some pple say they cant marry a non-virgin while sum say its ok
in sum tradition its not accepted to marry a non virgin.
is it really a Biggy?
wat do y'al think?

You summarised it already.
Different strokes for different folks.
I choose a virgin anyways.

hi,
this world tire me i no go lie.we just keep creating problems 4 our seves.Abeg who divirgin d non virgins no be men?What make u think  virginity  is all dr is in marriage?Shouldn't women 2 marry men dt are virgins?
Dont get me wrong .i am not an advocate of promiscuity but d truth is, dr are things we just cant help.My bros marry VIRGINIA FROM D VILLAGE BUT WHEN HIM DEY 2 DAY?6FT.His virgin was frolicking with d bfriend why he aid sick n d guy was even picking calls from myy relatives meant for my uncle with his phone n when he died, while his corpse was in d mortuary, shewas going 2 his office 2 claim entitlement with who?
That is a virgin.

abanna:

hi,
this world tire me i no go lie.we just keep creating problems 4 our seves.Abeg who divirgin d non virgins no be men?What make u think  virginity  is all dr is in marriage?Shouldn't women 2 marry men dt are virgins?
Dont get me wrong .i am not an advocate of promiscuity but d truth is, dr are things we just can't help.My bros marry VIRGINIA FROM D VILLAGE BUT WHEN HIM DEY 2 DAY?6FT.His virgin was frolicking with d bfriend why he aid sick n d guy was even picking calls from myy relatives meant for my uncle with his phone n when he died, while his corpse was in d mortuary, shewas going 2 his office 2 claim entitlement with who?
That is a virgin.

Thanks for the story.
You forgot to answer the question though.

What a question,But How do ladies recognize a guy virgin then.

virgin is good thoug, but it's better to be with somebody that has tasted life. "no be say make she come my house dey do the tasting:

@poster

What tradition in this 21st century scrutinizes 'virginity'?

I'm yet to see where such issues are strict anymore _{Na these dayz wey almost everybody dey 'poke'?}


@preference

Almost any African man would prefer a 'virgin land'. But I think, that's not all that matters in marriage.

Are the guys themselves virgins?!

Hsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss!

iice:

Another virginity thread

my dear, i QUIT!

if virgin, she should be advanced in age, dis must av allowed her gain 1 or 2 tins true sharing wit frnds, readin books. but generally, i prefer a non virgin who is not spoilt, probably was deceived by a player. nevertheless, non is bad

iice:

Another virginity thread

me three

i dey look for virgin men o,where dem dey??

its annoying when men want to marry virgins after they have banged anything in skirt.

why didn't they stay virgins to marry one! nonsense

@bolarge
So we meet again

Bolarge:

You summarised it already.
Different strokes for different folks.
I choose a virgin anyways.

Are you a Virgin yourself? Nonsense!

Every Friday, one virgin thread or the other appears miraculously.

Have once believe about this virgin issue b4, bt ve change my mind now oooooo. I ve a virgin girlfriend who does nt ve my time at all, she always move from one programme to another and all the needed attention was nt given to me n any way, ve decided in my mind to look 4 another girlfriend cos i can continue like this.

Does it really matter? compartibility is the word, virginity is secondary, if she is a virgin and ends up killing me, what good have i gotn from the relationship, ??

chychy:

There's more to marriage than virginity. Guys out there - how many girls have u slept with? How many girls have you deflowered? Why didn't u marry them?

i believe in staying away from sex before marriage but then who is the judge of that? Will marrying a virgin make you a happier husband or will it make her a better wife? Or do you think it make her less promiscuous? whether u marry a virgin or not, what you should be looking at is companionship because after sex what next?

Please let's check our priorities. After all, a guy goes around sleeping with different girls every night and then when he wants to settle down, looks for a "V". Whether u marry a virgin or not, karma will always find its way to u.

Karma is the word. . . KARMA

@khai khai n chychy
WORD

iice:

Another virginity thread

my dear i jus tire,na everyday dem dey post dis kin tin

what is really the big stuff about marrying a virgin? promiscuity is a thing of the mind a virgin girl could become wayward after been married(its very possible), why not marry who has tasted life and is more sensible now(dunno not mean the really reckless girls ooooooo who just did everything possible ).
But whatever sha i don't care if a girl is a virgin or not for as long as i dig her stylee, i go marry am

what is really the big stuff about marrying a virgin? promiscuity is a thing of the mind a virgin girl could become wayward after been married(its very possible)

Good talk my guy.

why not marry who has tasted life and is more sensible now(don't know not mean the really reckless girls ooooooo who just did everything possible Undecided).

As virginity is not a criterion, so is taste-noodle not a criterion.

But whatever sha i don't care if a girl is a virgin or not for as long as i dig her stylee, i go marry am

Good conclusion.

Who cares about virginity. I pray I never meet a virgin in my entire life. Of what use? You want somebody to come to my house and start misbehaving just cos I met her virgin and then she is everything. God forbid.

I am not saying that marrying a virgin is not good but I cant marry one (sorry, cant meet one). Impossible.

Good luck.

I am not keen or Interested in marrying a Virgin,provided she is Hiv & STD Free I will definitely marry her.I know it must be someone I like.So virginity does not really matter to me when it comes to marriage.

@ topic

HELL NO !!!!

Silly likes 'em witha an opened "path"