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MYOMY
I want you to take note that relationship with persons of the oposite sex most time leads to intimacy and sex.
You may have a good intention as first but as time goes on you friendship with the guy will become stronger and may draw you two closer and will eventually lead to sexual intimacy.

If you want a friend and not to satisfy your sexual desires if any, you may want to pick a female friend instead.
Wish you all The best.

hum nice replies

divorce the mfucker

I don't agree with Ladebi, Ladies as close friends to her will simply back-bite her in the end, Guys generally do a better job at keeping the kind of friendship she is looking for, it's just that 9ja guys don't fall into her category!!

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i tink u shld go and repair ur home while u also luk up 2 God 2 change d situation.going for a male friend/sex partner is not d solution. thats my take on it anyway.cheers

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i do rather advised that u try and brace up maybe change ur wardrope, get smart and neat and make urself sexier i think ur husband will come back to u, having a male friend and thinking u wont flirt with him is a great lie, so since u wanna remain chaste better forget about male friend as they will do u no good.

This post has been on for more than a year. I guess you would have received numerous pieces of advice (some good, some bad, yet others very bad). You may have also sorted this challenge out by now, or even the problem may have passed just like everything will eventually pass away with time. For the benefit of those who may have such challenges at the moment, my suggestion is that they take heart. Review your relationship and work things out if you can. The Lord is your strength. It is all about relationships.

What is this world turning into?
I don't want to believe that all these guys droping numbers and mail id's are actually willing to get it on with a married woman.
look at that one that looks like a zoo escapee even posting his pic

@poster
go and fix ur man right,the possibilities of getting someone worse than ur hubby here is 95%

To the original poster:

This is an old thread but let me say one thing.  I was once in your situation and my husband was shamelessly carrying on an affair.  I was a born again Christian wife who withheld nothing from her husband.  I submitted to him and attended all his needs as I was aware of them.  He did not want that type of life.  He found another lady and wanted the good wife at home and the hell cat in the street.  I fasted and prayed for 1 year and God gave me a friend, a female friend, who was going through a similar situation.  We studied the bible together, sought the face of God together and were one another's shoulder to cry on.  You know what, neither marriage survived.  She has remarried a wonderful man and is very happy.  Her former husband is a wreck.  My marriage ended in divorce as well and I prospered spiritually and physically.  My exhusband married the woman he had an affair with and had 2 children.  Well, the lady got on cocaine and has had numerous affairs in their marriage.  My exhusband is reaping what he sowed.

I did not discuss the marriage closely with other men.  There were plenty of men interested in me.  One pursued me diligently but I could never respond favorably to him because I was a married lady.  I would tell the Lord all the time:  "God, if I did not enter this marriage according to your will and if I was in error, please at least let me leave it as you would have me leave."  My husband left me.  I was freed from my bondage.  God truly blessed my life for all the hurt and pain.  Do not curse yourself.  Your desire to have a male friend is understandable.  You want the affirmation of a man because your husband has withheld it from you.  But, do not be deceived!  You are setting the stage for you to act out your true desires.  You want to be loved.  There is no shame in that but do not break your marriage vows, and do not make life convenient for it to "just happen."

Seek Godly wisdom.  God will not fail you.  Pray and ask God to forgive your husband, forgive the other women, and to forgive yourself.  I prayed all the time whenever the affair came across my mind for forgiveness to us all, but most of all I prayed that I not be bitter after it because I have seen so many women ruined by bitterness.  I hope this season has passed u by now, but if it has not, please consider my words.  And if there are any other similarly situated men or women, please do likewise.  It is so much better to try to do right in the beginning than to repent in the end.

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Hi myomy
How are you today? hope cool. Hmm that was a sad story to hear, but you just have to take things with your husband and also keep on praying, if you have faith in the LORD everything will come back the way it was.
Well if you feel like talking, here is my Email ID letstalk02@yahoo.com , i will be waiting to hear from you.
cheers

Nawa for all these idiots wey still dey apply
Una no get sense at all

My dear, I was in ur shoes. I tot u were telling my story. Ppl won't understand. It's difficult for them to understand dat u didn't really do anything wrong. It's difficult for them to understand that all u want is companionship not sex. I found a male friend. Funny, online. He fulfilled all my fantasies, companionship, advice even romance. Then he fell in love and started asking for more. That is wat will ultimately happen. If u get a male friend, he mite b undemanding initially but ultimately, he'll ask for sex. You mite have fallen in love too and u mite give in to him so as not to loose him.

Can u live wit the shame of adultery if caught? Can u live wit the moral burden, guilty conscience if uncaught? Honey, adultery is a loose loose situation.

Ur case is less complicated. No issue for him. Even if u have for him, pls don't believe d crap about sticking it out for the kids. My mum stuck it out for us and she died a violent death. I'm sure if she's left when it was soo rough I'll probably still have a mother. Even d bible supports you leaving him on grounds of adultery. If u r waiting on "marriage is for better or worse till death do us part" I'm sure it'll be sooner rather than later and believe it, it's going to be ur death (God forbid) that will part you.

Most of these NL are unmarried. So it's easy to sermonize. Let them come back 5 years into their marriage(hopefully to a man like him)and preach.

My dear, it is insane and unhealthy to be married and be seeking companionship outside. U have ur life don't throw it down d drain. Leave d idiot and start a new life. Dat is wat I did.

my sister, well i think you need God intervention in this case. Only God can direct the path of a man in life so be prayerful and still find out what u ve done wrong. For more personal counselling, Visit The Redeemed Christian Church Of God Miracle Center, Ikosi Ketu. Ask of the pastor and explain your predicament with him. God will see u through this hard time.

All u need is sepration. Looking for anther male friend is searching for unforseen danger.