I am not so sure if you could label it as friends with benefit, because we dont have sex. However, we flirt a lot, kiss and he sleeps over once in a while. I am not looking for a relationship and neither is he (so he says). The problem is that, sometimes i wonder why he "screws" his face when ever i speak to other boys on the phone. When i ask him about it he says "nothing" and quickly changes topic. In addition, i dont understand why he thinks he has to lie about who hes with (girls), or where he was, when i dont really give a DAMN. For instance, i know the girl he likes, because we had a chat about that and i even offered to help hook them up Now, he says that he doesnt like her anymore but when she calls him, he tells me that itwas his sister calling, even though i didnt ask him. Or he says that he is going to play basketball with his friends, when in fact he is with her. I just dont understand why he feels he has to lie to me, when there is no need.

what do u guys think about this? Doesnt he get the message that we are just friends?? i hope this story makes sense

Babe, get real. The guy doesn't think u are "just friends". He wants mo' but he's either foolin' himself that he's in control of his emotions or he's just too chicken to ask for it (he probably thinks he aint got a chance - considering the other guys u gist with on the phone)

What should u do? Simple. Be kind to a brova. If u really don't want to go further, cut him loose now. Completely. He can't handle the "just friends" thingy and you'll only hurt him more by holding on. However, if u think u like him enuff, c'mon__ Give the brova a chance, please?

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r u sure u can handle the truth? maybe they lie cuz they care bout u. or mayb they just enjoy lying.or maybe, damn, am i still on this??

straight!!!!!
he wants more than friendship
but he is too shy to admit or ask ??

Babble fables, common baby you kiss you flirt you, and you still think all you are doing is just been good friends. Darn another liar. Why cant you come to the open and say you actually like this guy but he doesn't give you attention. Another story!

No he doesn't get the message yet.

Besides, I think your man has a lot of 'growing up' to do.

And what do you even think?

When you guys 'flirt a lot', when he enjoys kisses and cuddlings from you?

Abeg una dey fool una selves

its obvious u both know what u want,
just get it down

pretend and act like u just don't care. . act like u don't know that he's lying.
that will make him green with jealousy and in no time, he'll open up to u and tell u exactly how he feels.