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Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by acidtalk: 11:45pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
With ALL honesty and truthfulness, i am not starting up this thread to diss any lady as i have promised to try not to. But sincerely why do ladies actually find it extremely difficult (except few of them)to take themselves out for a treat. Fast food, Cinema, shopping, lounges, game houses and the rest it is mostly ladies coming with the company of men. i grew up knowing that my parents used to give my sisters money to go out doing shopping, eatery or even window shopping to go and see want they might want. when myself and brother got upset, they always made us know they did that so that NO MAN will ever use material things to deceive them. i Grew up loving pizza through my sisters as way back in the 90s they used to go buy pizza from Double4 in awolowo road in ikoyi and bring it home. Things like Suya, Pizza, Shawama, Hot Dog and french fries are things that my sisters made me love because my parents always gave them money to go buy or bring home for us all. If today i meet any lady, my major turn off is when she always demands to be taken out or demand for a refund of whatever she buys to eat inside her own stomach. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by slimyem: 11:52pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
that a lot of ladies around you don't do that doesnt mean ALL ladies don't do it! I take myself out and have girl's day out with two other girlfriend's many times and its no biggie. Besides,i have seen other girls do the same more than once so this is no point! The only thing is...it is much less fun when you do that alone/with the same sex! |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by Mynd44: 11:55pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
People are different. Most girl don't do it cos guys harass them when they go out alone |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by coogar: 11:59pm On Jun 01, 2012 |
acidtalk: With ALL honesty and truthfulness, i am not starting up this thread to diss any lady as i have promised to try not to. But sincerely why do ladies actually find it extremely difficult (except few of them)to take themselves out for a treat. you must have been staying around riff-raff chics. ladies actually take themselves out more than men....shopping malls, cinema, etc. these days, they go to male strip clubs, nightclubs, pubs, etc. i think you need to leave the cocoon you have shackled yourself into and go out more. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by Flashaldrin(m): 12:08am On Jun 02, 2012 |
coogar:nah, you are the one to leave the cocoon you are bound in. Most girls and i mean like 95% will always demand from guys, its kinda irritating, i mean when you're with a guy and food is the first thing that comes to your mind, it makes a strong statement! |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by tpia5: 12:10am On Jun 02, 2012 |
most of them consider it their privledge, and the same mindset is perpetuated by males, so dont complain. in nigeria, na poverty cause am. Overseas, i dont know what causes it. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by Mynd44: 12:11am On Jun 02, 2012 |
Flashaldrin:That is just he type you see often. I know girls who take themselves out just for the fun of it |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by tpia5: 12:14am On Jun 02, 2012 |
most times the going out is still with the hope of meeting a male. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by coogar: 12:14am On Jun 02, 2012 |
Flashaldrin: you're a product of your environment.... when you are surrounded with vagrants, whores, sluts, skanks, etc....you are bound to see such nonsense. in the last 4-5 yrs, i have not experienced a chic asking me for a meal ticket. most actually bring out their cards to pay almost immediately after i bring mine out. going dutch is the norm these days, i dunno about your razz cocoon but the babes on mine are freaking independent! |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by tpia5: 12:15am On Jun 02, 2012 |
^i think you're lying. in any case, na you sabi- still wont prevent yall from disrespecting women. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by coogar: 12:17am On Jun 02, 2012 |
tpia@: i am not......maybe because it's the brand of chics i am attracted to. a babe has to be a professional to even qualify. i don't do "recharge card" babes, "travel card" babes or "i need £150 to buy brazilian hair" babes. tpia@: tpia, respect begets respect! how do you disrespect a woman who respects herself and the people around her? think about it. the women men disrespect don't respect themselves in the first place. you can only be called what you call yourself. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by slimyem: 12:21am On Jun 02, 2012 |
tpia@:the reasons for going out could be anything ..socialising,fun or whatever. Besides that's not the point of this discussion! |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by acidtalk: 12:32am On Jun 02, 2012 |
Flashaldrin: I don't think the homeboy even needed to be noticed. Its a known fact that even in America and Europe Nigerian girls (most not all) are highly demanding. When i traveled last to UK, a female friend who i haven't seen in over 15years said she wanted to take me round town only for me to realize she was only satisfying her needs. Me wey come from naija na me almost feed she and her friends (one a serving senator and the other an immediate past minister's daughter) These girls are from very comfortable backgrounds but they think demanding is just part of our culture. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by coogar: 12:37am On Jun 02, 2012 |
acidtalk: that babes stay in the uk, america or anywhere else does not mean they have their heads screwed rightly. majority of them are razz but got lucky with their visa applications. i think it's a phase of life. at a point, you would date students(who are mostly broke) and after a while, you would date proper professionals..... that's when you'd see the difference. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by Flashaldrin(m): 12:52am On Jun 02, 2012 |
Coogar we aint talking about professional babes here, most of those professional girls you are yapping about are either married, seriously engaged or plain azz ugly! Most single girls in naija are unprofessionals! |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by tellwisdom: 12:53am On Jun 02, 2012 |
coogar: Bro, on a more serious note--These gurls you speak of, are mostly not from/in Nigeria |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by Flashaldrin(m): 12:54am On Jun 02, 2012 |
tellwisdom:tell the wannabe razz guy |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by tellwisdom: 12:58am On Jun 02, 2012 |
slimyem: the reasons for going out could be anything ..socialising,fun or whatever. Your hope of going out are mainly banked on a man's pocket! Just few amongst you from Nigeria, 2% takes the risk |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by acidtalk: 12:58am On Jun 02, 2012 |
coogar: Guy, i won't wanna reveal too much but let me let you know i dated a student last like 7years ago. All the ladies i have had anything to do with from then till date have all been working class and a professional. A recent relationship with a lady 5 years older and an executive in a bank (senior management position) even got carried away once a while demanding for deliveries of pizza, flight ticket and the rest. of course these are things she could well afford a thousand times over, but i guess she was just being a Nigerian lady. So mr man carry your sophistication go siddon for corner. Don't come here and start bragging about nothing because you don't know who is who okay? Empty Barrel they say does what?? |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by slimyem: 1:07am On Jun 02, 2012 |
tellwisdom:this is nonsense! Please speak english! |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by tpia5: 1:08am On Jun 02, 2012 |
coogar: well ,so far today alone two women have opened threads (within one or two hours of each other) to announce they got scoped by a man. Not the first time they'll open such either. so, i'm guessing the chicks in question (ie your girlfriends) offer to pay probably because they saw you dont look like the paying type. this stuff doesnt depend on nationality either, before you go off on a tangent! |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by tpia5: 1:12am On Jun 02, 2012 |
slimyem: the reasons for going out could be anything ..socialising,fun or whatever. the conversation will almost always inevitably swing round to the elephant in the room- namely men. sooner or later. Besides that's not the point of this discussion it sort of is. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by tellwisdom: 1:22am On Jun 02, 2012 |
slimyem: this is nonsense! You've got to start brushin urself up, so u dont remain a liability fr the rest of ur life |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by coogar: 1:28am On Jun 02, 2012 |
Flashaldrin: Coogar we aint talking about professional babes here, most of those professional girls you are yapping about are either married, seriously engaged or plain azz ugly! most professional babes are married? for feck's sake... you need to go out more, flash! life does not start and end in surulere. acidtalk: of course, women love to be pampered but what separates a proper chic from a skank is what she gives back in return without you asking. from what you have mentioned, you seem to find yourself in a parasitic relationship rather than symbiotic.
the irony.... guess who opened this thread to discuss about women and dates. you are a miserable sod! tpia@: it's a phase in their menstrual cycle. there's nothing new under the sun.
you don't get it, do you? more often than not, i still get to foot the bill but at least there's a genuine intent the dates wanted to pay. which is unlike the stories these dudes are painting....half of their dates didn't even go with their handbags for the date....that's freeloading. they have no intention to pay and they have no plans to even the score on a later date. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by slimyem: 1:29am On Jun 02, 2012 |
tellwisdom:blah! Next please! |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by tellwisdom: 1:40am On Jun 02, 2012 |
slimyem: blah! Advice, taken! right? |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by Nobody: 1:46am On Jun 02, 2012 |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by cindyrella(f): 1:56am On Jun 02, 2012 |
Mtcheeeeew NEXT!!! |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by Ranoscky(m): 2:14am On Jun 02, 2012 |
acidtalk: With ALL honesty and truthfulness, i am not starting up this thread to diss any lady as i have promised to try not to. But sincerely why do ladies actually find it extremely difficult (except few of them)to take themselves out for a treat.Beats me to the marrow. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by Ranoscky(m): 2:16am On Jun 02, 2012 |
Mynd_44: People are different. Most girl don't do it cos guys harass them when they go out aloneNa lie joor! That is NEVER an xcuse for a gal not to go shoppin for HER sef. They r just tight- hand enough to spend for THEIR self. ALWAYS wantin the men to do the billins. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by Ranoscky(m): 2:21am On Jun 02, 2012 |
tpia@:100% correct! |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Extremely Difficult To Take Themselves Out For A Treat? by Ranoscky(m): 2:25am On Jun 02, 2012 |
tpia@:WOW!! From a woman at that. Wonderful!!!! |
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