lordmickey: Tellin a man not to cheat s like askin c dog not to bite or not to eat bone. Its almost impossible. Its takes d grace of God 4 a man to b faithful to his wife n remember a man does not ve to physicaly cheat on his wife. Just havin d tot of havin intimacy wit a random lady, he has committee adultery or fornication. GOD plays a large role in this aspect

nene1: Ok, well we have always heard about how a woman should try to do things to KEEP her man. But I wonder is it just people trying to put the blame on the woman?

To the men, I want honest answers. Say your wife kept her appearance, cooks you good meals, is good in intimacy, and overall treats you well, would that prevent you from cheating? What I don't understand is why men keep giving the excuse that they are just polygamous by nature. If you feel sexual urges, why not just go to your wife instead of another woman? All women have the same body part down there (sorry to be so blunt) so it doesn't make sense to me why they would want it from a different woman? Why do they always want a new piece of arse? It seems really silly to me. Is it worth risking your marriage over a few minutess of pleasure that you can also get from your wife? Also with all these STDs out there, it is not worth it. I don't really understand the mindset of cheaters. If you really cannot work it out and your wife is not satisfying you, why not divorce her and let her go in peace and you can go after someone you feel is making you happy. I feel like there is no excuse to cheat. You shouldn't put yourself in the position where you would be tempted to have sex with another woman in the first place. You don't have sex just like that anywhere. Like for example don't go to her apartment alone. Don't have a private conversation with her alone or have lunch together. Your guy friends are there for that. I feel like a married man or woman should not have friends of the opposite gender. Acquaintances are fine, but as friends you hang out with, hell no. It just opens up the possibility of the friendship GROWING into an affair. I don't want my husband having "lunch" with one of his coworkers. That just is too close contact and can develop a bond between the 2 of them. Also, having close friendships with the opposite sex, takes away the attention from the person you are in a relationship with. Say if my husband and I had an argument, he can easily go the other women to say his frustations making them grow closer instead of say coming back to me and we make up. (That is hypothetical as I'm single). It is important the your significant other is the main person of the opposite sex in your life so most of your attention can be on each other and you can work on the relationship. That "close" friend of the opposite sex can become a distraction in your relationship. I think friends of the opposite sex are not a good idea.

nene1: All women have the same body part down there

i know of quite a lot of peeps that will argue that till eternity
Cheating arent it. It shouldnt be supported.

maclatunji:

Nene, next time you want to post something like this, post it in the family section. The responses you will get here will disappoint you greatly because you are asking people whose mindset and lifestyle is antithetical to what your brilliant piece is trying to point out.

maclatunji:

Nene, next time you want to post something like this, post it in the family section. The responses you will get here will disappoint you greatly because you are asking people whose mindset and lifestyle is antithetical to what your brilliant piece is trying to point out.

maclatunji:

Nene, next time you want to post something like this, post it in the family section. The responses you will get here will disappoint you greatly because you are asking people whose mindset and lifestyle is antithetical to what your brilliant piece is trying to point out.

Dyt:

Clap 4 ursef
u v indeed given a brilliant idea

Killz.:

Why don't you shut tha fcck up? You are dumb if you think that because people post on the romance section, it makes their lifestyle and mindset antithetical. . . Pitiably dumb and fccked up mentality you've got there! Nonsense!

Dyt:

Clap 4 ursef
u v indeed given a brilliant idea

Idowuogbo:
Tunji are u ok? Listen don't get me blasting ur handle ok!

Rubbish!!!!

maclatunji:

Oh my, such discombobulated foul language. Ta! Stop there, spare me the drama, I am not here to fight.

maclatunji: ^Ehen! Someone is feeling funky tonight. Oya show me what you got. I will save it in my database and deal with you in like 30 years time.

You see even if I wanted to fight, I don't fight featherweights like you- so save the drama for your Lama.

A butterfly who thinks himself a bird.

Killz.:

Pls shut up, fool. Mosquito who thinks himself a butterfly