davidylan: find your own unmarried man.

slimyem: hey!
This isn't about me or anybody else in particular right now...
Its just a topic for discussion.
Thanks though.

feminine A: Before a woman delve into marriage with a divorcee especially one that has never been married, she needs to do her research properly. What caused her man's divorce? What re the 'irreconcillable differences'(that's the grammar they use this days) between the man and his formal wife.
The truth is like the yourbas will say its the same rod that was used to beat the 1st wife is the same rod that will be used on the second wife. This research is very important.
Ask outsiders too to be able to come to a firm conclusion.
Then is the woman ready for rejection from the mans kids?
Initially, she will be rejected and also there will be rift between her and the kids especially the mature ones how is she planning to handle it and show the kids she's not a rival?is she ready to share the love of the man with his kids?many at times women marrying divorcees ignore this but it is one of the majoor causes of rift in the home. Your place as a wife is different from their place as his kids never get jealous.

Finally is she ready to take this kids as her own?
Marriage to a divorcee must be handled with a lot of research and preparation and not allow ones emotions be cloud one's sense of judgement.

davidylan:

like i said... for sanity and peace of mind, its better to find your own single spouse.

buchibabe: Its easier for divorced men to remarry witout pplle batting an eyelid

feminine A: Before a woman delve into marriage with a divorcee especially one that has never been married, she needs to do her research properly. What caused her man's divorce? What re the 'irreconcillable differences'(that's the grammar they use this days) between the man and his formal wife.
The truth is like the yourbas will say its the same rod that was used to beat the 1st wife is the same rod that will be used on the second wife. This research is very important.
Ask outsiders too to be able to come to a firm conclusion.
Then is the woman ready for rejection from the mans kids?
Initially, she will be rejected and also there will be rift between her and the kids especially the mature ones how is she planning to handle it and show the kids she's not a rival?is she ready to share the love of the man with his kids?many at times women marrying divorcees ignore this but it is one of the majoor causes of rift in the home. Your place as a wife is different from their place as his kids never get jealous.

Finally is she ready to take this kids as her own?
Marriage to a divorcee must be handled with a lot of research and preparation and not allow ones emotions be cloud one's sense of judgement.

stillwater:

Women are more desperate that's why you'd think divorced men marry easily. Anything is a husband.

Pet79: pls nairalanders i need your help and advise, i just discovered that the girl i have been going out with for almost a year is having an affair with my boss, she was a youth corper serving in another deptarment but the same block. pls i need your advise.

i don't mean to be rude,my boss left his system on and on facebook i saw love messages btw him and girlfriend sorry bad friend

davidylan: find your own unmarried man.

davidylan: find your own unmarried man.

moderattor: what if the son of the man shows up one day in the future 'gerrout of my dads house u witch!'
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[b]@OP You must be crazy marrying a divorced man [/b]when single hungry lions like us are roaring about

slimyem: hey!
This isn't about me or anybody else in particular right now...
Its just a topic for discussion.
Thanks though.

feminine A: Before a woman delve into marriage with a divorcee especially one that has never been married, she needs to do her research properly. What caused her man's divorce? What re the 'irreconcillable differences'(that's the grammar they use this days) between the man and his formal wife.
The truth is like the yourbas will say its the same rod that was used to beat the 1st wife is the same rod that will be used on the second wife. This research is very important.
Ask outsiders too to be able to come to a firm conclusion.
Then is the woman ready for rejection from the mans kids?
Initially, she will be rejected and also there will be rift between her and the kids especially the mature ones how is she planning to handle it and show the kids she's not a rival?is she ready to share the love of the man with his kids?many at times women marrying divorcees ignore this but it is one of the majoor causes of rift in the home. Your place as a wife is different from their place as his kids never get jealous.

Finally is she ready to take this kids as her own?
Marriage to a divorcee must be handled with a lot of research and preparation and not allow ones emotions be cloud one's sense of judgement.

slimyem: is it advisable especially for someone who has never been married?
Does it mean your partner would be more matured?
Is it a recipe for disaster or another divorce down the line?
Would the new family be totally free from the ex-wife/husband especially if there are kids involved?
Please share your thoughts...and save a soul

But_one_day: ''End of discussion'' It is a sin b/4 God, to marry a divorcee.

slimyem: i'm neither crazy nor marrying a divorced man..
Pls refer to this post below

yam:


i become fearful and i dont understand why people dont consider God recipe for marriage

An unmarried man with and unmarried woman before u can marry a divorcee the man or the woman must be died.

Just wondering.