady now from your picture or are you a lesbo?

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