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Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by 190: 4:22pm On Apr 01, 2012
harakiri:

Una no go kill me for dis forum. . .lol

grin grin cheesy


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Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by Nobody: 4:25pm On Apr 01, 2012
@Blue, you make sense, wished everyone reasons like you, very thoughtful....hmmmmm
Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by mykejones(m): 4:29pm On Apr 01, 2012
Hmmm! This thread is already a 'success'. No derailing yet,and most importantly,no bashing of the poster. Even the notorious thread bashing Killz nd 190 gave the op a 'weldone tap'. Great! Just great!
Op..i can't agree less with you on this one. Weldone
Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by 190: 4:41pm On Apr 01, 2012
mykejones: Hmmm! This thread is already a 'success'. No derailing yet,and most importantly,no bashing of the poster. Even the notorious thread bashing Killz nd 190 gave the op a 'weldone tap'. Great! Just great!
Op..i can't agree less with you on this one. Weldone

Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by Killz3(m): 4:47pm On Apr 01, 2012
mykejones: Hmmm! This thread is already a 'success'. No derailing yet,and most importantly,no bashing of the poster. Even the notorious thread bashing Killz nd 190 gave the op a 'weldone tap'. Great! Just great!
Op..i can't agree less with you on this one. Weldone
Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by Brixtonyute(m): 4:49pm On Apr 01, 2012
Wrong question!

The right question should be: WHY DO NIGERIAN GIRLS AND THEIR P.USS.Y STINK?? AND WHY DO NIGERIAN GIRLS HAVE NO 'YANSH'?

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Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by Natasha2(f): 4:50pm On Apr 01, 2012
sauer: well....
1&2 would suffice. The remaining points are very well just repetitions! undecided
At a point I thought I was the only one who noticed.
Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by Dyamante(f): 4:54pm On Apr 01, 2012
cugresources: @Dymante, our economy is too harsh and again, our ladies seem to be too greedy to acquire every modern thing they see, even the ones from poor family and those that have no good job or handwork. Some men too, do assist them to be like that.
Then the men should not complain that the women are gold diggers
Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by Koolking(m): 4:54pm On Apr 01, 2012
cugresources: 1. Majority of the girls or ladies looking for date online, don't really want to meet just nice guys, but miracle money-guys (rich, handsome, God-fearing, sexy, loving, caring, homely and all) to spend money on them and meet their numerous financial needs, which cannot come in one package even in real life; which was the main reason they (girls) decided to widen their search online, not necessarily becos they don't have dates in real life or are not being approached by guys in real life, but becos they want a rich-prince-charming who must also be a pope johnpaul and romeo at the same time.

2. Majority of the guys looking for date online are not financially buoyant to meet the above criteria that the ladies are looking for.
3. Majority of the guys are actually looking for sexmates and not true love.
4. The girls that are searching for true love without criteria 1. attached to their search, are not good-looking, or they are over-aged. and they are also very few in number.

. . . and very desperate. Any man provided he has p.r.i.c.k is good to go
Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by Akpan107(m): 4:55pm On Apr 01, 2012
cugresources: 1. Majority of the girls or ladies looking for date online, don't really want to meet just nice guys, but miracle money-guys (rich, handsome, God-fearing, sexy, loving, caring, homely and all) to spend money on them and meet their numerous financial needs, which cannot come in one package even in real life; which was the main reason they (girls) decided to widen their search online, not necessarily becos they don't have dates in real life or are not being approached by guys in real life, but becos they want a rich-prince-charming who must also be a pope johnpaul and romeo at the same time.

2. Majority of the guys looking for date online are not financially buoyant to meet the above criteria that the ladies are looking for.
3. Majority of the guys are actually looking for sexmates and not true love.
4. The girls that are searching for true love without criteria 1. attached to their search, are not good-looking, or they are over-aged. and they are also very few in number.
5. The few nice, honest and ambitious guys looking for date online have no money, which makes them stand no chance of getting a date online since the majority of the females want rich guys to spend on them and take care of their needs.
6. The frequent bashing on both genders (especially the Nigerian girls) and ego-fight between the guys and the ladies here will make many to lose focus on connecting with their true love, which was the primary reason most signed up on NL.
7. Nigerian ladies are too scared of poverty, which no one should blame them cos of the present economic situation of the country, tribute to our frequent corrupt leaders. And on the one hand, Nigerian guys want the ladies to start loving them even while they are yet to become rich or great, as a way of proving that their love for them is real, while the Nigerian ladies maintains that history has taught them not to stay with a potential guy cos when he finally gets money, that he would dump them that suffered with him for new girls. which if at all its true and happens often, is a case to ponder....so all these facts and more, are some of the reasons internet dating won't work for Nigerians on NL and other social n. sites.
Well said. This is one of the most beautiful and unbiased comment i had ever seen. ThIs's a true talk!
Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by sigba(f): 5:01pm On Apr 01, 2012
Wonderfull analysis. Well said. Some Nigerian ladies are unskilled and have this mindset that once they get a rich dude that all their problems and that of their family has been solved. Just few ladies like me8) have this independence mentality, all we need a guy for is for companionship and procreation.
Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by yusuf2(m): 5:03pm On Apr 01, 2012
OMG, OP, u're just 2much, ur IQ must be as high as mine, in fact, send me ur account number, u deserve a cash reward for this ur research! I don't see any how u could make these observations more easier to comprehend! Are u sure we re not related?

LOL @ 190 vs Killz
Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by 190: 5:07pm On Apr 01, 2012
yusuf_@:
OMG, OP, u're just 2much, ur IQ must be as high as mine, in fact, send me ur account number, u deserve a cash reward for this ur research! I don't see any how u could make these observations more easier to comprehend! Are u sure we re not related?

LOL @ 190 vs Killz


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Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by Vongs19: 5:21pm On Apr 01, 2012
Dating online is trash gals need cash
Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by LeJeun3: 6:15pm On Apr 01, 2012
Imgbe: Are u nigerians sincere 2 date online?
There r many sincere Nigerians! Fakt!! Reminds me of a girl I met on a social networking site. I never had any obscure thoughts and I didn't have any other motive but being a good friend. She said she needed to go back to school was have difficulties so I sent her some money. After bout a month I called to know how she was faring in school and to my suprise she asked who is speaking,i was taken aback but later she unfriended me and . . . . . .There goes sincerity wasted.
Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by ismaeel86(m): 6:17pm On Apr 01, 2012
Nothing works in Nigeria even online dating, na wah o, the government as usual should set up a committee or independent commission to investigate this issue.
Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by Odunnu: 6:50pm On Apr 01, 2012
moscoleee: Can we please face[b] fats[/b] and do the correct thing I like to refer you all to the Bible in Acts chapter 26 v 27 ...believest thou the prophects ? I know that thou belivest so if we all believe the profects weather christian or moslems the prophects told us that sex which is another word for dating should not be done outside marriage talking about it here we are sinning so I wish we repent of our sins so that the society will be a better place for us all
Face fats? I'll rather face protein.

Dipwater: True story
I am not poor neither am I so wealthy ,I can afford what eva I want as a yung money.
Yung money ke? Lil wonder my sisters aint feeling y'all.
Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by skydeep(f): 7:02pm On Apr 01, 2012
I dont care what u guys say but I have a testimony to give. tongue
Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by Nobody: 7:02pm On Apr 01, 2012
LeJeun3:
There r many sincere Nigerians! Fakt!! Reminds me of a girl I met on a social networking site. I never had any obscure thoughts and I didn't have any other motive but being a good friend. She said she needed to go back to school was have difficulties so I sent her some money. After bout a month I called to know how she was faring in school and to my suprise she asked who is speaking,i was taken aback but later she unfriended me and . . . . . .There goes sincerity wasted.
Vongs19: Dating online is trash gals need cash

Are u kidding me? Guy u must be so dumb....Even my 12 year old self won't fall maga so cheaply?Gawdd
Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by Nobody: 7:33pm On Apr 01, 2012
@OP, While many girls see marriage as a way out of poverty, some girls are already comfortable or may belong to an upper-middle class family. Girls in any of these situations will probably have preference for guys who can maintain, or even raise, their already comfortable standard of living.
Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by Johnny(m): 7:52pm On Apr 01, 2012
This is a job of a well-researched work;u re right on point....
Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by KevinII(m): 8:07pm On Apr 01, 2012
Very true OP. I wish girls will put their fine asses to work and quit depending on guys to take them out of poverty and lack.
Nigerian girls pls your boyfriends are not ATM machines ok?
Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by MissEZ(f): 8:12pm On Apr 01, 2012
@ OP, some of your claims are a little general and cannot be proven, but you have made some really good points.

My liver no strong for online dating. kudos to people who have the balls to give it a try
Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by ochukoccna: 11:57pm On Apr 01, 2012
cugresources: 1. Majority of the girls or ladies looking for date online, don't really want to meet just nice guys, but miracle money-guys (rich, handsome, God-fearing, sexy, loving, caring, homely and all) to spend money on them and meet their numerous financial needs, which cannot come in one package even in real life; which was the main reason they (girls) decided to widen their search online, not necessarily becos they don't have dates in real life or are not being approached by guys in real life, but becos they want a rich-prince-charming who must also be a pope johnpaul and romeo at the same time.

Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by Nobody: 12:05am On Apr 02, 2012
^^^ Those are the typical Eko ashewos, not the typical Eko girls.
Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by Nobody: 12:09am On Apr 02, 2012
Hmmmmm....what a world, Nigerian girls and money-mongering habit, sighs. Must it be all about money? Where are your guddam prides and worths Nigerian sisters? This money-chasing won't lead us anywhere; whoever will be rich in life must be rich, come rain come shine, it will only take time, so why sell your feminine gifts for money? who all these? Too bad....shaking my head disappointedly...
Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by MissEZ(f): 12:37am On Apr 02, 2012
cugresources: Hmmmmm....what a world, Nigerian girls and money-mongering habit, sighs. Must it be all about money? Where are your guddam prides and worths Nigerian sisters? This money-chasing won't lead us anywhere; whoever will be rich in life must be rich, come rain come shine, it will only take time, so why sell your feminine gifts for money? who all these? Too bad....shaking my head disappointedly...

Ah ahn brother, wassup with the broad generalizations, not all naija babes are like that now. Its like us saying all men are cheats, when in reality it isnt so. Not all nigerian girls are money mongers, same way that not all men are cheats

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Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by LeJeun3: 1:19am On Apr 02, 2012
12 inches!:


Are u kidding me? Guy u must be so dumb....Even my 12 year old self won't fall maga so cheaply?Gawdd

I did not fall cheaply. Never expected anything in return, she can't look me in d eye self. cheesy
Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by Latrice699gmailcom(f): 5:42am On Apr 02, 2012
Hummm...interesting...... smiley
Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by queensmith: 5:52am On Apr 02, 2012
Ileke-IdI:
^^^ Those are the typical Eko ashewos, not the typical Eko girls.

there is no difference when it comes to girls from lagos, one and the same
Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by dokunbam(m): 6:05am On Apr 02, 2012
BlueBarbie: Yet some people are married today, courtesy ''on line dating''!!!
A friend got his babe on 2go, they will be getting married soon
Re: Why Online Dating Won't Work For Nigerians Especially On NL by Bello555: 6:09am On Apr 02, 2012
We tell lies alot on social networks. It wont work.

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