Myomy,

You have heard it all from Bukie. You don't need more sermons than that. I am married so I can tell you what it means. I have my own personal experience to share with you if you would listen but probably not in the open.
I love my wife and she loves me too so that makes it a bit different but,

I can be a friend but I probably would not tell you more than what you have heard here. I know how it feels but most people won't understand. He is no good for you.

Call me on 08032006044 or let me have your no and I can call so we could talk more.

Nice day

I am a Christian and a faithful woman who unfortunately got married to a womaniser.

This is the motivational factor for my reply to this your post.
I like to ask:
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If you can not answer many of this questions openly, you can respond to korededavid@yahoo.com. You are heading towards divorce and I think you need to take up your place in your family.

Fear not Peace will come to your family again.

Shalom!

Myomy,

Please visit this site to educate yourself more. God bless.

http://beyondaffairs.com/articles/preventing_affairs.htm

Nice day

hello, my name is andrey,i will like to say married is for better for worst and good 4 bad , till death do you part, i don't mind being your friend cos they say a friend in need is a friend indeed, needing a friend is not a crime , about us having some chat getting to know each other better miss you sound depressed but i don't want take adav of you situuation miss . fill free to talk to me andrey no: 07032374697 or email me on andreyphil222@yahoo.comi will be glad hearing from you miss, i think i understand you cos i have a mother too thanks . bye love to hear from you, miss

i am Prince Adeboye and reside in lagos, mailto:adeboyefernandez@yahoo.com.

@okpor123 do u really need to post ur pic??

Its not a crime to meet a friend whether married or not.So,a friend is someone u can talk to in regardless of the gender.So its a free world and nice to meet new and friends u can talk to any time.

fellybabe:

@okpor123    do u really need to post ur pic??

thank you. WISDOM

MrCrackles:

Nawa for all these idiots wey still dey apply
Una no get sense at all

U ARE FUNNY MAN

Bukie:

My dear, I was in ur shoes. I tot u were telling my story. people won't understand. It's  difficult for them to understand that u didn't really do anything wrong. It's  difficult for them to understand that all u want is companionship not sex. I found a male friend. Funny, online. He fulfilled all my fantasies, companionship, advice even romance. Then he fell in love and started asking for more. That is what will ultimately happen. If u get a male friend, he mite b undemanding initially but ultimately, he'll ask for sex. You mite have fallen in love too and u mite give in to him so as not to loose him.

Can u live wit the shame of adultery if caught? Can u live wit the moral burden, guilty conscience if uncaught? Honey, adultery is a loose loose situation.

Ur case is less complicated. No issue for him. Even if u have for him, please don't believe d crap about sticking it out for the kids. My mum stuck it out for us and she died a violent death. I'm sure if she's left when it was soo rough I'll probably still have a mother. Even d bible supports you leaving him on grounds of adultery. If u r waiting on "marriage is for better or worse till death do us part" I'm sure it'll be sooner rather than later and believe it, it's  going to be ur death (God forbid) that will part you.

Most of these NL are unmarried. So it's  easy to sermonize. Let them come back 5 years into their marriage(hopefully to a man like him)and preach.

My dear, it is insane and unhealthy to be married and be seeking companionship outside. U have ur life don't throw it down d drain. Leave d idiot and start a new life. that is what I did.

sometime i wonder why bad things happen to good people.  good to know there are people like you around here. thanks

newel:

Hi,

I'm not a specialist in counselling but I really understand you. But I could help if you're willing to talk. Send me a text on 08023049863 or niyi_fat@yahoo.co.uk. It is well my sista.

i know this is an old thread. do some of you guys know the pain you cause people like this woman and how to respect her feelings?  i have the feelings some of you think she is fair game as if the pain caused earlier is not enough for one person.  you all want to put your head into her life and mess her more than she is. God have mercy on us all

people are actually posting their CV's here! Dudes, gone are the days of internet dating.

Bukie:

My dear, I was in ur shoes. I tot u were telling my story. people won't understand. It's difficult for them to understand that u didn't really do anything wrong. It's difficult for them to understand that all u want is companionship not sex. I found a male friend. Funny, online. He fulfilled all my fantasies, companionship, advice even romance. Then he fell in love and started asking for more. That is what will ultimately happen. If u get a male friend, he mite b undemanding initially but ultimately, he'll ask for sex. You mite have fallen in love too and u mite give in to him so as not to loose him.

Can u live wit the shame of adultery if caught? Can u live wit the moral burden, guilty conscience if uncaught? Honey, adultery is a loose loose situation.

Ur case is less complicated. No issue for him. Even if u have for him, please don't believe d crap about sticking it out for the kids. My mum stuck it out for us and she died a violent death. I'm sure if she's left when it was soo rough I'll probably still have a mother. Even d bible supports you leaving him on grounds of adultery. If u r waiting on "marriage is for better or worse till death do us part" I'm sure it'll be sooner rather than later and believe it, it's going to be ur death (God forbid) that will part you.

Most of these NL are unmarried. So it's easy to sermonize. Let them come back 5 years into their marriage(hopefully to a man like him)and preach.

My dear, it is insane and unhealthy to be married and be seeking companionship outside. U have ur life don't throw it down d drain. Leave d idiot and start a new life. that is what I did.

Thanks Bukie for being honest , u said half of my mind!

@ poster - U dont need a man at this time
U need your friends, U need prayers, U need God
I hate divorce, but u can give the man some space if need be
God does not want us to be unhappy 4 life!!!

i have 2 ponder dis guess on my pillow nd get back, i will be back 2morrow ryt

are u a scam

No body will crusify u for having a friend, but u must have to be careful. Ur demand could be a solution 2 ur problem. When next drop ur contact. For more info reach me via chukschristain@yahoo.com 08033545528 chuks from PH.
Gud luck,

@poster, i went thru yo profile but i don't even get yo age there,
So its possible i might be a lil too young for ya.
But then we all go tastes,
Check out mine on my profile right and see if alot could be desired from me

Chao!!!!!!

johnnygan:

@poster, i went through yo profile but i don't even get yo age there,
So its possible i might be a little too young for ya.
But then we all go tastes,
Check out mine on my profile right and see if alot could be desired from me

Chao!!!!!!

really

cal me 07037236695

U wan commit adultery?

ohh sorry its very sad isn't it? but my advice is dat u should try for divorce and start a new life all over again. i am single and i will like to know u may be i can change ur world. a world is a trial,bless.

MY name is SUNDAY i live in uk in liverpool am a business man am definitely at a point in my life where I am ready to settle down and nurture true love and potentially start a family with the right person. , I understand that the internet is not really the place for finding true love however I think that if two people looking for the same thing happen to find each other from the internet then it was meant to be.I honestly believe that you and I both see things the same way from what i read and could possibly be what the other is looking for for a mate, given half the chance. What i want is a mate, one that with whom i can do the things that life has to offer and get the most out of it. One that will be there in good times and bad. I am looking for a woman that i can trust with anything and not be afraid of being able to tell anything to.like , i am a one man woman and a plain spoken man . I say whats on my mind, usually with a great deal of tact, and i usually like to sit back and watch other people before i decide on a course of action on any given issue, You seem to have nothing unusual about you except for the fact that you are halfway round the world to me at the moment.you can add me to this ID nicecares01@yahoo.com hope to hear from you soon, Sunday.

Anyway are u really sure that this is what you want if so i will like to be of help to you just write to su4sparrow@yahoo.com or simply call 07031321663. just give it a trial cos it will work out perfectly well good luck

hello myomy, i really feel for you, its so dis hearten how men treats their wifes, they seem to make you believe you are the best when you are courting but after marriage, they turn cameleon, i still believe he does not deserve you one bit, if not he would hav been treating you yu well and i still believe you really hav to put everthing into prayer too, well i can be yur harmless friend, if you need someone to talk to, to cheer you up, then you have me, i m rex and my number is 08037257720, take care and remain bless

good day ma if need a fried mail me or call my no on 07031651693 my email is nattysexydaby@rocketmail.com i wil be waiting to hear frm soon good day

MrCrackles:

Topic

Dont you have a gateman or a driver?

you can take the place if you want to

i feel your pain. my mum went through something simila from my dad. it can be really painful. but you need to look up to God, ur kids and get yourself busy with profitable ventures. you must give him reasons to start running after you like he once did. i could sense your frustration but opting out would not be your best belt. show him unconditional love and do not expect him to appreciate it immediately. remember, u lost him to "them" so you need to get him back through patience and love. Do not quit because am sure you will no doubt regret if you do. my mum's moment of patience lasted 10 years but today she is happy and doing great. she nurturd us with love and God rewarded her pains by giving us good jobs. and guess what, the man is back! unusually humble and loving. kill loneliness with understanding and patience. i can be reached on this line:08062612341.

i'll advice u keep praying cos u dnt need any male companion, wit time he will get back 2 his senses
or maybe u sit him down and try to know if u ve wrong him in any way, wit dis i believe he will change nd come back to you . A married man will want to date u especially if u're beautiful bt God fobid if anything should happen along side u know u will be in hot soup and ur husband will laugh at u. a man can marry as much as he want but it nt in line for a woman to have more than one husband so the lord is ur strength.

hi dearie ,
I feel your pains but remember when u say companionship it's just the begining of many things to follow and eventually ends up in a nasty and shameful thing that u cant hold up ur head high .
my candid advised to u is to turn to God, who is your strength in times like this. never get tired of getting down on ur knees and pray ! pray !! pray !!!

madam am here for you any time any where my mail add, abugy2k@yahoo.com

You guys are really wicked

She needs a friend for FRIEND sake!

or am I wrong myomy?

The moment you begin to see what becomes unusual in ur matrimonial home either as a man or as a woman, the best thing is to think and pray,cos it is 99.9% possible that there could be some character either of you exhibits which no third party can resolve better than yourself and God. Pls don't listen to those port bellied men that claimed to understood ur predicament cos they will add salt to injury.It is not worth the risk you are about taken ok. Don't hate yourself that much ok and i would like also to recommend novel reading cos i have not seen good companionship as a good novel. Good luck.God loves You!

humm let me as personally how far have u gone?, have u gotten anybody and how has it been i really want to know, u can call me.