I notice dat men find it difficult to allow[b][/b] their g/f or wife to answer their cal...if they are nt around.....each time the lady did dat,there is quarels

Lailai..wetin concern her concern my fone......she can neva touch my fone..!

god forbi it wud cause wahala.

Kill me first

Hmmmmm @comnt

Na wa o!

I don't mind. Before she becomes my GF, i must be comfortable telling EVERYTHING.

See them

awon alagbere

We aint married yet but what's de big deal?she can pick my calls and read my sms and vice versa

GF --- NOPE

Wife --- YUP!

A-ZeD:
I don't mind. Before she becomes my GF, i must be comfortable telling EVERYTHING.

dat's good of u,keep it up

mikeywise: We aint married yet but what's de big deal?she can pick my calls and read my sms and vice versa

thanks jare

Cheg-goon:
Lailai..wetin concern her concern my fone......she can neva touch my fone..!

That means you are hiding something from her......

By deir comnt u shal kno dem!

Sijo01: By deir comnt u shal kno dem!

Abi oo

¶ was brought up τ̅o respect people's privacy whoever they may be. ¶ am nt use τ̅o answerin calls for people. ¶ dnt ǰUsτ like it. ¶ will nt pick her calls ₪O mata who Is callin, she shudnt tink of pickin mine also. BUT text msg Is a different ball game all togeda. My gf can read my text if she wants τ̅o, but for ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥, ¶ still will nt bother myself wit her text msgs.

Gf? I won't stop her from reading messages on my phone. But not picking my calls. I won't even think to read hers.

yommyismine: I notice dat men find it difficult to allow[b][/b] their g/f or wife to answer their cal...if they are nt around.....each time the lady did dat,there is quarels

That would be encroaching on my privacy. There was a time i got an inkling that my gf was cheating, though an ipse dixit and state without proof. I was holding her fone when a txt message got in. I never read it coz my conscience won't allow me...SO it's totally wrong to do that...

djeezy: That would be encroaching on my privacy. There was a time i got an inkling that my gf was cheating, though an ipse dixit and state without proof. I was holding her fone when a txt message got in. I never read it coz my conscience won't allow me...SO it's totally wrong to do that...

U dnt trust urself

yommyismine: U dnt trust urself

How do you mean? Elucidate pls.

Well I know its may not be bad for a gf to pick my calls but I don't feel its right considering we are still dating and learning about each other.
When we get to the engagement stage she can do whateva she likes with the phone and tell me (cus I don't want her messing up with business for me esp *female clients*) when we married she can even be my pa and handle all calls n messages don't care.
My 1 kobo

It is about respecting each other's privacy.

If you don't trust your partner then you need not to be in a relationship with your partner. Real talk.

You see some incriminating evidence then what? It won't change what he or she will or wants to do

I'm a private person when it comes to my phone. No one is privy to it except me. My wife can't & shouldn't pick my calls or read my messages. That's not cool. There are certain things that you might want to keep from her. And that's not other females o! But some other sensitive stuff.

omobadan: I'm a private person when it comes to my phone. No one is privy to it except me. My wife can't & shouldn't pick my calls or read my messages. That's not cool. There are certain things that you might want to keep from her. And that's not other females o! But some other sensitive stuff.

ok....u ve point here.

This is the reason why I always believe that some people are not ripe enough to be in a relation, but first we need to define something here...what type of relationship are we talking about? Is it a serious relationship or you are just catching fun with the folks, if you have both define and agreed that it will leads to nowhere at the initial stage then i think it not a good to pick eachothers call, but if he or she is someone you want to settle down with then there is nothing bad in picking eachothers call except if you have a crocoach in your cupdoard, I notice some people talking of privacy see the truth is that in this kind of situation privacy does not set in.. She's your partner for know reason must you hide anything away from each other....any relationship that lacks this principle is either don't trust eachother or someone is cheating. I can't date a girl that won't or I have access to her phone.

BolaBankole: This is the reason why I always believe that some people are not ripe enough to be in a relation, but first we need to define something here...what type of relationship are we talking about? Is it a serious relationship or you are just catching fun with the folks, if you have both define and agreed that it will leads to nowhere at the initial stage then i think it not a good to pick eachothers call, but if he or she is someone you want to settle down with then there is nothing bad in picking eachothers call except if you have a crocoach in your cupdoard, I notice some people talking of privacy see the truth is that in this kind of situation privacy does not set in.. She's your partner for know reason must you hide anything away from each other....any relationship that lacks this principle is either don't trust eachother or someone is cheating. I can't date a girl that won't or I have access to her phone.

What of ur Bank account?..lolzzzzz

Of course She can can pick and read my txt mssg

omobadan: I'm a private person when it comes to my phone. No one is privy to it except me. My wife can't & shouldn't pick my calls or read my messages. That's not cool. There are certain things that you might want to keep from her. And that's not other females o! But some other sensitive stuff.

I disagree wif U...Keeping a sensitive stuff on phone is not a good idea even if you gonna keep such thing on phone, try and cr8t a folder for it and lock it with a password and if Ur phone cant do dat...Plz Ur brain is der or somweher private more dan Phone

@richy:
Of course She can can pick and read my txt mssgI disagree wif U...Keeping a sensitive stuff on phone is not a good idea even if you gonna keep such thing on phone, try and cr8t a folder for it and lock it with a password and if Ur phone cant do dat...Plz use Ur brain is der or somweher private more dan Phone

Well what's the point of hiding stuff when you can just set boundaries from the get go? Setting passwords is akin to setting boundaries. And oh, if ou want your phone to be private then your gf should respect that.