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intimate Urge Deminished After Marriagee by chagga(m): 9:37pm On Apr 12, 2012
Have been married for a about 5 months now and have been finding it hard to make love to my wife cause the urge is not even there. Before we got married , the reverse has been the case . I have been really sexually active even with my wife. I just dont know what's happening to me its ruining my marriage and something needs to be done fast
Re: intimate Urge Deminished After Marriagee by Boyloaf(m): 11:22pm On Apr 12, 2012
@op, A̶̲̥̅̊M̶̲̥̅ nt married. Sowie i cnt help U̶̲̥̅̊. @killz U̶̲̥̅̊ need τ̅☺ grow up bro. Times aя̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ changin.
Re: intimate Urge Deminished After Marriagee by Nobody: 12:10am On Apr 13, 2012
Could be from the following reasons:
Do you feel emotionally distant from your wife?
Do you feel like a failure in a way? (For guys, sexual performance is much tied to ego and if you are not feeling good about yourself, it will definitely show up in your approach to s3xual intimacy with your wife)
Are you overworked or under a lot of stress?
Are you currently using any drug that affects your testosterone level?
Increased involvement with Indecency. (books, phone services, movies, strip club, scoping women out and fantasizing about them (voyeurism))
Do you constantly feel criticized or dominated by your wife?
@op, i hope you guys talk about this, the worst thing you can do is shut her out!

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Re: intimate Urge Deminished After Marriagee by odabi4us: 12:50am On Apr 13, 2012
Bro,nothing is wrong with you.it is natural.The more you stay with a lady,the more your libido for that particular lady diminishes.
if you want to put it to test,try another lady,you will notice that your libido for such lady would be like "wildfire".
Stylishly avoid her;you will be surprised she will be very attractive to you after sometime.
Alternatively,take more of herbs that work for you know,you should understand what i am trying to say.
I can also recommend you to someone if you don't mind.
Good-luck!!!

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Re: intimate Urge Deminished After Marriagee by chagga(m): 7:08am On Apr 13, 2012
odabi4us: Bro,nothing is wrong with you.it is natural.The more you stay with a lady,the more your libido for that particular lady diminishes.
if you want to put it to test,try another lady,you will notice that your libido for such lady would be like "wildfire".
Stylishly avoid her;you will be surprised she will be very attractive to you after sometime.
Alternatively,take more of herbs that work for you know,you should understand what i am trying to say.
I can also recommend you to someone if you don't mind.
Good-luck!!!
won't. Mind and thanks a million
Re: intimate Urge Deminished After Marriagee by ujchief(m): 8:06am On Apr 13, 2012
If it worked for 190 and born2fck, it will work for u, try Adam's desire!
Re: intimate Urge Deminished After Marriagee by dkings101(m): 8:26am On Apr 13, 2012
chagga: Have been married for a about 5 months now and have been finding it hard to make love to my wife cause the urge is not even there. Before we got married , the reverse has been the case . I have been really sexually active even with my wife. I just dont know what's happening to me its ruining my marriage and something needs to be done fast

I understand how you feel man. Sometimes also I feel the same when am depressed. My sexual status becomes inactive. No impulse at all. Sometime, It makes me mad and unmanly and that feel also diminish ur chance of making ur joysticks erect. To gather up that confidence again, I would advice you to take some herbal medication. It is a ghanian bitters called Asheitu Adams bitter and Asheitu Energy Vitality. It would remove all obstacle around ur waist hehehe jedi jedi I mean and some other things sha. U would experience strong and hard erect in the morning. So wen u do, you can ML with ur wife. This wuld burst your confidence. You can also buy this supplement call VeinErect. You can get it from any pharmacy. It would also help. All these I mention to you is what I take every day to vitalise me and keep me update cos I hate the feeling for not able to perform.
Re: intimate Urge Deminished After Marriagee by dkings101(m): 8:34am On Apr 13, 2012
ujchief: If it worked for 190 and born2fck, it will work for u, try Adam's desire!

I did try the adam's desire but no effect. OP I would advice you do as I as said. Try using those herb at least it would do you no arm at all. Each is sold for N500 or N450. It is Ghana herb and more active than our own YoYo Bitters. Try it and see..

As for the supplement, it contains L-argnine and Maca. L-arginine is a supplement that help in the circulation of blood to the penile region and Maca is a south america herb that also aid in strong Attention as well.
Re: intimate Urge Deminished After Marriagee by dkings101(m): 8:36am On Apr 13, 2012
U can try the Adam's desire cos diff body...diff reaction. U can take Adam's desire with Vein Erect after meal in the morning and herb at night...believe u, u would be charge for molest. Lol
Re: intimate Urge Deminished After Marriagee by Mavor: 8:37am On Apr 13, 2012
Too much sugar? Change your diet.
Re: intimate Urge Deminished After Marriagee by tiniyata(m): 8:43am On Apr 13, 2012
@ OP u and ur wife should take some time off work and go on a vacation
Re: intimate Urge Deminished After Marriagee by reddinton(f): 11:48am On Apr 13, 2012
odabi4us: Bro,nothing is wrong with you.it is natural.The more you stay with a lady,the more your libido for that particular lady diminishes.
if you want to put it to test,try another lady,you will notice that your libido for such lady would be like "wildfire".
Stylishly avoid her;you will be surprised she will be very attractive to you after sometime.
Alternatively,take more of herbs that work for you know,you should understand what i am trying to say.
I can also recommend you to someone if you don't mind.
Good-luck!!!


but i think something is wrong somewhere, cos u dont get feed up of your wife just after 5 Months!!!!!!!, so are u advising him to start jumping from one lade to another even as a married man?
Re: intimate Urge Deminished After Marriagee by teemy(m): 12:56pm On Apr 13, 2012
chagga: Have been married for a about 5 months now and have been finding it hard to make love to my wife cause the urge is not even there. Before we got married , the reverse has been the case . I have been really sexually active even with my wife. I just dont know what's happening to me its ruining my marriage and something needs to be done fast

I noticed you did not say 'not able to get it up' which seems to be what most are diagnosing here but rather I guess the attraction to do so Reproduce.

Firstly I would recommend going back to the drawing board and get right those things that got her body desirable to you in the first place. All those things you appreciated in her in the first place. The togetherness should be revisited while not thinking about sex or the stress that is generating in your body at the moment. By the time the stress wanes away and you appreciate your wife as a person and friend you once cared to always be with, your 'John Thomas' is ssoon to start receiving signals and direction again.

However, discard the advice of friend that might tell you to find solace in the arms of other girl. Just think about a lifetime of happiness together you might end up destroying.

Finally, thrusting is not the only part of love making is it? Get the whole thing right and you will have a fulfilled sexual life as well for your wifey and yourself (She comes first). Cheers
Re: intimate Urge Deminished After Marriagee by chagga(m): 3:54pm On Apr 13, 2012
dkings101:



I understand ho
w you feel man. Sometimes also I feel the same when am depressed. My sexual status become
s inactive. No impulse at all. Sometime, It makes me mad and unmanly and that feel also diminish ur chance of making ur joysticks erect. To gather up that confidence again, I would advice you to take some herbal medication. It is a ghanian bitters called Asheitu Adams bitter and Asheitu Energy Vitality. It would remove all obstacle around ur waist hehehe jedi jedi I mean and some other things sha. U would experience strong and hard erect in the morning. So wen u do, you can ML with ur wife. This wuld burst your confidence. You can also buy this supplement call VeinErect. You can get it from any pharmacy. It would also help. All these I mention t
o you is what I take every day to vitalise me and keep me update cos I hate the feeling for not able to perform.
Thanks bro that was really helpful
Re: intimate Urge Deminished After Marriagee by dkings101(m): 4:22pm On Apr 13, 2012
chagga: Thanks bro that was really helpful

You are welcome. The Asheitu Adam's Bitter and Asheitu Energy vitality sometimes can be hard to come by. You don't see it in pharmacy (reason unknown). You only get to see Yoyo and Swedish bitters. But if you come by this Asheitu, it really work. You would experience your manliness again. Where I buy it is around Ikotun, Lagos (You see ppl hawking it on crates) or you can see them hawking it in traffic jam around Lagos Island. Try VeinErect and adam's desire. Have you tried taken Alomo Bitters (Original) mixed with Climax energy drink or power horse. It can also boost your manliness.

It's hard to relax yourself, thinking "Yes, I can perform" cos the anxiety also would not make you stand. Just relax bro. Take this herb and the only way to gain back your sexual confidence is if you notice strong Attention in the middle of the nite or before morning (after taking the herb as prescribed) just make love with ur wify. That way u can gain ur confidence again.

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Re: intimate Urge Deminished After Marriagee by adino(m): 3:52pm On Nov 19, 2012
@ All
Dkings101 is very right. Aishetu bitters and energy booster are life savers. You can always get them at Tafawa Balewa Square (TBS) in Lagos Island. Some locals do sell it in makeshift stores around there. But, the one i find difficult to get is vein erect.

@ dkings101
Where exactly did you get Vein Erect and for how much. Very important, I want your response A.S.A.p please.

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