Please imagine if it was you or your
brother or your friend.
Obi 28 has been married to Amy
26 (a banker) for 3 and half years
now, Amy keeps telling Obi she is
not ready for children and wants to
focus on her career. On the other
hand Obi's parents are on his neck
to provide them a grand child
before they die, having had him
( Obi) in very late in life. Gossips
are already saying maybe Obi is
impotent, now if you are in Obi's
shoes what would u do? Take
another wife or what?


NB: There is a poll on this topic...

Impregnate her.... If she is on pills, change it wit a harmless med witout ha knowledge, u knw, lyk Carlos of desperate housewives did.... I knw its deceptive but den, extreme measures r needed 4 difficult cases

Bring in anoda woman.
Obi: Amy meet my newly found love, she agreed to be a second wife n a mother. Do u want her 2 stay or we sign a baby agreement now?
Amy:..............
Her reaction would determine d next step/question/statement.

(pregnancy is not a crime in d banking industry)

^^Hmmm! Is that the solution?

Nigerian girls/woman again. They never cease to amaze me. If the husband now impregnates anoda woman, she will cry blue murder. The husband should use anoda girl/woman to 'flash' her then she will sit up.

I see

Make the man arrange one pretty woman and introduce to his house as a second wife to be and ready to be a mother . Let me not know weather she wont sit up . Nonsense .

^^ is that the solution?

In †ЂΞ first place, i will settle such issues out b4 goin τ̅☺ †ЂΞ alta. I dnt want woman trouble.

^^^ But u are already married!!

bank my foot. have you ever heard the word ''induced retirement''?

pato405: bank my foot. have you ever heard the word ''induced retirement''?

What kind of retirement is that?

Dialogue is the answer. He has to appeal to his wife or stand by her decision

Odunnu: Dialogue is the answer. He has to appeal to his wife or stand by her decision

Good one! @Odunu

Odunnu: Dialogue is the answer. He has to appeal to his wife or stand by her decision

Did you just say appeal to his wife who is damn resolute that she places her career above her family and normal Nigerian reasoning? If they were experiencing delays I would understand not just her taking a selfish decision to suite her intention and not her present family.

When you get married to a woman you love, respect and appreciate, appealing to her judgement/decision will come naturally.
You dont get a real woman to rescind her decision thru force, threats and pride.

Odunnu: When you get married to a woman you love, respect and appreciate, appealing to her judgement/decision will come naturally.
You dont get a real woman to rescind her decision thru force, threats and pride.

today's woman. they've read so much book. they talk of ''equal rights'', 'equal opporunity', 'marginalisation' e.t.c too many grammar. she wants dialogue and negotiation before submission. you be boko-haram?

just can't come to terms with all these supercilious overweening feminist propagandist in the name of civilisation. whatever happened to putting your hubby and family interest first? must it alwayz be about money? one would ideally under sane circumstances expect the woman to drop such a job like hot plate without being told unless her hubby advises otherwise. but HELL NO! today's woman na pundit, she pontificates about all issues. na over-sabi wife wey fit call her husband 'brother' and expect him to answer her 'yes madam'

which kin wahala b dis sef?

Dondav:
What kind of retirement is that?

ok. as the word suggests:

induced = forced

solution: practically 'force' her to drop that job o! else she'll have only two options to chose from

(A)Family & happiness

(B)job & money at the detriment of the hapiness & luv that keeps a home.

^^ that's a tough one!

pato405:


ok. as the word suggests:

induced = forced

solution: practically 'force' her to drop that job o! else she'll have only two options to chose from

(A)Family & happiness

(B)job & money at the detriment of the hapiness & luv that keeps a home.

she is a career woman not a house wife, for pete's sake!!!. Surely, you knew that before marrying her, it's better you dialogue with her and come to an understanding maturely.

Yah, use another girl flash her, she will surely sit up....

What kind of woman would put her career above Family?
There are limits to some Bullsh1t.

Floxyluv: she is a career woman not a house wife, for pete's sake!!!. Surely, you knew that before marrying her, it's better you dialogue with her and come to an understanding maturely.

career ma foot. career koor. carrier nii

perharps the lady is the one fending for the family

The best solution to me is dialogue.
The thing most people don't get is it's one thing to have a baby, its another to raise the child.

Making a point @A Zed!!!

A-ZeD:
The best solution to me is dialogue.
The thing most people don't get is it's one thing to have a baby, its another to raise the child.

Their opinion differs...!!