bennyraz:
yes o o. Ha ha ha. But guy, a land where there's no law will promote lawlessnes. U mean u don't lay down rules in your relationship?

Broo.. i'd advice you to mix water pia pia and indocid together, take 1 spoon in the morning and 2 at night before going to bed.


This is the best pills i can recommend for you, before this illness get to another level. but if symptoms persist, consult your Babalawo.

bennyzay u can do whatever u like with ur bf/gf ,bt coming out here written all dis 11th commandments make must of d girls fill whaoo, who train dis bobo ......

I just pity girls. They don't know that if you are in a relationship and d guy never ask u to don't do this don't do that, the relationship is bound to fail. D guy has no plan 4 u. No guy can ever tell me he hasn't told d girl he plans to marry not to do this or that. No husband can tell me he hasn't told his wife not to do this or that? Get it girls. And stop talking based on what the criticisms of other guys. I'm a guy and i know the truth. And i'm telling it. A relationship or marriage without rules will fail.

i just hope u dont end up bin forever single wit dos rules of yours.

kombats: i like ur rule die sharp guy

thank u jare

alowobaba: bennyzay u can do whatever u like with ur bf/gf ,bt coming out here written all dis 11th commandments make must of d girls fill whaoo, who train dis bobo ......

and u think i give a damn about any lady? I no send dem o. I no send anybody. I date a girl for 1month, i tell her my rules after 1month. If she can't stand. Bounce men.

kemiola89: i just hope u dont end up bin forever single wit dos rules of yours.

i'm the most caring guy u wud ever meet. But sorry to say. There's only one captain in a ship. And that's me. Me and me alone.

@op...you're so right. . . Rules are necessary in a relationship. . .except they are both deceiving each other. . .i will apply your GOLDEN rules in my next relationship. . .slimyen needs a hard guy like marsh..

Another Saddam & Ghadaffi comes to town... Guys watch out oooo
See rules!!!!!

I wouldnt like to use the word "RULES"rather a few guidelines so each party involved knows wat puts the other off.
It may come as a surprise to many, how trivial issues which were not handled or discussed about in the earlier part of the relationship could eventually lead to a breakup.

redleich: I wouldnt like to use the word "RULES"rather a few guidelines so each party involved knows wat puts the other off.
It may come as a surprise to many, how trivial issues which were not handled or discussed about in the earlier part of the relationship could eventually lead to a breakup.

Abeg tell them o! Urs na guidelines. Accepted

HA HA HA If una con marry unko

This my guy seems to be practising a dictatorship relatinship. No wonder u have an ex gf. I don't think u can see any gf that will be able to abide with this ur fragmented, rigid, incompassionate and unfriendly constitution u wrote. Check urself well. U don't need to tie her down with this ur policy. Setting up a Relatioship means showing love to each other and not a parasitic relationship. This my guy seems to be practising a dictatorship relatinship. No wonder u have an ex gf. I don't think u can see any gf that will be able to abide with this ur fragmented, rigid, incompassionate and unfriendly constitution u wrote. Check urself well. U don't need to tie her down with this ur policy. Setting up a Relatioship means showing love to each other and not a parasitic relationship.

OP I'll be super shocked if you have a girlfriend with those rubbish you wrote,no wonder it was for an Ex.

nope thats y its a relationship and not a boarding school

These rules are nothing but enslavement. Only a greedy girl will accept those terms, in which case she has her eyes on the many things she stands to benefit from u. In that case, u got to be bucksed up. If u are an average Joe, na only if u use jazz for d girl, she's not pretty or she's silly in love with u.

mobeenet: This my guy seems to be practising a dictatorship relatinship. No wonder u have an ex gf. I don't think u can see any gf that will be able to abide with this ur fragmented, rigid, incompassionate and unfriendly constitution u wrote. Check urself well. U don't need to tie her down with this ur policy. Setting up a Relatioship means showing love to each other and not a parasitic relationship. This my guy seems to be practising a dictatorship relatinship. No wonder u have an ex gf. I don't think u can see any gf that will be able to abide with this ur fragmented, rigid, incompassionate and unfriendly constitution u wrote. Check urself well. U don't need to tie her down with this ur policy. Setting up a Relatioship means showing love to each other and not a parasitic relationship.

it means u run a relationship without rules. My guy i fear for u o. U don't know that if a girl loves you, she will do anything for you? Get it. She would play by your rules. How many marriages have broken down today all simply because The man did not set the RULES during courtship e.t.c if a woman respect you, she has to proof it by respecting your rules. And by that You can easily show her how much u love her? Then she would never joke with you. But giving a girl freehand at the beginning of a relationship will only end in disaster. Learn to take the bull by the horn.

poster u forgot to add
always wash my ass when i finish defecatin
work d whole month nd submit ur salary to me....
so people can knw u r her boifriend...................... mtcheeeew only a village girl will abide by dis rule.. vilage girls nowadays sef don wise

freecocoa: OP I'll be super shocked if you have a girlfriend with those rubbish you wrote,no wonder it was for an Ex.

so u mean ur bobo has never set a rule for you in your relationship? Even God himself gave man laws to follow so as to please him. By doing that, he shows us abundance love. Get it

LOL! This your rule...

bennyraz: The key to a prosperous relationship is laying down rules & regulation. Its highly paramount especially with the Era of girls we have this days. Here are the rules i set for my Ex Gf

1. Don't nag me no matter the situation




2. Don't ever call me and ask me for credit


3. Don't ever touch my phone if i don't permit you



4. Never in any way ridicule or insult any member of my family (it might warrant a slap)

5. Don't load my phone with useless i love u text message (love no be money)

6. I look at other women's behind. Don't ever distract me from looking


7. When we are talking, you voice shouldn't overshadow my voice


8. When i call you and ask you where are you, don't ever tell me you are at somewhere


9. Don't ever ask me money for weavon, wigs, attachments, pant, bra


10. Don't ever call my name in public. Call me sweetie pie.

Guys its important to set rules in your relationship cuz nigerian girls are born stubborn. Let me hear ur rules guys!

Mcleo007: These rules are nothing but enslavement. Only a greedy girl will accept those terms, in which case she has her eyes on the many things she stands to benefit from u. In that case, u got to be bucksed up. If u are an average Joe, na only if u use jazz for d girl, she's not pretty or she's silly in love with u.

jazz GOD forbid. What is mine will be mine.

This is y i like bachelors.They to dey mouth.Wen they marry,n c marriage for wat it is,they go go mute.Wait poster till u marry,then we hear ur true confession n ur so called relationship rules.

sexyverah: poster u forgot to add
always wash my ass when i finish defecatin
work d whole month nd submit ur salary to me....
so people can knw u r her boifriend...................... mtcheeeew only a village girl will abide by dis rule.. vilage girls nowadays sef don wise

if na village girl abide by my rule i'm okay with it. If no girl abide by my rule it only shows u how lawlessness has taking control of the mind of women. Most girls want freedom, i get it. You can only get freedom with me if u play by my rules. It means you are ready to get serious with me. If not, then you aint ready for any thing. NB: i said i will only use the rule on the girl i want to marry. For the rest i.e Fling. No rule atall. We go dey deceive ourselve dey go now!

madam president: This is y i like bachelors.They to dey mouth.Wen they marry,n c marriage for wat it is,they go go mute.Wait poster till u marry,then we hear ur true confession n ur so called relationship rules.

heaven help those who help themselves. With the help of God and myself. My marriage will be prosperous and fruitful. It wouldn't be the second home of hell.

bennyraz:
so u mean ur bobo has never set a rule for you in your relationship? Even God himself gave man laws to follow so as to please him. By doing that, he shows us abundance love. Get it

Is he mad?why would he even think of such in the first place?am i his maid or his partner? He's sensible enough to know its a relationship and not dictatorship.

So no guy as set rules/guidelines in their relationship in the whole of NL? No wonder people keep complaining about heart-breaks, misbehavior of their spouses in the romance section So na only me get rules ni? Na wa o! Guys im waiting to read your own rules o. Lets learn from each other.

hey is it a military thing? even my officer bf never gave such rules. rules shld be more like "no pinging when we r together, dnt let others kno whn we r quarreling, lets settle issues b4 they blow up, etc, blah blah".

its not by force. guys are also very stubborn and need rules even more.

@ poster.
somehow l find d rules funny.
but beliv me, if l were not married, den l wuld go 4 guys like u, if n only if
it means wat u dont want me 2 do 2 u, den dont try it with me.
am use to takin care of mysef cus my mum was d person wu saw 6 of us thru
despite having a daddy, so its part of me 2 takia of my needs n even dat of my family.
but if ur arse is broke, den dont ask me 4 a dime.
its cool.

It's good to be yourself & don't try to be somebody else

Selfish rules. Mtchewww!

Ima Ima: hey is it a military thing? even my officer bf never gave such rules. rules shld be more like "no pinging when we r together, dnt let others kno whn we r quarreling, lets settle issues b4 they blow up, etc, blah blah".

its not by force. guys are also very stubborn and need rules even more.

LOL. atleast there's a rule in place